Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

PTSD from Tinder Ghosting

240 replies

IzzyNeedsHelp · 20/08/2022 10:13

So I don’t know if anyone here has been following this so I apologise if there’s already been threads about it, but if not I wondered what people thought of all the online talk about supernatural forces causing trauma by using online dating to lure women into especially spirit receptive locations, then abuse them in supernatural ways. “ghost in the machine” I think is the phrase when a spirit uses technology in this way. Makes sense when you think about it, why wouldn’t bad spirits adapt to a technological world just like they adapted and haunted ships and aeroplanes etc? It’s logical when you think about my it.

I read several really traumatic accounts from women that had met a man they came to know as “Daniel” on tinder and went to a location to meet him (which was a house in Yorkshire) where once they arrived they were greeted by “Daniel” and he let them into the house, but then he disappeared and the door slammed shut and wouldn’t open. Then for the rest of the night they were haunted in the dark by voices of Demons calling themselves “Legion” and then at last once the women were really frightened the Demons took physical form and basically gang banged the women for hours until dawn. All the women said they kind of just woke up in morning and the door was open and they were in a derelict house.

Not surprisingly all of the women have PTSD about this as well as trauma from being mocked by people who don’t believe them (which I think is really nasty considering the assualt element)

I just wondered if anyone had had any experiences like this or knew anyone who had? And what they made of the whole thing? Also do you think Spirits are now being influence by online misogynistic dating culture and it’s radicalising them to do these kind of extreme hauntings?

I don’t know maybe I wouldn’t use tinder or other popular apps but would use a smaller app for now for safety. I don’t know

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
PolishingCandles · 22/08/2022 08:20

House in Yorkshire you say. Was it 36 Eastfield Drive? And was Ghost in my house playing as they entered? 😂

ParasiticMicrowasp · 22/08/2022 08:40

@ButterflyF58

When I think of the flashes I saw of him, he had a brutal but beautiful appearance that was totally masculine and uncompromising.

Well, in his Wikipedia article, he looks like a bushbaby with the tail of a lizard, if that helps dim his allure at all.

Leafy3 · 22/08/2022 08:46

@ButterflyF58 I am not dismissing your experience because I understand that whatever it was, it was very real for you.

I do think there are two more likely explanations for what you experienced: one is sleep paralysis, which is incredibly real (not just visual hallucinations, one can genuinely feel touch and smell scents) and very frightening.

The second explanation is that you were drugged and assaulted, which is terrible and I for your sake I hope what you experienced was down to sleep paralysis.

Either way, I'm very sorry you had such a traumatic experience.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

DejaVoodoo · 22/08/2022 10:02

This reply has been withdrawn

This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

IncompleteSenten · 22/08/2022 10:28

This reply has been deleted

This message has been withdrawn at the poster's request

You probably wouldn't since she was most probably drinking something Andrew had laced so he could rape her. It's horrific.

felineweird · 22/08/2022 10:45

If @ButterflyF58 is genuine (I know what she says can't be true but if she truly believes it) then she has been drugged and raped - I can't believe people are taking the piss out of that!

DejaVoodoo · 22/08/2022 10:48

Yes, I'm sorry, I was bring a complete idiot. Apologies to @ButterflyF58

Have asked MN to delete my comment.

KatiefromHull · 22/08/2022 10:51

Lost for words ….

MumofSpud · 22/08/2022 10:57

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

This sounds as if he (Andrew) spiked your drink with something that made you hallucinate / trip and then he spoke to you in 3rd person as if it was somebody else hurting you (so he wouldn't feel guilty?)

iklboo · 22/08/2022 17:20

@ButterflyF58 - it does sound like you were spiked and the bastard raped you pretending to be someone / something else. Maybe you said a name or talked about supernatural things at some point. I really hope you got some support or have someone to talk to.

CandyLeBonBon · 25/08/2022 00:46

How is this thread still a thing???

IvorCutler · 25/08/2022 09:16

CandyLeBonBon · 25/08/2022 00:46

How is this thread still a thing???

No one had commented in 3 days?

BarryBantam · 25/08/2022 09:48

Daniel is leaving tonight on a plane

ParasiticMicrowasp · 25/08/2022 10:01

BarryBantam · 25/08/2022 09:48

Daniel is leaving tonight on a plane

Is it an astral plane?

DanielTheGhostGangbanger · 26/08/2022 09:43

* whispers * I’m still here….

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread