@LaDamaDeElche
I saw on the news today about the 11 year old boy who was sent alone by his mother, who couldn't leave as she was looking after her elderly, sick mother, to Slovakia with a phone number written on his hand and some papers. Thankfully he was helped and managed to get to his relatives living over there. It makes you think what you would do in that situation. I have a 12 year old and I have to say, I'd probably leave my mother and go with my child in case anything happened to them. No judgement on the mother at all by the way, but it made me think about what I'd do as I have a child nearly the same age. What would all of you do? It's a terrible choice to have to make.
I assume if she left, her mother would die from lack of care. I am not sure I could abandon my mum if she couldn't sort out food for herself, and just leave her to starve to death. And the UK does baby children to an extraordinary degree, so he may have been far more capable than a typical UK 11-year-old. Desperate situations lead to having to make terrible choices.