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Paul Nicholls - I'm so sad for him.

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MNIS · 23/02/2021 20:17

Posting on AIBU for traffic.

I saw a picture of Paul Nicholls the actor in the paper recently and I've never felt so heart broken for a celebrity before.

As an actor he is 'hit and miss' for me.
I liked him in Earthfast and The Biz when I was a kid and he was a kid.
Found him a bit irritating in EastEnders but I guess that was his character.
Didn't like him at all in most of what he has done to be honest.

However, seeing him in his recent pictures looking so thin and frail almost made me cry.

People were commenting on him being a drink and drugs fiend, no sympathy for him at all.

He's been in showbiz since he was 10 years old or something, he's probably never had any real friends. A few years ago the press were full of praise for him, women drooling all over him.

Now when he seems to have lost the battle to drink or drugs or is recovering from them as well as his horrific accident in Thailand, he has become an object of ridicule :(

I bet he had lots of 'friends' when he had money and acting work. Wonder where all those people are now?!

The woman he is with is being called all sorts of names for being with him, like he doesn't deserve somebody to love him.

The acting industry and the BBC / EastEnders have failed this guy. Yes, he has a responsibility for his own actions, but when you've been hooked on substances from a young age it must be hell to break away from.

It makes me sick that people like him are splattered all over posters and TV but once they are on the decline nothing is ever done to help them.

PN has lost his looks, his nose looks like it has collapsed, he'll never get the TV work he once did and now he isn't even allowed to live a peaceful life with a woman!

I hate the gutter press.

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HeronLanyon · 23/02/2021 23:25

Do you think we should
Contact Paul Nicholas and suggest he does an agressive paparazzi publicity blitz to reinforce that he is not a drug user/isnt sofa surfing/ and still has twinkle in his eye ? No matter if he’s not quite living the home life of our own dear Queen (6 by 4?) think he may want to distance himself a bit given the confusions.

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MNIS · 23/02/2021 23:29

@HeronLanyon

Do you think we should
Contact Paul Nicholas and suggest he does an agressive paparazzi publicity blitz to reinforce that he is not a drug user/isnt sofa surfing/ and still has twinkle in his eye ? No matter if he’s not quite living the home life of our own dear Queen (6 by 4?) think he may want to distance himself a bit given the confusions.

That isn't necessary.
People should learn to read.
I quite clearly spelt the name properly and listed enough credentials for people to have known which one it was.
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HeyGirlHeyBoy · 23/02/2021 23:29

Joe Wicks... Isn't that the fitness guy Grin

I'm also laughing slightly hysterically and wondering if I am confusing myself ar this stage!
But I agree with op it is sad to see... So common amongst child stars.

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Thenose · 23/02/2021 23:33

You're making a lot of assumptions. Why do you assume he's never had any friends? Why do you assume that nothing is being done to support him?

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HeronLanyon · 23/02/2021 23:35

op you did indeed trouble is I immediately thought of Paul Nicholas and last time I saw him he was quite merrily bumbling around India -kochi island I think- and seemed really well so it was just a bit startling to read of drugs and alcohol and sofas and noses and waterfalls and lap dancers etc etc.
It occurred to me PN-as must get this all the time and indeed PNolls too.
He looks rougher but not as bad as I feared when I read your lost. I loathe the daily Mail.

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EternalOptimist7 · 23/02/2021 23:37

The guy in Just Good Friends is Paul Nicholas.

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ThePluckOfTheCoward · 23/02/2021 23:40

@EternalOptimist7

The guy in Just Good Friends is Paul Nicholas.

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Whatafustercluck · 23/02/2021 23:43

I had no idea what happened to him but remember he was a heart throb, hadn't really thought about him until this thread. Agree he's a far cry from how he used to appear. But the most horrific thing was reading about his fall down the waterfall and lying there for 3 days with 2 broken legs. Jeez. Poor guy. 😬

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WidowTwonky · 23/02/2021 23:43

I also thought you meant the Just Good Friends Paul, even after reading your ‘listed credentials’

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Laeta · 23/02/2021 23:44

I thought this thread was about the Just Good Friends Paul too.

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Norwaydidnthappen · 23/02/2021 23:45

I googled the girlfriend he just broke up with and there’s a rather interesting piece about her written by, I assume, Paul Nicholls’ ex best friend on the expose cheaters online website.

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Norwaydidnthappen · 23/02/2021 23:48

It’s quite a funny website, I’ve fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole reading bitter extracts from disgruntled ex partner’s.

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Hailtomyteeth · 23/02/2021 23:49

It's been lovely to catch up on Paul Nicholas. Such a pretty man, in his youth.

Don't know who the other chap is, sorry.

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Welikebeingcosy · 23/02/2021 23:53

This is weird I've been watching old EastEnders with him in it- have never seen him before or heard of him- and was thinking how much my preteen self would have had a crush on him and was wondering what he looked like now and if he would still be someone I would crush on at this age. Thanks for answering that for me!

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Blacktothepink · 23/02/2021 23:57

I loved just good friends...but see you mean the chap that was in Bridget Jones edge of reason 🙄

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MNIS · 23/02/2021 23:59

@Norwaydidnthappen

I googled the girlfriend he just broke up with and there’s a rather interesting piece about her written by, I assume, Paul Nicholls’ ex best friend on the expose cheaters online website.

If this is true - poor Paul Nicholls (the young one).
I guess the ex is referring to himself as the father that is being denied access to the child.
The Delhi escort doesn't make sense, that's a long way to go!
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MNIS · 24/02/2021 00:03

@Welikebeingcosy

This is weird I've been watching old EastEnders with him in it- have never seen him before or heard of him- and was thinking how much my preteen self would have had a crush on him and was wondering what he looked like now and if he would still be someone I would crush on at this age. Thanks for answering that for me!

He was ok looking even about 3 years ago, shocking what has happened in such a small amount of time.

Funnily, I was thinking along the same lines as you when I saw old EastEnders this week, I came across the character Dan, Tony's mate, wonder what he looks like now?!
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TheCrowening · 24/02/2021 00:18

I used to fancy Paul Nicholls.

The racehorse trainer.

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bearfood · 24/02/2021 00:41

@MNIS and @Welikebeingcosy I thought I was the only person who watched old Eastenders...I was about 18/19 when this was first on and thought Dan was so good looking!

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MNIS · 24/02/2021 00:51

[quote bearfood]**@MNIS* and @Welikebeingcosy* I thought I was the only person who watched old Eastenders...I was about 18/19 when this was first on and thought Dan was so good looking! [/quote]
I know!
Underated looks wise.
How come he wasn't on any posters back then?!
I would Google him but no idea of the actors name.

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Welikebeingcosy · 24/02/2021 00:57

Oh really?! Dan just looks so greasy to me with that floppy over waxed hair!! Hahahaha. I love old Eastenders. I'm watching it on UKTV player if anyone is interested. I just saw Arthur Fowler get buried and cried the rest of the day! I think it's worse when you already know what to expect!

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Welikebeingcosy · 24/02/2021 00:58

You could watch an episode with him in it then look out for the credits to see the actor's name.

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MNIS · 24/02/2021 01:01

@Welikebeingcosy

Oh really?! Dan just looks so greasy to me with that floppy over waxed hair!! Hahahaha. I love old Eastenders. I'm watching it on UKTV player if anyone is interested. I just saw Arthur Fowler get buried and cried the rest of the day! I think it's worse when you already know what to expect!

Noooo. He was gorgeous. Annoying character though.
Probably the only time EastEnders has had good looking blokes on - hopefully Dan is faring better than PN.
Also, the girl that plays PN's girlfriend is so pretty.
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MNIS · 24/02/2021 01:04

@Welikebeingcosy

You could watch an episode with him in it then look out for the credits to see the actor's name.

I only watch half an hour during my lunch break.
I have insomnia at the moment that's why I'm on this.
I'll have to make a special effort to watch a full episode and catch his name.
However, I quite like the idea of him in my head. 20 odd years on, I doubt he'll be fanciable in the same way.
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Welikebeingcosy · 24/02/2021 01:12

You don't have to make a special effort you can fast forward to the credits haha

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