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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

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peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

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rainbowstardrops · 29/10/2020 09:23

Oh no! That is heartbreakingly awful. Sending much love to you and your little daughter Thanks

Threepe · 29/10/2020 09:41
Flowers
jrb123 · 29/10/2020 09:47

Flowers All the best.

mamaoffourdc · 29/10/2020 09:50

Sending much love to you and your daughter x

lilfoxfur · 29/10/2020 09:52

I'm so sorry to hear about Mike. I've been following your story. Wishing you so much strength

BeepBoopBop · 29/10/2020 10:00

I am so so sorry Peaches. What an absolute tragedy. Nothing anyone can say will help at this time, but do know that there are many strangers sending you their love at your devastating loss. We read your words, shared your fears and Mike's setbacks and achievements and felt for you each step of the way. All we can offer now is our heartfelt condolences, more love and more support to you and your daughter.

Wyntersdiary · 29/10/2020 10:01

Thats actually got me crying .... I am so sorry,
I am wishing you and your daughter the best possible wishes.

Queenest · 29/10/2020 10:07

I’m so very sorry to read this heartbreaking update Peach.

I hope you have family and friends with you to hold you and support you and your DD

iloverock · 29/10/2020 10:08

ThanksThanks

Marylou62 · 29/10/2020 10:12

I too followed your story and I want to say that I'm so so sorry..sending love to you and your DD

Alfiemoon1 · 29/10/2020 10:19

I am so sorry for your loss

dixiedo · 29/10/2020 10:28

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts are with you and your daughter. X

Dowser · 29/10/2020 10:49

I’d just like to add that I’m so sorry to read your devastating news.
All of you must be reeling with shock.
I know what it’s like to have the sudden death of a loved one and if ever there’s a time you need loved ones around you, it’s now.
Do whatever you need to get some comfort and support.
Again, Im so sorry that this hasn’t had the ending we were all hoping and praying for.
Love to you, your Dd and mike’s family too x

Ilovemypantry · 29/10/2020 10:53

Absolutely heartbreaking 💔. My thoughts are with you, your dear little girl and all your family.

BuffayTheVampireLayer · 29/10/2020 11:40

So sorry for your loss peach Flowers.

DartmoorChef · 29/10/2020 11:47

Im so so sorry ❤️

RalphtheMouth · 29/10/2020 11:49

I’m so very sorry for your loss x

Satsuma2 · 29/10/2020 12:15

I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs from me.

FancyAnOlive · 29/10/2020 12:31

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope your family and friends are able to support you and surround you and DD with love.

TimeIhadaNameChange · 29/10/2020 12:33

I am so very sorry to hear this @peachgreen. Hugs to you and your wee one. xxx

Gingaaarghpussy · 29/10/2020 12:42

Well, shit. I'm so very sorry for you and your dd's loss.Flowers

SoulofanAggron · 29/10/2020 12:46

So sorry for your loss. Flowers Flowers Flowers

Pancakeorcrepe · 29/10/2020 12:51

You poor thing, this is so sad and traumatic for you, I don’t know what to say. You must be reeling and shocked. Sending all my love 💐

ISpeakJive · 29/10/2020 13:26

I am so so sorry Flowers

peachgreen · 29/10/2020 14:00

Thank you all for your kind messages. I don't know what else to say really. The pain is unbearable and it hasn't even really hit me yet. I don't know how I'll go on. He was such a special beautiful, loving person. I adored him. I always will.

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