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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

988 replies

peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

OP posts:
JenniferSantoro · 29/10/2020 06:53

Oh my word, that’s absolutely shocking. I have no words, just thinking of you. I’m so sorry. 💐

BalloonSlayer · 29/10/2020 06:53

I am so sorry Flowers

OhTheRoses · 29/10/2020 06:55

I am so sorry. Flowers.
I Hope family are en-route.

NewYearsEveWedding · 29/10/2020 07:05

Heartbroken for you. No words. Thinking of you
OP. Best wishes.

captainprincess · 29/10/2020 07:05

I am so sorry to read this update, so sorry Thanks

dmango · 29/10/2020 07:05

I’m so sorry I have no others words just feel so sad for you and your little girl, so sorry. X

JacobReesMogadishu · 29/10/2020 07:05

That’s so shocking, I’m so sorry. Flowers

Rockster7 · 29/10/2020 07:06

So very very sorry 💐

mommybear1 · 29/10/2020 07:08

I am so so sorry Thanks

marthastew · 29/10/2020 07:10

I'm thinking of you and I am so sorry

Tupperwarelid · 29/10/2020 07:11

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your daughter love x

cupofteaplease · 29/10/2020 07:14

So sorry to read your devastating news. That must have been terrifying to find him, I can’t imagine how you’re coping. Sending a virtual hug to you and your dd x

Doidontimmm · 29/10/2020 07:24

Flowers so sorry x

McPie · 29/10/2020 07:26

So very sorry for you and your family Flowers

Crockof · 29/10/2020 07:29

I am so very very sorry. It's fucking unfair. Will be thinking of you.

Izzy24 · 29/10/2020 07:31

What a dreadful shock for you. I’m so very very sad and sorry for your great loss.

Flashinggreen · 29/10/2020 07:39

So sorry to read this, much love to you and your DD xx

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 29/10/2020 07:42

Oh @peachgreen am so terribly sorry for you and your family.

Sending you love and strength.
I lost my husband very young-am here if you want to message me and rage or cry.
I suspect you will feel like you have to be brave for everyone but let people around you help-they want to and it will help with the burden of practicalities.
Flowers

Coffeecak3 · 29/10/2020 07:48

I'm so very sorry. I too followed your thread from the start. Thinking of you. Flowers

pennee · 29/10/2020 07:48

Oh Peachgreen that’s’s so sad to hear. I’ve been invested in your updates and was so willing you both on.
Look after yourself and your beautiful little one xx

BroomHandledMouser · 29/10/2020 07:53

I’m so so sorry, I truly am.

Sending all the love in the world to you and your little one xxx

QuacksInTheDark · 29/10/2020 07:58

I wish there were words enough. I’m so sorry peachgreen. Sending love to you and your family.

Rowgtfc72 · 29/10/2020 08:03

So so sorry. Thinking of you and your familyFlowers xx

Tyranttoddler · 29/10/2020 08:04

I'm so so sorry. There is nothing that can be said. It struck me how utterly you love him; how cruel it is that he has been taken from you so suddenly. Really sending love to you and your family.

HappyDogHappyMe · 29/10/2020 08:06

I am so so sorry for your loss. I am in Ards so if I can do anything at all please let me know.