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Asking for a handhold - DH in ICU

988 replies

peachgreen · 04/09/2020 10:56

DH was taken into hospital last night with breathing difficulties. It was pretty minor, the paramedics weren't even going to take him in but we insisted. He's now in an induced coma on a ventilator. He's had 2 negative Covid tests so they don't think it's that but they don't know what it is.

I'm falling apart. He's my whole life. We have a 2 year old who is a complete Daddy's girl. I need him so much. I can't even be with him now because of COVID.

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Whywonttheyletmeusemyusername · 29/10/2020 01:38

I'm so very very sorry to read this latest update....so so sad. My thoughts are with you, your daughter and families

Quietlyloud · 29/10/2020 01:38

I’ve only just found this thread. Reading through those early posts reminded me a lot of when my daughter was in hospital for heart failure. I’m sorry to see that he has passed away, I hope you have the support you need right now.

octoberfarm · 29/10/2020 01:40

Oh OP, I am so incredibly, incredibly sorry for your loss.

AlaskaSometimes · 29/10/2020 02:44

I’m so sorry. There’s nothing that I can say but you can go on. You are stronger than you know ♥️

WingingIt101 · 29/10/2020 03:08

Op I followed your story from the start and am so sorry to hear this news. Sending you strength at this utterly terrible time x

kelpie35 · 29/10/2020 03:16

God bless you and your wee girl.

SheilaWilcox · 29/10/2020 03:19

This isn't fair.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sending strength.

Colouringaddict · 29/10/2020 04:00

I am truly sorry for your loss, life really is shit sometimes. The hand holds from MN will always be available to you x

BrrrIsland · 29/10/2020 04:00

I am so very very sorry. What a loved man he was. I wish I could take some of the pain from you. I hope you have RL support.

ihatesandpits · 29/10/2020 04:01

I'm am so so sorry to read this. I remember your post. Much love to you and your little girThanks

NoWordForFluffy · 29/10/2020 04:37

I'm so very sorry to hear that Mike has died, peach. What a terrible shock for you. Sending you love. Flowers

Holliej · 29/10/2020 04:40

I’m so sorry to read this. I hope you and your DD have some support around you. Thinking of you both. Xxx

Powerplant · 29/10/2020 04:42

I’ve just read your update such a shock and really didn’t expect it. I’m glad he was able to come back home to you and your little girl. So very very sorry for your loss💐

Dontjudgeme101 · 29/10/2020 04:45

I am so sorry, this is heartbreaking news.

Hopeisnotastrategy · 29/10/2020 05:00

So sorry my love. Sending you love and thoughts.xxx

HappenedForAReisling · 29/10/2020 05:16

I'm so, so sorry xxx

Loftyloft · 29/10/2020 05:40

I’m so so sorry for your loss. He sounds a wonderful man, one of life’s good ones. You should be so proud of how you’ve looked after him too these past weeks, he was so lucky to have been so loved. I’m so sorry for you and your daughter.

Teana89 · 29/10/2020 05:49

I am so very sorry @peachgreen. If I could take some of the pain from you I would.

JamminDoughnuts · 29/10/2020 05:53

I am so sorry for your loss @peachgreen Thanks

Coldwinterahead1 · 29/10/2020 06:13

I’m so sorry

HaggieMaggie · 29/10/2020 06:18

Oh my goodness, I just read all your thread and was building up to good news, I am truly shocked and upset for you. I am sending all my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I am so so sorry for your loss. 💐

Milliways · 29/10/2020 06:24

So very sorry to hear your news, sending love x

Roo1000 · 29/10/2020 06:44

This is truly heartbreaking. So, so sorry for your loss xx

heartshapedfaces · 29/10/2020 06:47

Oh OP I’m so sorry to read this, I remember when you first posted. So so sorry

IRememberSoIDo · 29/10/2020 06:50

I woke early this morning and came across your thread. I can't believe your sad news. I'm heartbroken for you all. I hope you have much love and support around you xxx