Uncertainty about who my childs father is?!

[Coralsmith2000]

This is my first post. I had a miscarriage in October at 16 weeks, I am pregnant again now. I didnt know it was possible to get pregnant so soon after a miscarriage... I'm quiet unsure when my last period was (i know around when) and ive slept with 2 different guys... my recent partner 4/5 times a week and this other guy twice over past 2 months ...is there anyway i can figure out who the father may be?? I am so scared it isnt going to be my partners. Any advice please

oh don't be so fucking rude sassy.

@sassysally69 you're just making yourself look stupid.

Sorry to read you suffered a miscarriage it's an awful thing to go through, unfortunately I think the only way your be 100% sure who your baby father is, is to have a DNA test that an awful long time for both pending fathers to wait but you have to take the positive right now you have a little baby growing inside you a blessing you've said you didn't cheat and partner is aware of the situation so for the men it's a waiting game. Good luck

Oh no you didn't shag my exh did you, I know he's been wagging his willy all over town or was it bojo as he's been doing the same?

@PortiaCastis wagging his willy 🤣 haha. That made me laugh 😆

If you had a MC in October and first period on 4 November, what date did you start taking the pill? Unless you started taking it on day 1, they do tell you to use additional contraception for at least 7 days. So it wasn't a contraceptive fail as such, as it probably wouldn't have started working.

I started taking it towards the end of october. No othrr contraceptive was used ??

Nothing wrong at all in sleeping around, but if you are enjoying the odd shag it would be safer to insist on condoms for your own health protection.

Did @evie1990 ever come back and tell us how she worked it out? www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3172951-whos-the-dad

Or @Gabby289
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2461880-Please-help-I-dont-know-who-the-father-of-my-baby-is?pg=3

Or @Aeiel03
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy_choices/2730081-Would-I-be-crazy-to-continue-with-this-pregnancy

Or @Alex18123
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2406472-Ive-been-stupid-Some-perspective-please. Twice:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/2406301-Ive-been-so-stupid-Can-you-offer-perspective

or poor old @Jaydeneb85's sister
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2176100-Help-Sister-pregnant-from-one-night-stand-with-3-different-guys-who-could-be-the-father-Advice-needed

It's a problem as old as time with no real answer outside of dna test.

Can’t add anything useful but OP @Coralsmith2000 have you used your own name and birth year as your user name - if so, people you know may be reading this.

@eBooksAreBooks

Wow, so many people with such a similar dilemma.

OP there is a prenatal DNA test you can have. It's non-invasive and not expensive and would certainly put your mind at rest, should you find out your partner is the father of your child. Alternatively it will give you a chance to decide what you want to do, should the baby's father be the other man.