Why is your friend now an ex friend?

[Callmedarcy]

Mine is an ex friend because

• she borrowed money that she never paid back
• she was only around when she had problems. Vanished when I did.

I became a little obsessed with her....

tierra what utter fucking arseholes. I bet you have beauty. Their characters are riddled with nastiness, ugh. They are truly ugly.

Please do everything you can to honour yourself and connect with your own beauty. Hateful worms like them are not worth your time or attention.

She had a go at me via text message after I texted to tell her I was expecting a baby because she claimed she hardly ever heard from me the whole time I was going through my fertility struggles and subsequent IVF and that it must have been because I was jealous of the fact that she had been able to have children As it happens it was always me who phoned her. Never the other way around. I never displayed any jeslousy toward her or her children.

I told her I was pregnant with my second child while her and her husband were struggling to conceive their second.

No I don't understand how you feel but we have tried so hard to be sensitive for your sake. She said the right things but not seen her or her husband for months. Used to text daily and socialise at least weekly. Spent Christmas together etc. My husband is particularly hurt as he was best man for her husband but the husband hasn't even bothered asking about our ten week old son, never mind actually visiting 😔 turns out he has told a mutual friend that we have just stopped speaking to them 🙄

The most hurtful thing is that they have become new best friends with another couple that also had a second little one. Her brother has also had a second one recently. It seems everyone else can have two children and they be fine with it, but we got frozen out.

20 years of friendship gone like that. I miss them both but am also so angry at the way they have behaved. I'm not yet able to be the bigger person and would rather just leave it than try to address it and no doubt cause further upset.

Thank you Atrocious