Please give me advice. (sensitive subject)

[GlowWorm123]

I have recently found out I am pregnant, unplanned but DP knew we wasn't taking any contraception and happily had sex with me daily. I'd have this baby but he is desperate not too. Realistically, the best thing to do is to terminate but the circumstances we are facing aren't reasons to terminate in my opinion. I am really sorry if this offends anyone, i'm just desperate for advice and absolutely terrified.

If you've read my thread in Pregnancy Choices, you'll have read I had an awful doctors appointment and have been struggling to get advice anywhere. It still hasn't sunk in properly, I don't feel ready to be making such huge decisions that can potentially leave me with everlasting guilt.

DP has now booked me in for an abortion consultation on my behalf (I've never asked him too). He will be pretty much escorting me to my appointments, which I feel obliged to say that I want an abortion.

Is this even allowed? How can another person, make GP/Clinic appointments on behalf of another? What do I do

Well done Glow, you've done it.

Your mum will be so pleased to see you as will your dad. You've been amazing and everyday in SA will be so much better too.

Onwards and upwards.

Wonderful, wonderful news. So pleased for you.

so glad to hear you're at the airport, so relieved! I remember this scan with both of mine, there is no feeling like it.

So so pleased you're there safe and how lovely you saw your baby! Wishing you an easy journey and a lovely welcome home with your mum and dad.

Great update! What a lovely thing, to see your baby for the first time. So glad you're happy eutg your decision.

Stay safe and have a lovely flight

I'm so happy for you, for your baby - and go your parents because I'm betting they'll be so relieved that you came back when they know it all. Safe flight!

Good luck with your newest adventure. You will be a fantastic mum

Just rtft and crying! What an inspirational person you are op

Just read from the beginning - nearly in tears! Brave lady! Wishing you and baby lots of luck xx

I've literally been watching this tread all day to see if there was any news. I'm so glad you are at the airport now. You can sit back and relax now. Have a safe flight.

Good luck OP and stay safe!

I've just read the full thread. I'm so pleased for you. Looking forward to seeing a post that you are with your mum and dad tomorrow. I hope you have a lovely flight.

hopefully you're through security now and on the plane.

and good luck! You're strong, you've got good support, you'll get over this horrible man.

Yay! What a marvellous update. Best of everything to you my lovely.

Oh Glow I'm so pleased for you

Good luck op x

Gosh Glow. What a journey you've been on. MN at its greatest here - hoping you get home safe. Thinking of you. X

Fingers crossed she's through the departure gates and nearly on her way now.
Like others here I have read this thread and have been clock watching all day and checking in here in the hope op has managed to do what was planned.
What a relief

Wow op! Bloody well done

Oh my god you are amazing!!good luck with everything xx

Safe journey and all the best for your futures. You are amazing.

Well done Glow and little GlowGrub :)

I hope you're winging your way back home nice and peacefully about now. Good luck.

Aw Glow, all our best wishes are flying with the two of you.

Well done Glow, you will

Sorry, the rodent stood on my phone there...

...you will be a fabulous mum to GlowGrub. Well done for putting yourself first, you followed your heart instead of your ex's head.

Have a safe journey.