Please give me advice. (sensitive subject)

[GlowWorm123]

I have recently found out I am pregnant, unplanned but DP knew we wasn't taking any contraception and happily had sex with me daily. I'd have this baby but he is desperate not too. Realistically, the best thing to do is to terminate but the circumstances we are facing aren't reasons to terminate in my opinion. I am really sorry if this offends anyone, i'm just desperate for advice and absolutely terrified.

If you've read my thread in Pregnancy Choices, you'll have read I had an awful doctors appointment and have been struggling to get advice anywhere. It still hasn't sunk in properly, I don't feel ready to be making such huge decisions that can potentially leave me with everlasting guilt.

DP has now booked me in for an abortion consultation on my behalf (I've never asked him too). He will be pretty much escorting me to my appointments, which I feel obliged to say that I want an abortion.

Is this even allowed? How can another person, make GP/Clinic appointments on behalf of another? What do I do

I was on your thread back in February

You’ve made my day coming back, such wonderful news now enjoy your life with your precious son and remember you are strong and the only parent he will ever need

I read most of the thread hoping you'd get away and have the room to make you're own choices then saw how long ago it was! Congrats on just everything op, the simple fact you didn't bring up that person you left behind in your latest update says so much. All the best for everything!

Congratulation on your beautiful new son!

I remember your thread, so glad all turned out well for you both. Thank god you were so strong and got back home.

Lovely update OP

As a new mother, i am sure that you realize now Dear Glow, that your mother and father feel honored when you ask for help. We know that dc need independence but children are always our babies. I will never stop willingly when it comes to helping dc. Best wishes and do NOT go back. My dm did and my life was awful. Make a new and lovely life for yourself. Thank you for your strength and love

Thank you for the update OP. I was on here under another NN and remember reading the thread with increasing horror at your XP

Congratulations!! How very, very wonderful!

You are an amazing person! So inspiring! I have just sat and cried reading this. So glad everything worked out for you.

You are an amazing person! So inspiring! I have just sat and cried reading this. So glad everything worked out for you.

What an amazing update! I'm so happy for you

Congratulations! Well done you and thank you for coming back to update. I wish you and your baby the very best xxx

Just think of it this way, in a few days/weeks/months or years, you might not be with this man and you will have aborted a baby that you’re obviously getting attached to, Just because you’re too scared to stand up for yourself. Guilt will never leave you. If you do decide to abort the baby because that’s what you want to do then that’s fine but just realise that you must have wanted one in the first place as you weren’t taking contraception. If you keep the baby and he leaves and you’re on your own at first it will seem daunting but when you feel the baby kick it will melt your heart, and when you see your little baby you will not regret it and you will fall in love completely! Don’t be forced into anything you don’t want to do x

Did you not read the thread zoe?

Congratulations op.

No I have a major habit of impatiently replying before reading everything or looking at dates. I’m thrilled that OP did the right thing, what a strong lady! Very inspirational!x

I cried reading your posts first with sadness and now with happiness. I hope my DD's are as strong as you