What toys should a 9-year-old play with?
The best toys and games for 9-year-olds will feed their interests, utilise their energy and encourage their imaginations. At nine, your child is at that awkward pre-teen age, where they are beginning to feel more grown-up but still love playing with toys. But, of course, every child is different, so you have to pay attention to the activities that light them up, be it arts and crafts, STEM subjects or the natural world. If in doubt, buy them gifts that will challenge their developing minds and bodies, such as brain teaser games or roller skates.
What to look for in toys for 9-year-olds
Delighting a child with the perfect gift is a beautiful feeling, so how can you make sure you get it right every time? Here’s a list of things to think about as you shop.
The child’s interests: Choose a toy that will ignite your child’s interests. Don’t only buy what you would have enjoyed when you were their age. For example, some kids love electronic games; others would prefer a game to play with their siblings. Always take your gift-giving cues from the child.
Ease of use: Choose toys that have comprehensive, easy-to-follow instructions, are easy to assemble and are suitable for the child's age so they don’t get frustrated by it.
Budget: Don’t spend more than you can afford; children don’t need everything on their Christmas list, and hopefully, you have friends and family who will be thrilled to tick a few things off. Always remember that having a fantastic Christmas on a budget is entirely possible.
Batteries and accessories: If your child loves a gift, they will want to start playing with it as soon as possible. So make sure you have the required batteries, chargers and accessories available.
What skills are 9-year-olds learning?
Children of nine will learn new skills rapidly; it’s an exciting time!
They will face more challenging subjects at school and feel more confident as a result.
Your youngster’s need for independence will be increasing.
Their skills of empathy and understanding will be developing.
At nine, a child’s attention span and patience are growing - allowing them to use lots of new skills and develop hobbies.
Writing abilities will blossom so they can express their imagination through the written word.
Their increased reading skills will allow them to follow written instructions and enjoy more complex books.
How to choose toys safely
The RoSPA website is a great place to get home safety advice. Our advice on how to ensure a toy is safe?
Look for the CE or UKCA marks; both guarantee high-quality manufacture and materials.
The Lion Mark is also a good indication of the safety of a toy. It's a sign of membership to a voluntary organisation that manufacturers can only join if your product reaches strict standards.
Check the age suitability - for example, small children shouldn't play with toys with small, detachable parts.
If you buy second-hand, take extra care by checking for sharp edges and points.
How we chose our recommendations
We’ve thoroughly researched the best toys for a 9-year-old you can buy. We’ve included tried and tested toys, games and electronics from a wide range of reliable and trusted sources. Here's how we carefully selected our choices.
Recommendations from real Mumsnet users
Mumsnet community members are determined to make their children happy and support their development; buying gifts they will love is a big part of that. So, we have weighed up our Mumsnetters' recommendations on the toys and games they have purchased for their 9-year-olds and were well received.
Expert opinions
Toys can be expensive, so we were determined that the gift options we recommended are durable, safe and will delight the child. In addition, we investigated the opinions of toy safety and child development experts, plus respected toy retailers.
Authentic customer reviews
Finally, we evaluated the lists of best-selling toys for 9-year-olds and scrutinised authentic reviews from various trusted retailers to see which products were the most highly rated by consumers. Then, we weighed the pros and cons of each of the products on our list to determine which were best suited to discerning children with a variety of interests.
About the author
Lucy Cotterill is a mum of two and Content Writer at Mumsnet, specialising in baby/child and lifestyle product reviews and round-ups. Having written product reviews on her own blog Real Mum Reviews since 2012, Lucy loves to research and explore the pros and cons of baby and child products, scrutinising reviews and consumer feedback to help parents make confident purchases that benefit their families.
Why you should trust us
Our writers always spend hours scouring the Mumsnet forums and online bestseller lists to find amazing products that real parents will love.
Transparency is vital to us, and that's why we're always honest about where we find our recommendations. We write about products that we feel offer the best value to most parents – the ones that our users would recommend to their friends and family.