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Today I discovered that Hinge can delete your account if as a straight male you complain about males appearing in your dating queue…

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/08/2026 01:05

I only discovered this after having made two reports, and it’s Sunday, so I suppose I’ll find out tomorrow if they are going to follow through.

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I'm sure someone will be along in a minute and ask why it has to be a thing in a relationship at all but given the case I’m following through it sort of has to be out there!

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MyrtleLion · 10/08/2026 01:09

I am no longer on the dating market, but I would be delighted to see that in a man's profile.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 10/08/2026 06:31

It's better to be up front about what's important to you and what's a deal breaker for you when seeking a relationship with someone.
I'm not on the dating scene, so I have no idea what Hinge is but it seems weird that if you're a straight male looking for a straight women they would send you the details of people other than straight women, and delete your account if you object.
Nothing makes sense in this world, I'm glad I'm old and well past the need to be fixed up with someone. The way things are heading, I can see our birth rate dropping to zero.

Lexibletheflexible · 10/08/2026 06:34

Ah, you're single and on the apps.

HeimatVonFanatikern · 10/08/2026 06:37

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swimsong · 10/08/2026 06:41

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Who is 'we'?

And what do you think is wrong with the snippet you quoted?

You're claiming to know far more about the OP than has been given, why?

hethor · 10/08/2026 06:43

It's a good idea to filter out omnicause true believers, but your current profile addition is pretty off-putting to other women too

DancingNotDrowning · 10/08/2026 06:46

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I’m confused - is there another thread by this OP?

I’m married so not dating, but I wouldn’t want to date someone who believed in gender nonsense, Pete toy acceptable and sensible in my mind to be up front about that

likelysuspect · 10/08/2026 06:47

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What are you talking about

inyourheads · 10/08/2026 06:48

if I saw that on a man’s profile I’d swipe no. It’s very performative and I don’t need that sort of thing.

HeimatVonFanatikern · 10/08/2026 06:51

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ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/08/2026 06:51

DancingNotDrowning · 10/08/2026 06:46

I’m confused - is there another thread by this OP?

I’m married so not dating, but I wouldn’t want to date someone who believed in gender nonsense, Pete toy acceptable and sensible in my mind to be up front about that

Op from what I remember and as evidenced by user Name ia a supporter and advocate of single sex spaces, especially when it comes to changing rooms and toilets for children.
some people as it seems don’t like that stance.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/08/2026 06:52

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You’re threatening to dox this user?

2026letsgo · 10/08/2026 06:53

It would worry me that you put that on a dating app actually.
Far too intense. If you’re a but much at this stage, the guess is dating won’t be fun either.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/08/2026 06:54

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 10/08/2026 06:31

It's better to be up front about what's important to you and what's a deal breaker for you when seeking a relationship with someone.
I'm not on the dating scene, so I have no idea what Hinge is but it seems weird that if you're a straight male looking for a straight women they would send you the details of people other than straight women, and delete your account if you object.
Nothing makes sense in this world, I'm glad I'm old and well past the need to be fixed up with someone. The way things are heading, I can see our birth rate dropping to zero.

It's not though is it. Many lesbians have complained that dating apps don't allow them to exclude men larping as women from their dating choices

in a world not fucked by TRA madness straight ppl would be able to ask for only the opposite sex, gay & lesbian ppl only fir the same sex and bisexual ppl fur either sex but as TRA believe performing stereotypes outweigh sex they can't

as fur the PP saying SSS statement on women's rights round be off putting to many women 1. I doubt it and 2. So feckibg what if it is? I would personally be put off by a msn who said he was a fervent supporter of Nigel Farage or who thought men could be women but that's on me. Ppl are allowed to have preferences. If it does limit his dating pool that's absolutely no skin of anyone's nose except his

StylesSluttyShorts · 10/08/2026 06:57

hethor · 10/08/2026 06:43

It's a good idea to filter out omnicause true believers, but your current profile addition is pretty off-putting to other women too

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Whereas if I was dating I'd be pleased at that addition.
I've no time for people who go along with gender nonsense.

Igneococcus · 10/08/2026 06:58

And another German username pops up on FWR.

Gretel346 · 10/08/2026 07:00

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/08/2026 01:05

I only discovered this after having made two reports, and it’s Sunday, so I suppose I’ll find out tomorrow if they are going to follow through.

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I'm sure someone will be along in a minute and ask why it has to be a thing in a relationship at all but given the case I’m following through it sort of has to be out there!

If I were single these days I would appreciate your honesty about your political beliefs so well done.

In my view politics is down stream from personality so better to know in advance what you can & can't tolerate to save time. Im not saying all politics is a deal breaker because often people on the different sides just want the same things but disagree on how you get there. But the line is well & truly crossed over equality…which is a massive red flag for not only how this person may treat others but you.

HeimatVonFanatikern · 10/08/2026 07:01

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inyourheads · 10/08/2026 07:03

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I have no idea who the poster is or what they stand for, all I know is this type of thing on a dating profile is a red flag and tells me they are desperate

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/08/2026 07:04

With your other thread op with regards to oh how awful
JKR is… we see you! 😉

likelysuspect · 10/08/2026 07:04

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Are you the queen, why do you keep saying 'we'.

Grandiose much?

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 10/08/2026 07:04

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Who is your royal “we”?

Lexibletheflexible · 10/08/2026 07:05

inyourheads · 10/08/2026 06:48

if I saw that on a man’s profile I’d swipe no. It’s very performative and I don’t need that sort of thing.

Yep. We are all aware of the men who use feminism to try and snare women while still remaining some of the worst men.

Lexibletheflexible · 10/08/2026 07:06

inyourheads · 10/08/2026 07:03

I have no idea who the poster is or what they stand for, all I know is this type of thing on a dating profile is a red flag and tells me they are desperate

He's just some (now confirmed single) dude who is all about women's rights until women disagree with him. Then he strips off his disguise and starts mansplaining to them.

Maisymouse2 · 10/08/2026 07:08

Huh what

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