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Trans Women are Real Women and Should Have Access to Women's Spaces

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user08101988 · Yesterday 12:32

Started because a thread on Girlguiding was getting too off topic.

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Lifelover16 · Yesterday 17:50

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:42

So, trans women are women. I have the evidence too. This is a study done by the NIH looking into the neuro-anatomy of 24 trans women pre-hormone therapy. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

There are also currently a total of 92 sex offenders who are trans women (this is 0.000135% of the population btw).

CNN did research into bathroom issues in the USA comparing states with inclusive laws vs. bans for trans women. They called various police departments and asked for crime data to do with trans people in the bathrooms that correspond with their perceived gender in both types of state. The conclusion showed that the inclusive law states had significantly lower instances of sexual assault in bathrooms as a whole. In the inclusive law states, many police departments reported 0 crimes.

Fatuous statistics, and utterly unreliable evidence.
Only 92 cases of REPORTED crimes. How many unreported?
The neuroananatomy study was 24 people - hardly generalisable is it, and was based on the probability only of transgender women’s (ie men’s) being neuroanatomically similar to women’s brains. Most transgender women were closer to men in terms of neuroanatomy, and the study itself states that transgender women still have male genes and physical characteristics . Did you actually read the study?
And the CNN police study is also ridiculous- states with inclusive laws of course will have no reports, as men in womens toilets is not against the law in these states.

Transwomen are not women in any respect and never will be.

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Apollo441 · Yesterday 17:50

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:44

Yes words have meanings. Cis woman refers to a woman who was registered female at birth.

There is NO other sort of woman. So CIS is redundant.

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:51

Retrolady13 · Yesterday 17:49

I'm wondering why we rarely hear of male identifying women thinking they should use male toilets ...

Because they just go ahead and use them and no one makes a fuss. Well before the EHRC guidance that was. Now there are a lot of trans men having problems at work and stuff.

WrongKindOfFeminist · Yesterday 17:51

EverythingElseIsTaken · Yesterday 17:21

I have a friend who is a trans woman. Her penis has been surgically removed. She looks more feminine than I do (yes I am female as assigned at birth) but the law now states she has to use the male toilets.

My husbands place of work has a trans man. He looks very male, beard, well muscled, deep voice - I was very surprised to learn he’d been born female. Legally he now has to use the female toilets!

Meanwhile I used a toilet this week where a male was cleaning said toilets. A male cleaner is allowed in “female only” spaces but not my very feminine and penis less, trans woman, friend.

Just go in the cubicle, lock the door, do what you need to do, exit the cubicle and wash your hands.

The transwoman is a man, whether or not he has had his penis removed. His presence will alarm many women.

He can use the men's.

Male cleaners are flagged with a sign, because it is understood that many women object to using/can't use these spaces when a man is in them.

InfoSecInTheCity · Yesterday 17:52

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:34

There are lots of subsets of women- white women, straight women, gay women, rich women, skinny women, British women.... etc.

In all of those examples the adjective is describing a woman.

Trans as an adjective points out that the person is NOT a woman because the adjective means ‘opposite of’.

White woman = woman of Caucasian descent
straight woman = woman who is sexually attracted to men
gay woman = woman who is sexually attracted to women
…………..

Trans woman = Opposite of a woman.

Easilyforgotten · Yesterday 17:52

PrettyPickle · Yesterday 16:48

I’m not suggesting dismantling single‑sex spaces at all, quite the opposite. I think single‑sex spaces are essential for safeguarding, dignity and privacy, and they should remain exactly as they are.

My point is that the conversation gets stuck when it’s framed as “either trans women are women and get full access” or “single‑sex spaces must disappear”. That’s a false choice there are other options.

We can keep women‑only spaces and create additional options that include trans people without compromising anyone’s safety. Things like:

  • single‑occupancy unisex toilets
  • individual changing cubicles
  • mixed‑gender facilities alongside women‑only ones
These don’t replace single‑sex spaces, they sit alongside them.

That’s why I keep saying the useful question is about design and policy, not ideology. We don’t need to redefine womanhood or remove boundaries to make sure everyone has somewhere appropriate to go.

To an extent I agree with you, but the problem arises when you have those who don't want to use the new spaces and are adamant that, despite the evidence to the contrary, they have a fundamental right to use the single sex facilities that match their perception of themselves, and not their demonstrable real sex.

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 17:52

JulietteHasAGun · Yesterday 17:50

@user08101988 out of interest do you think Ian Huntley is a woman because he says he is? Or do you think he may be pretending to get an easier life inside?

When the papers reported his death, they called him "he".

How transphobic. Murderers just don't get any respect these days...

DrBlackbird · Yesterday 17:52

GreyskySexRealistsky · Yesterday 17:30

🏆for the fastest filling thread OP!

It's almost like people really care about this stuff!

(however much we are told they don't)

Such a shame voting wasn’t enabled.

Also…So much hate & vitriol & so little time & patience for nuance & discussion used to characterise FWR but never any actual examples provided alongside a sweeping dismissal of some of the most nuanced discussions I’ve ever read… it is a shame when the critics refuse to read, think or engage.

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:52

Ereshkigalangcleg · Yesterday 17:49

They are though. See the Equality Act 2010.

Shall we go through this again...

Prarie · Yesterday 17:53

Summeriscumin · Yesterday 12:41

No penises in women only spaces. It's not hard.

Well, it probably is hard when they're in women only spaces.

Scaryspicer · Yesterday 17:53

No

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CompleteGinasaur · Yesterday 17:54

SodThisHeadache · Yesterday 17:41

pantomime horses are horses!
snapdragons are dragons!
ladybirds are birds!

Clown fish are clowns! Hang on a minute..

DialSquare · Yesterday 17:55

Prarie · Yesterday 17:53

Well, it probably is hard when they're in women only spaces.

Yep. And there’s plenty of evidence online to prove it.

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 17:55

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:34

There are lots of subsets of women- white women, straight women, gay women, rich women, skinny women, British women.... etc.

Men who want to be women however is not a subset of women. It's a subset of men.

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 17:55

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Ereshkigalangcleg · Yesterday 17:56

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:52

Shall we go through this again...

Feel free. If it’s not clear, just like “trans women” are in fact men when it comes to single sex spaces and the rest of the provisions in the Equality Act 2010, so are “trans men” women.

chaosmaker · Yesterday 17:56

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:53

They are biological females due to this study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

Also, if you think stripping down what women are to their body parts, that's what feminists fought against for years. Now women can get jobs, start bank accounts, own property, and so many more things. This is a very regressive view of what women are.

Surely only real women know what they are, I couldn't be a man because I'm not one.

SoTired12 · Yesterday 17:56

No

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Yesterday 17:56

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:51

Because they just go ahead and use them and no one makes a fuss. Well before the EHRC guidance that was. Now there are a lot of trans men having problems at work and stuff.

No. Trans-identifying women are female, so of course they belong in women’s facilities. A woman using the men’s does not prove that women should accept men in theirs. It proves this ideology gets sex wrong in both directions.

The obvious answer is sex-based facilities, with a separate private option where needed. Why is that apparently harder than pretending male and female are interchangeable?

ThatCyanCat · Yesterday 17:57

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:46

I have no idea what this means

Then the conversation is beyond your comprehension. Come back when you've figured out which one of your parents is your mother.

OneDreamyAquaEagle · Yesterday 17:57

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:30

It's not an insult any more than "white" or "straight" is an insult .

Women are not a subset of our own sex class. It's an insult to suggest we are.

Binnyforthewin · Yesterday 17:57

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 17:55

Men who want to be women however is not a subset of women. It's a subset of men.

Being a man is fact the only real qualifying criteria you need to meet to become a transwomen.

Daisymail · Yesterday 17:59

No

swimsong · Yesterday 17:59

user08101988 · Yesterday 12:53

They are biological females due to this study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

Also, if you think stripping down what women are to their body parts, that's what feminists fought against for years. Now women can get jobs, start bank accounts, own property, and so many more things. This is a very regressive view of what women are.

Got any tips for distinguishing trans-identified males from sexually motivated cross-dressers?

Sunnibee · Yesterday 17:59

OneDreamyAquaEagle · Yesterday 17:57

Women are not a subset of our own sex class. It's an insult to suggest we are.

Again, there are a lot of "subsets" of women, white women are a subset of women. Straight women. Old women. Young women. These are not insults.

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