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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Owen Jones on Facebook

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storminabuttercup · 24/05/2026 09:38

‘If trans women use men’s toilets, they will be subjected to humiliation, abuse and violence.

Anyone with any sense knows this.

Which is why in practice trans women will not use men’s toilets, and will just increasingly be driven out of society.’

let’s just drive women out of society then eh? Because the same stands for women having to share with men in dresses ffs

have I missed something btw? Seems a random
post for a Sunday morning

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loislovesstewie · 25/05/2026 11:09

It's some mental gymnastics by OJ to think that a man going into the gents is in danger from other men, but a man going into the ladies isn't a danger to women. Perhaps he's totally cowed by the women in his life!😂😂😂

moto748e · 25/05/2026 11:13

They are not 'left without facilities',

Are these desired 'faciities' things like bins for sanpro that they can rummage through?

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 11:34

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 10:22

JKR on Owen's latest is up to her usual standard.

J.K. Rowling
Follow the logic. Women are deluded and naive for thinking predatory and violent men can be kept out of women-only spaces. ‘They can rape you anywhere.’ However, trans-identified men can only be safe in women-only spaces, because no abuser would ever follow them in there.

OJ is backchatting JKR. He still doesn't get it.

Owen Jones
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The risk of a trans woman being abused or assaulted in the men’s toilet per visit = extremely high.

The risk of a woman being abused or assaulted in the women’s toilet per visit = extremely low.

You are proving the point. A way higher larger percentage of men are violent criminals. We know that. Sort that out. Maybe men need to pay for bouncers in the toilets since men are so crazy.

However I don't think toilets for guys are that dangerous.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/05/2026 11:35

fromorbit · 25/05/2026 11:34

OJ is backchatting JKR. He still doesn't get it.

Owen Jones
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The risk of a trans woman being abused or assaulted in the men’s toilet per visit = extremely high.

The risk of a woman being abused or assaulted in the women’s toilet per visit = extremely low.

You are proving the point. A way higher larger percentage of men are violent criminals. We know that. Sort that out. Maybe men need to pay for bouncers in the toilets since men are so crazy.

However I don't think toilets for guys are that dangerous.

He has absolutely no evidence for that.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:36

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 25/05/2026 10:32

Why is it only the Ladies that becomes a Gender Neutral Toilet, why is it never the Men's.

Perhaps because this is a male rights movement and anything women have has been given to them as a grace and favour by the men, so the men can take it back when ever they want.

That's the feeling I'm left with because of this codswallop, it just a reminder of women's place in the world, which is under the male thumb.

OJ is a failed mediocrity, his brain is so squirrelly, he's Queer's for Palestine level stupid.

To be fair it's probably because the men's contain urinals, and the women's only have cubicles (where we know nothing untoward can ever happen because they're cubicles, right, and who cares who's peeing next to you...).

The additional issue that the queue for the women's is always twice as long as the men's, even before you start inviting all and sundry in, is of course never given any consideration.

Edited to add: that famous photo of Eddie Izzard in the queue for the women's toilet wouldn't happen with a woman queueing for the men's, because there is never a queue for the men's!

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:39

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:36

To be fair it's probably because the men's contain urinals, and the women's only have cubicles (where we know nothing untoward can ever happen because they're cubicles, right, and who cares who's peeing next to you...).

The additional issue that the queue for the women's is always twice as long as the men's, even before you start inviting all and sundry in, is of course never given any consideration.

Edited to add: that famous photo of Eddie Izzard in the queue for the women's toilet wouldn't happen with a woman queueing for the men's, because there is never a queue for the men's!

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The mens have urinals AND cubicles. Anyone with half an ounce of sense would have changed the men's to gender neutral years ago.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:41

@Shedmistress I don't understand your post. Women don't want to walk past men pissing in urinals to get to the cubicles.

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:51

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:41

@Shedmistress I don't understand your post. Women don't want to walk past men pissing in urinals to get to the cubicles.

Women won't go near them yes. They will use the womens.

Whereas men can. Even men who say they are women.

It is the simplest solution to the problem.

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:53

Oh I see. As long as women understand that "gender neutral" is a code for "actually the men's"!

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:56

SwirlyGates · 25/05/2026 11:53

Oh I see. As long as women understand that "gender neutral" is a code for "actually the men's"!

That's what gender neutral does actually mean.

moto748e · 25/05/2026 12:01

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:39

The mens have urinals AND cubicles. Anyone with half an ounce of sense would have changed the men's to gender neutral years ago.

I don't really understand this either. What is it about current design of men's toilets that you think is unsatisfactory? Or do you mean, leave the toilets as is, but rename them from Mens to Gender-Neutral (ho ho ho)?

I remain unconvinced by this 'not safe in the Mens' argument. Men's toilets can be dirty and smelly, but I am old, and I have never, in my life, seen any act of violence in a toilet. Which is not to say they never happen, of course. But high-risk? Only for the delicate flowers who find getting out of bed in the morning a challenge, I'd say.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 12:06

Irrelevant now anyway, the guidance has landed and is clear, there have to be single sex and gender neutral provided.

Those happy to use gender neutral will be fine, they can crack on, and those who need single sex spaces for access will also be fine. Possibly understanding a little more about why these 'delicate flowers' exist might be enlightening, but whatever, those flowers aren't delicate enough to care about sneering so long as they can have accessible facilities too.

One of the historically given reasons against gender neutral facilities being the answer (now they are, and obviously the only fair and reasonable one), was activists claiming that if women were permitted to have a single sex facility alongside a gender neutral one, they'd all choose the single sex facility and not want to go in the gender neutral one which would be unpleasant and 'outing' for people with gender identities. This kind of doesn't jive with the whole 'weird delicate flowers, gender neutral is the way for all normies' kind of thing.

I guess we'll see whether women passionately supportive of and happy with gender neutral do go there, or whether the activist concern is proven right. Or whether women's ongoing experiences of gender neutral facilities in action means that they become less keen and go back to the single sex option. Which, thankfully, the 'delicate flowers' fought for, and will be there for them should they ever need it.

Yay the delicate flowers, eh?

Justme56 · 25/05/2026 12:09

OJ doesn’t want to understand though does he. Obviously the single sex exceptions were set up for a reason and someone somewhere must have thought about which spaces were places where women would be more vulnerable. At what age does he think male children are safe to use the men’s toilets by themselves I wonder?

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 25/05/2026 12:16

Male violence means the set up of male toilets as one large room designed for multiple people to use at the same time, is not safe for more vulnerable members of the male community. I have no problem accepting that, what I don’t accept is that a) the only males who are vulnerable to male violence in a public toilet are transwomen and b) the only solution is to put transwomen in female toilets.

This set up of toilet facilities is risky for many men who are vulnerable to male violence. Therefore the solution needs to be a redesign of male toilets /spaces.

Exactly how bathrooms should be redesigned (possibly removing urinals, or changing to individual rooms not several loos in one room, or different layouts etc) is something men should sort out and I would fully support trans organisations campaigning to make male bathrooms safer for transwomen.

I am sick of the problem in this debate not being male violence and people like OJ thinking the problem is women not trying to fix the problems caused by male violence.

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 12:17

moto748e · 25/05/2026 12:01

I don't really understand this either. What is it about current design of men's toilets that you think is unsatisfactory? Or do you mean, leave the toilets as is, but rename them from Mens to Gender-Neutral (ho ho ho)?

I remain unconvinced by this 'not safe in the Mens' argument. Men's toilets can be dirty and smelly, but I am old, and I have never, in my life, seen any act of violence in a toilet. Which is not to say they never happen, of course. But high-risk? Only for the delicate flowers who find getting out of bed in the morning a challenge, I'd say.

Cross out 'gents'.

Laminate a sign saying 'Gender Neutral'

Stick sign up

Done.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/05/2026 12:37

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 11:56

That's what gender neutral does actually mean.

Yep. Women don’t want to use gender neutral toilets. I was in a queue for the ladies at a museum and staff pointed out that the gender neutral toilet was free. Not one single woman moved from the queue to use the gender neutral toilet.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/05/2026 12:37

Owen is getting a huge pushback on twitter which is heartening to see.

RhannionKPSS · 25/05/2026 12:38

ShutupLwren · 24/05/2026 12:30

The man is a fucking grifting plank.
Here is an idea, if you recognise male violence is the issue, then ask men to deal with it. We’ve got enough shit to do Owen. FWIW I think unisex toilets in places in the answer. Unisex sporting category’s and unisex prison wings. If people don’t like it tough. Compromise isn’t for everyone but it solves the issue, crack on.
I am a lefty, I want decent healthcare, welfare for those in need, I want decent education and I’m absolutely not opposed to those who work hard in crappy jobs getting government reprisals because the pay that carers, retail, cleaners get is so shite. I’m all for worker rights and protecting the vulnerable and not going into any wars. I’m anti austerity. Yet, Owen Jones makes me queasy. I remember him writing about the demonisation of chavs. Being from social housing/scummy chavvy family etc I agreed with lots of things he said. But he still irked me. Some people just have grifter energy and OJ is one.

Why on earth should there be “ unisex prison wings”? There should be no men in women’s prisons, they should be on their own separate “ trans women “ wing in men’s prisons

Shedmistress · 25/05/2026 12:48

RhannionKPSS · 25/05/2026 12:38

Why on earth should there be “ unisex prison wings”? There should be no men in women’s prisons, they should be on their own separate “ trans women “ wing in men’s prisons

That was a follow on from 'What Little Owen Wants'.

storminabuttercup · 25/05/2026 12:51

The whole talk of a third space (fourth really) is irrelevant though isn’t it? They don’t want to use the a neutral space, they want us to accept they are women, let them into our space so we can tell them we like their frocks while we was our hands, they get a kick out of it.

theres a lot standing up to him but a heck of a lot saying ‘I don’t mind if trans women use the same loo as me’ like they have the final say. Most women do mind they just aren’t shouting about it because you get labelled a terf

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RareGoalsVerge · 25/05/2026 13:00

storminabuttercup · 25/05/2026 12:51

The whole talk of a third space (fourth really) is irrelevant though isn’t it? They don’t want to use the a neutral space, they want us to accept they are women, let them into our space so we can tell them we like their frocks while we was our hands, they get a kick out of it.

theres a lot standing up to him but a heck of a lot saying ‘I don’t mind if trans women use the same loo as me’ like they have the final say. Most women do mind they just aren’t shouting about it because you get labelled a terf

It's not irrelevant because it disarms the "just want to pee" argument. We know that for some It's about the fetishistic thrill and for others it's about the power to command people to lie while for some they are so deep-sunk into their delusion that it's dangerous not to play along (like the ward full of Napoleons in the asylum) but they can avoid talking about all those if there aren't readily available 3rd/4th spaces.

It really doesn't matter how many women declare that they are happy sharing facilities with a transwoman. None of them have the right to consent on behalf of a woman who doesn't or remove her right to a single-sex option.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 25/05/2026 13:02

But it's over now. The law is there, the guidance is clear.

Men cannot enter women's single sex spaces however they identify, and additional gender neutral facilities must be provided.

ItsCoolForCats · 25/05/2026 13:06

And he has also come out with this corker 🙄🙄

https://x.com/i/status/2058844165547442274

Owen Jones is not stupid. Of course he can see the gaping flaws in his own arguments. It must be exhausting trying to justify this to himself.

Owen Jones (@owenjonesjourno) on X

@PaulBlack2022 Well no, there’s a risk in every scenario isn’t there? A c*s man could claim to be a trans man in a woman’s toilet for a start!

https://x.com/i/status/2058844165547442274

storminabuttercup · 25/05/2026 13:15

RareGoalsVerge · 25/05/2026 13:00

It's not irrelevant because it disarms the "just want to pee" argument. We know that for some It's about the fetishistic thrill and for others it's about the power to command people to lie while for some they are so deep-sunk into their delusion that it's dangerous not to play along (like the ward full of Napoleons in the asylum) but they can avoid talking about all those if there aren't readily available 3rd/4th spaces.

It really doesn't matter how many women declare that they are happy sharing facilities with a transwoman. None of them have the right to consent on behalf of a woman who doesn't or remove her right to a single-sex option.

Yeah I worded it badly but it’s not what they want!

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