while the voices of trans people have been almost completely absent.
😂😂😂
A demonstration of a significant degree of isolation from reality if ever I saw one.
by asking gotcha questions
Any difficult question has now become a 'gotcha question'. Once upon a time a 'gotcha' was a planned trap, and perhaps not a particularly honest one - often used for e.g. cornering a politician with questions designed to make them unambiguously condemn, say, taking backhanders, before presenting them with evidence of their own grift. Or - the really unscrupulous version - asking some questions, guiding someone down a track with them saying, 'Well, to a point I agree, but with XVZ caveats... No, that's not precisely how I'd phrase it...' before metaphorically kicking them in the shins by accusing them of saying things they hadn't really said: 'So, Mr Smith, you admit that...' when Mr Smith hadn't really done so.
But yesterday I saw a complaint about how a podcast host asked 'gotchas' of people he had somehow lured onto his podcast who had a different viewpoint from him (his views are no secret, and are easy to find). From my POV he'd have a robust but very civil discussion, and then say, 'Okay, so we have established that you think A, B and C. But what about D, E and F [which said host has wanged on about for years] - surely these cannot be ignored?' And that's apparently a 'gotcha': a reality-based question which you might have expected, but to which you have no reply other than flannel.
Saying, 'Oh, he asked me a gotcha question!' is a way of saying, 'The person who was asking me questions is very mean, not entirely honest, and should be ignored!'
Waily-flipping-wail. Without robust, open, honest debate, we'll never move forward.