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The Bluestocking Pub: Infinite Cocktails, Questionable Logistics

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MyrtleLion · 16/05/2026 19:56

Welcome to the nth iteration of the Bluestocking women’s pub, where gerbils are staff, the drinks are free, and alcohol has no effect except to get you to the sweet spot just before the drink you really shouldn’t have had.

Men can go to the Staunch Ally next door.

It’s OK if you don’t understand. Just assume everything is normal.

Previous thread is here:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5523989-bluestocking-womens-pub-its-maytime

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ErrolTheDragon · 23/05/2026 09:30

DeanElderberry · 23/05/2026 09:14

optimistic to assume that if Colin finds 3 sausages and half a pork pie that they will subsequently be available for consumption by anyone else

Colin is efficient and tidy-minded.

Quite so. In the past I had a small child, a dachshund and a nanny. When the latter came back to see us she commented how much more floor cleaning under the high chair of her new charge was required. Grin

AngleofRepose · 23/05/2026 09:41

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2026 09:08

On the bus from Fife to Glasgow to meet up with an American lockdown Zoom pal - a few ladies meeting for lunch.

Took the early bus to avoid the Dunfermline fans - it’s cup final day.

Won’t arrive until 10.30, given the number of stops. However it avoids the stress of city driving and parking and I’m using my pensioner pass, so all good.

You're braver than I am! I won't go near the city when any kind of event is on, which requires an awful lot of calendar shenanigans, as there are SO many events all the time. I have to write the largest events in my diary so I won't forget (I'm not kidding). It also affects when/if I go to London, because there is, practically speaking, only one route in and out of South Wales. On match/concert days (and the day before, and the morning after), it can be impossible or very stressful to travel.

I hope you have a lovely lunch nonetheless 🙂

ChristmasStars · 23/05/2026 09:46

DeanElderberry · 23/05/2026 09:14

optimistic to assume that if Colin finds 3 sausages and half a pork pie that they will subsequently be available for consumption by anyone else

Colin is efficient and tidy-minded.

That's one way of putting it!

MarieDeGournay · 23/05/2026 09:47

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2026 09:08

On the bus from Fife to Glasgow to meet up with an American lockdown Zoom pal - a few ladies meeting for lunch.

Took the early bus to avoid the Dunfermline fans - it’s cup final day.

Won’t arrive until 10.30, given the number of stops. However it avoids the stress of city driving and parking and I’m using my pensioner pass, so all good.

That sounds lovely, WAW, hope you have a lovely day.

Fascinating final - Martin O'Neill v Neil Lennon - they go way back as manager/player! I hope their friendly personal relationship is reflected in how the fans behave.

Martin O'Neill went to the same school - St Columb's, Derry - as two Nobel Prizewinners -John Hume and Seamus Heaney. Also Brian Friel; Paul Brady; Phil Coulter; Seamus Deane; Colum Eastwood MP and many more poets, politicians, social reformers.
A stellar Past Pupils' UnionSmile

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 09:48

<slips Colin some breakfast bacon>

I used to be able to tie a bowline. I know what a jam cleat is, and I can use a winch. Also, have some limited experience steering largish vessels under sail.

DeanElderberry · 23/05/2026 10:00

MarieDeGournay · 23/05/2026 09:47

That sounds lovely, WAW, hope you have a lovely day.

Fascinating final - Martin O'Neill v Neil Lennon - they go way back as manager/player! I hope their friendly personal relationship is reflected in how the fans behave.

Martin O'Neill went to the same school - St Columb's, Derry - as two Nobel Prizewinners -John Hume and Seamus Heaney. Also Brian Friel; Paul Brady; Phil Coulter; Seamus Deane; Colum Eastwood MP and many more poets, politicians, social reformers.
A stellar Past Pupils' UnionSmile

The girls' school in the same city produced Dana and Nell McCafferty and Lisa McGee, and is (sort of) the model for the school in Derry Girls.

Something in the water.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 23/05/2026 10:28

Oh dear! A jam cleat sounds to me like something akin to a scone, which needs a blob of cream on top, so I think that lets me out of any maritime activities Grin

I did, however, used to be a keen toxophilite and could undertake to fire an arrow attached to a rope through the window of a prison cell - the rope to be used by the capybaras to pull out the window bars. I would need a bit of practice first though and I never do anything involving fruit balanced on body parts these days - not since the Kettlewell incident Grin

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 23/05/2026 10:30

Your trip out sounds lovely WAW. Have a great day.

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2026 11:20

AngleofRepose · 23/05/2026 09:41

You're braver than I am! I won't go near the city when any kind of event is on, which requires an awful lot of calendar shenanigans, as there are SO many events all the time. I have to write the largest events in my diary so I won't forget (I'm not kidding). It also affects when/if I go to London, because there is, practically speaking, only one route in and out of South Wales. On match/concert days (and the day before, and the morning after), it can be impossible or very stressful to travel.

I hope you have a lovely lunch nonetheless 🙂

It was the American lady who arranged the date…and then I realised…

Umpteen Dunfermline fans and one lad wearing a Celtic shirt and ear defenders got at Buchanan Street.

Now getting a coffee At Buchanan St Galleries.

Think I looked a bit panicky. First time in Glasgow since DH died. Could feel a wee bit vertigo coming on. Lovely security guard stepped forward and asked if I needed directions. God bless him.

MarieDeGournay · 23/05/2026 11:58

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2026 11:20

It was the American lady who arranged the date…and then I realised…

Umpteen Dunfermline fans and one lad wearing a Celtic shirt and ear defenders got at Buchanan Street.

Now getting a coffee At Buchanan St Galleries.

Think I looked a bit panicky. First time in Glasgow since DH died. Could feel a wee bit vertigo coming on. Lovely security guard stepped forward and asked if I needed directions. God bless him.

FlowersTake care, WAW , it sounds like a challenging return to the city- but you've already met one nice person, and soon you'll be in friendly company, so the rest of the day should go grand💙

PastaAllaNorma · 23/05/2026 12:09

Angle, we have to get the train from Flint when we're going to Cardiff for 6 Nations. By the tim we've done 6 more stops, there's not even standing room on the train and it's like a game of sardines

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 13:09

Sadly, I have noticed that the asparagus season is coming to an end. I've eaten my bodyweight of it in the past 6 weeks or so - the nearest shop sells local stuff and I've been given even more local stuff by a neighbour (she went away for a few days and a surfeit sprouted in her absence).

I was out in the garden earlier and looked up in time to see a raptor sweep by overhead. Too small to be a buzzard (also wrong shape), too big to be a kestrel, so probably a sparrowhawk.

A few days ago I was down in the meadows where I saw a crow chase a buzzard away a few weeks ago. I glanced up and saw a buzzard. No sooner had I said, 'Oh, you're back' than two crows appeared from the trees by the stream and formed up into an unwelcome committee. The buzzard turned around, flew back over them from whence it had come, and buggered off sharpish.

MyrtleLion · 23/05/2026 13:46

We've only had it once 😭😭😭

But we're on salads now so I'll ask the Walrus to get some this week.

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MyrtleLion · 23/05/2026 13:53

The Box of Distractions
In which The Bluestocking prepares for a rescue that is clearly unnecessary...

By early evening, the Bluestocking had reached the stage of crisis where enthusiasm had completely overtaken proportionality.

Maud was attempting to calm the increasingly theatrical panic by pointing out that Gosie had merely been arrested and that Hedgehog and Octavia Briefcase would sort everything out shortly.

Nobody appeared to be listening. In fact, this seemed to have enthused everyone further.

One of the gerbils had started painting tiny semaphore flags. A capybara arrived carrying more rope. Somebody else was attempting to teach the Choirbils a sea shanty in canon form.

Down by the harbour, @Swashbuckled continued preparing for maritime extraction anyway.

Additional volunteers had begun arriving at alarming speed.

@EdithStourton announced that she could tie a bowline, knew what a jam cleat was, could use a winch, and had some limited experience steering largish vessels under sail.

Swashy nodded once. “You’re aboard.”

@RandomHypatia declared that if the rescue operation involved conic sections or long division, she was the fourth-century woman for the job.

@Magpiecomplex offered “anything sparkly.”

@MarieDeGournay announced that she would remain in the Bluestocking and think deeply about the Gosie situation in French. Nobody objected. It sounded extremely intellectual.

Meanwhile, Brains had become distracted by a dropped sausage roll and was reconsidering whether maritime rescue aligned with her broader personal goals.

Then @AngleofRepose walked back into the Bluestocking carrying a golden box. Everyone looked at it.

“What’s the box for?” asked Maud.

“It’s a Box of Distractions,” said Angle, sitting down carefully with it beside her.

“A box for distractions?”

“No,” said Angle patiently. “A Box of Distractions.”

This clarified absolutely nothing.

“What does it do?” asked a gerbil.

Angle shrugged. “Carmela the Camel gave it to me. Because Reasons.”

Swashbuckled accepted the box immediately. “Excellent,” she said.

Meanwhile, in Plymouth, the Bank Holiday evening was glowing gold across the Hoe. Café Roma was still busy beneath the trees opposite the courts. Hedgehog and Octavia Briefcase had already secured a table outside. Several nearby tourists were pretending not to stare at Octavia while very obviously staring at Octavia. Hedgehog appeared not to notice. Octavia appeared entirely accustomed to it.

AngleofRepose arrived carrying coffee, flapjack and a paper copy of the Daily Gerbil folded beneath one arm. She set the tray and the newspaper down on the table. On the front page was the photograph of Gosie in the back of the police car looking terrified while Kevin screamed through the window beside her.

Octavia glanced at the tray. “That flapjack,” she observed, “is emotionally manipulative.”

Kevin and Steve were already nearby. Kevin landed heavily beside the table. “CALAMARI,” he announced darkly. Steve stole half of Hedgehog’s flapjack.

Octavia watched them carefully. “I don’t think those are normal seagulls.”

“No,” said Angle. “Those are Kevin and Steve.”

Across the road, Charles Cross police station shimmered quietly in the evening heat.
Hedgehog stood up. “Let’s go and retrieve our gerbil.”

At the custody desk, the sergeant, a broad-faced polecat with silvering whiskers, studied the newspaper photograph. “Name?”

“Gosie,” said Hedgehog.

Typing. Pause. More typing.

The sergeant frowned slightly. “Surname?”

“Bluestocking,” said Hedgehog automatically.

The sergeant raised an eyebrow, then checked a second screen. Then a third. “No arrest record,” she said.

“That’s impossible,” said Hedgehog.

“We’ve checked twice.”

Octavia Briefcase reached for the newspaper and carefully studied the photograph for several long seconds. Then she pointed at one of the police officers in the photo. “The uniform buttons,” she said. “They’re too shiny.”

The sergeant leaned forward to look. Another silence. Then she said quietly, “…those aren’t police uniforms.”

Hedgehog went cold. “Gosie’s been kidnapped.”

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/the-box-of-distractions

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DeanElderberry · 23/05/2026 14:09

the thick plottens. I trust Gosie to keep her head.

And in the other world, I walked down to my friend's funeral, and was pleased to see a guard on honour assembling one the outskirts of the village, mostly Springer spaniels, some other dogs, and as many men as they could keep under control with or without leads.

Nearer the church there was a second guard of honour of teachers and past pupils of the school he'd worked at for more than 30 years, ultimately as principal.

Inside we heard of his love of his familt, of his small hill farm, of playing cards with his neighbours, of his post retirement job as gamekeeper on the largest of the lake islands, and of his enthusiasm for gaelic games, including a football career that saw his playing for three different parishes in one year in the 70s, once under a false name. A good mix of laughter, tears and nostalgia. There were at least 300 at mass, and people who were at the funeral home last night said there were many more there.

Sad, but good also.

RandomHypatia · 23/05/2026 14:12

WearyAuldWumman · 23/05/2026 11:20

It was the American lady who arranged the date…and then I realised…

Umpteen Dunfermline fans and one lad wearing a Celtic shirt and ear defenders got at Buchanan Street.

Now getting a coffee At Buchanan St Galleries.

Think I looked a bit panicky. First time in Glasgow since DH died. Could feel a wee bit vertigo coming on. Lovely security guard stepped forward and asked if I needed directions. God bless him.

You're only a couple of minutes walk from the hotel I stayed in where the complimentary mini bar includes tunnocks products and gin and tonic.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 23/05/2026 14:27

Just finished potting up a load of bedding plants.

A pot of tea please, gerbils and an emotionally manipulative flapjack.

I hope the box of distractions doesn't turn out to have been compiled by Pandora Panda.

AngleofRepose · 23/05/2026 14:28

PastaAllaNorma · 23/05/2026 12:09

Angle, we have to get the train from Flint when we're going to Cardiff for 6 Nations. By the tim we've done 6 more stops, there's not even standing room on the train and it's like a game of sardines

Oh, sounds horrible! And imagine it on hot days like today!

One of the advantages of moving into the city, I hope, is that I won't have to negotiate getting into and out of the city just to do important things, and if I want to take advantage of all the city has to offer, I can walk or get a local bus. Getting to and from London and Heathrow for travel will still take careful negotiation.

I know a lot of people enjoy these events, especially rugby (and I do enjoy rugby, just not the crowds), but I preferred the city before they built the stadium. The transport links are just not set up to handle the numbers.

AngleofRepose · 23/05/2026 14:30

Edith, I also enjoy gorging on as much asparagus as I can every year, before it's gone!

AngleofRepose · 23/05/2026 14:38

I love an emotionally manipulative flapjack.
I am very worried about Gosie 😮(and what's going to happen if Swash opens The Box)
And I think I have a crush on Octavia!

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 14:39

Deano, that sounds like a fabulous send-off for a fabulous man.

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 14:42

Batshit, who as ever has NFI what is going on, hopped on board the galleon at lunchtime. She has decided that jumping from the rigging and bouncing off the sails is the best game ever.

Swashy thinks she'd be better off inside the Box of Distractions if she has to be on board at all.

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MarieDeGournay · 23/05/2026 14:48

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 14:39

Deano, that sounds like a fabulous send-off for a fabulous man.

I agree, it sounds like you all did him proud, Deano.
Hearing the community's memories of your loved one can be so comforting - at my mother's funeral, it was lovely to hear stories of little favours she did for people and to hear from big successful professional grown-ups that it was my mam who had taught them their colours while she babysat themSmile
It's also nice that funerals take place within a few days in Ireland, so the communal support is there when you really need it.
And then there's the Month's Mind, when you might feel that people had forgotten about your bereavement.

MarieDeGournay · 23/05/2026 14:56

EdithStourton · 23/05/2026 14:42

Batshit, who as ever has NFI what is going on, hopped on board the galleon at lunchtime. She has decided that jumping from the rigging and bouncing off the sails is the best game ever.

Swashy thinks she'd be better off inside the Box of Distractions if she has to be on board at all.

I was wondering what Batshit's role in all this was - I might have guessed that it would be something like jumping into the sails while going Wheeeeee! in dogspeak!
But the way this narrative is going, I suspect that in fact bouncing off the sails is fulfilling some obscure but essential function....🤔

Brains momentarily revealed her human canine side, didn't she?
She is tempted by a dropped sausage roll
Brains had become distracted by a dropped sausage roll
but manages to retain her self-control and purpose by:
reconsidering whether maritime rescue aligned with her broader personal goals.
😄

FuzzyPuffling · 23/05/2026 15:00

I'm trying to decide if I want a funeral at all. Having lived in 7 very different and separate places in my adult life, I don't really have roots or a great cohort of local friends.
The Christian part of me would like prayers and music, but I have sung at enough funerals where only a handful of people attend to know that just won't do.

I'm thinking that one of those basic crem affairs would do, and then my ( small) family could gather and chuck my ashes over a cliff at their convenience. By then, DD2 should be a vicar, so she could do a bit of a send off.

It's such a minefield.

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