Yesterday I found emails on my partners phone from just before we met, where he is hooking up with ‘trans women’.
I know this isn’t strictly feminism, however I don’t want to post in relationships and be met with a chorus of how I need to be more ‘inclusive’ and less ‘bigoted’.
I have been with my partner for 7.5 years, and during that time he has been amazing, kind, caring, devoted. I can’t really complain at all.
however yesterday I was on his emails looking for receipts for accounting, and I searched a term and
at the bottom of the results was an email from a few months before we met, where he was replying to a transsexual on Craigslist.
I couldn’t believe my eyes.
I then searched for further Craigslist emails, and found roughly 6 more where he is replying to ‘’mature transvestite slut seems man‘ & ‘tall sexy thick black transsexual slag’ just to name a few.
He has responded in one of them that he is a ‘straight acting guy’ and in others that he is ‘bi’.
Anyway world has crumbled really. I’ve searched some of the people he was messaging and it is VILE.
I am quite sure he hasn’t been with anyone since we were together, but I still feel betrayed. He lied to me about who he is/was.
I also feel total repulsion.
we have two children and he is father to my stepson (Yes huge red flag which I am taking seriously)
I guess just need some advice.