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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transgender hate on mum's net

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Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 13:30

I'm just wondering, I see so much hate on here about transgender woman and not a lot about transgender men. Does everyone on mum's net hate Transgender women and if so why? I don't mind sharing a toilet space with a transgender woman in fact my best friend is a transgender woman and she is the nicest person you could ever wish to meet and will protect any woman no matter where they are. I would hate to be sharing a toilet with a hairy masculine transgender man, which seems the way people want to go why? Am I the only person on here that supports trans gender women, if so I need to leave. How many people that hate Transgender women have actually met one and had issues with one I'd love to know.

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ArabellaScott · 08/04/2026 22:06

Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 21:53

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5498910-one-year-later-11th-april-national-day-of-action

It's just a massive hate campaign against a very small group of people who will they be coming after one they have eradicated all the transgender community

No, it's not. Try thinking harder.

SockPlant · 08/04/2026 22:13

It's the TRA playbook though.

TRAs: You are all hateful bigots.

Women: We are marching for women's rights, that is all.

TRAs: that is transphobia!

Women: how? we are marching for women's rights. Surely you don't mean women's rights are in opposition to trans rights?

TRas:

Women:

Helleofabore · 08/04/2026 22:14

It is remarkable that someone would categorise an Act of parliament, the EA2010, is hateful. However, I think it shows just how far entrenched the OP is in their own hatefulness against female people who need female single sex provisions to remain single sex and to not allow a male person’s purely subjective reality to be prioritised above materially reality.

Happyjoe · 08/04/2026 22:18

spannasaurus · 08/04/2026 22:05

Thank you for bringing this event to the attention of more posters OP

It's been almost a year since the Supreme Court Ruling, if you can, please attend a protest and let the government know that their inaction is unacceptable, unlawful and puts women and girls at risk.

Agreed, I didn't know. Cheers @Steph2002, keep spreading the word !

ArabellaScott · 08/04/2026 22:24

Happyjoe · 08/04/2026 22:18

Agreed, I didn't know. Cheers @Steph2002, keep spreading the word !

Ooh, Saturday, is it? Fab.

plainjanesuperbrain2026 · 08/04/2026 22:31

Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 15:38

I can assure you I'm not a hater but there's plenty of people in this threat that are.

Quote them. Word for word. Laughing at men who pretend to be women and not kowtowing to men who pretend to be women is not hate.

The only hate is from trans activists who hate that women have rights and that men are not women.

plainjanesuperbrain2026 · 08/04/2026 22:33

SockPlant · 08/04/2026 22:13

It's the TRA playbook though.

TRAs: You are all hateful bigots.

Women: We are marching for women's rights, that is all.

TRAs: that is transphobia!

Women: how? we are marching for women's rights. Surely you don't mean women's rights are in opposition to trans rights?

TRas:

Women:

My only quibble with your post is that it's women's rights versus trans demands - it's not their rights they are fighting for, they already have precisely the same rights as everyone else. It's privileges they're after.

Helleofabore · 08/04/2026 22:34

I love the fact that there are so many new usernames popping up supporting female single sex provisions on this thread. So many new names.

Thanks heaps OP

viques · 08/04/2026 22:38

Wearenotborg · 08/04/2026 21:59

One presumes so.

If Stef wants to see some real aggression in action I suggest they spend half an hour trawling through the Not our Crimes compilation, to be found on You Tube.

Apologies in advance Stef, not a single aggressive woman , but you might be surprised at the number of TIM on there.

MarieDeGournay · 08/04/2026 22:39

Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 21:53

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5498910-one-year-later-11th-april-national-day-of-action

It's just a massive hate campaign against a very small group of people who will they be coming after one they have eradicated all the transgender community

This is such a good example of the state of hypervigilance that the trans community is kept in - or keeps itself in.

There is no hate.
There is no campaign against transpeople, there is a campaign for women's rights.
Nobody is 'coming after' transpeople.
Nobody is seeking to 'eradicate all the transgender community' [formerly known as 'literal genocide'.]

Take a deep breath and relax. Ask yourself where these daft ideas originate, and why - and what purpose they serve? why do some members of the trans community want to keep their co-transfolk in a constant state of hypervigilance? constantly on the look-out for threats that don't exist, and then making them up of they don't really exist, eg. examples of hate on this board.

Somebody is winding you up into this state of 'everybody hates us and is trying to eliminate us', but it's not us.

murasaki · 08/04/2026 22:44

The TRAs are furious because the law has been clarified. It's that old saying, when you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.

And they are violent with it. Women just want their stuff back. The stuff they always should have had but played nice for a bit. Nice is done now, polite will do, but legal adherence is best.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 08/04/2026 22:45

plainjanesuperbrain2026 · 08/04/2026 22:33

My only quibble with your post is that it's women's rights versus trans demands - it's not their rights they are fighting for, they already have precisely the same rights as everyone else. It's privileges they're after.

Absolutely.

murasaki · 08/04/2026 22:48

I'm yet to find a right that a transperson doesn't have, bar the one to inveigle themselves into spaces where they are not allowed to be.

MassiveWordSalad · 08/04/2026 23:02

Helleofabore · 08/04/2026 22:34

I love the fact that there are so many new usernames popping up supporting female single sex provisions on this thread. So many new names.

Thanks heaps OP

I’d love to know how many have peaked today 😁

Helleofabore · 08/04/2026 23:09

Maybe the OP has no sense of proportion.

When people with transgender identities want to hold a meeting or a protest, or even a concert, no women seek to drown out their event, no women are holding violent and intimidating signs, no women are shouting violent and intimidating things, no women are being violent or intimidating full stop. In fact, some women’s right campaigners bought tickets to that concert the other day and there was no disruption, no challenging, nothing. The women went listened and left. That is actually respectful of that group’s needs and indeed, their rights.

The same cannot be said at all about the intimidating and voilent male protestors (and some female ones too- think Carly May Kavanagh screaming fascist right in the face of a baby),

Or was the OP trying to point out just how hateful towards feminists those protesting in support of transgender people are. How even at university organised debates those protestors cannot even respect the debate and seek to have events cancelled, or if they go ahead will seek to drown out the speakers and disrupt the event.

Imagine drawing attention though to the legitimate protest of women that is entirely peaceful with no violence or threats when the police have to literally surround and block male protestors at a safe distance on the opposite side of the building. The women had two or three police standing and chatting to women and passersby while watching out over the women. The ‘counter’ protectors were literally caralled on the other side of the building and their speakers screamed intimidating chants and words.

Great that you highlighted such a significant difference, OP

murasaki · 08/04/2026 23:13

We are all equal in the eyes of the law. Some people don't like the law. Ah well.

Helleofabore · 08/04/2026 23:14

MassiveWordSalad · 08/04/2026 23:02

I’d love to know how many have peaked today 😁

This past few days have been like an onslaught of derisory, demonising threads and posts. I think just highlighting one man’s social media posts alone will have made people reconsider what they know. After all, if a man can suggest raping women he considers bigots violently, deny it and continue to post on a forum after he has accused many of being a bigot here, it shows something rather different to the marginalised and loving narrative that is often portrayed.

murasaki · 08/04/2026 23:26

Quite. I am baffled by why one of my earlier posts was deleted, genuinely, I've searched my emails to see if MN told me why it breached the guidelines, as I am pretty careful these days, and that a certain poster who has documented evidence of violent threats towards women is allowed to continue.

UtopiaPlanitia · 08/04/2026 23:47

Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 15:46

You see this is precisely the problem as a man on oestrogen and T blockers can't be a sexual predator as they have no sex drive, this is the sort of misinformation that's causing the trouble.

Go to Reddit and read around on r/MTF. It’s crammed full of men posting about taking spironolactone, oestrogen and progesterone and how it not only works as ‘titty skittles', it also makes them ‘girl horny'. Usually this statement is followed by them posting revolting scenarios where they claim they are so overcome by libidinous female hormones that they want to be treated sexually like a piece of meat by every man they see.

And then they will go on to claim this is proof positive that this means they’re really women because that’s what they think women are really like.

DrBlackbird · 09/04/2026 00:28

Steph2002 · 08/04/2026 21:53

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5498910-one-year-later-11th-april-national-day-of-action

It's just a massive hate campaign against a very small group of people who will they be coming after one they have eradicated all the transgender community

Out of all the threads to link, this is a strange one to accuse FWR of hate… unless steph2002 is a friend of SJB?

Bigwelshlamb · 09/04/2026 00:35

There is a lot of hate here with no empathy or attempt to understand why people feel as they do. Regularly I just cannot even click on the many many threads on this subject because people are deeply unpleasant and accusatory of people who actually have no impact of their lives... I saw one thread in which a poster told someone who was working with a non binary person, and struggling with they/them pronoun, that it didn't matter because only trans people's identities were legally protected and non binary people were not... Seriously? Just be polite, it costs you nothing. I am genuinely really happy to have trans people in my space. I don't care if a trans woman uses the same loo as me... We are in cubicles anyway, we are not flashing our fannies to each other .. If you're worried about men then it's heterosexual men you should fear rather than a trans woman who was born male .. it's really crazy and I am astonished daily at the vitriol.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/04/2026 00:38

Most “trans women” are heterosexual males.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/04/2026 00:49

DrBlackbird · 09/04/2026 00:28

Out of all the threads to link, this is a strange one to accuse FWR of hate… unless steph2002 is a friend of SJB?

It was a curious choice, wasn’t it?

HarrietofFire · 09/04/2026 00:49

Absolutely brilliant thread OP. No evidence at all of transgender hate. Signposting to the demos on Saturday, was great, thanks!

Really good evidence posted that men who identify as women are over represented in the sex offender cohort in prison. The men who identify as women that you know might be perfectly lovely. I happen to work with the ones who commit the sexual offences. Believe me, they don’t ‘just want to pee’.

Helleofabore · 09/04/2026 00:57

DrBlackbird · 09/04/2026 00:28

Out of all the threads to link, this is a strange one to accuse FWR of hate… unless steph2002 is a friend of SJB?

Ahhh. Perhaps.

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