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singthing · 03/04/2026 09:06

I remain surprised that ANYONE can possibly think it is anything else tbh.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 03/04/2026 09:09

I love Malcolm Clark. He does not mince a single word.

Bimbofication takes this a step further. For these men, the state of being female is defined by having ridiculous, cartoonish body parts. Being men, and therefore inherently superior, they have no need to sweat and toil in order to be the ideal woman. They only have to slap on the comedy body parts that they believe represent the essence of being a woman. The more cack-handed and tokenistic their attempt to look like a bimbo, the more they emphasise how pathetic they think women are.

MoistVonL · 03/04/2026 09:18

I googled who Bryon Noem was and bloody hell, I feel sorry for his wife.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/04/2026 09:23

Above all, the tawdry case of Bryon Noem reveals the dark truth about transgender ‘women’. These men dress like women, not because it is their true ‘gender’, but because they get off on it.

JennyShaw · 03/04/2026 09:45

MoistVonL · 03/04/2026 09:18

I googled who Bryon Noem was and bloody hell, I feel sorry for his wife.

I don't feel sorry for his wife. She is Kristi Noem, a conservative politician, and she has opposed gay marriage.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 09:47

Each man has a fantasy woman in his mind...the one he wants to mimic and become. As Clark suggests, not all go for the overtly pornified look; some go for the more demure Miss Jean Brodie or perhaps smartly efficient P.A look. Came across one guy in a local supermarket who had opted for this look........but then his height, bodily posture and the way he slung his backpack over his shoulder gave the game away instantly.

I once spotted another guy riding a bicycle in clothing of a similar style - you could instantly detect his maleness as you approached from behind - later on I saw him again and he was towing some long and strange contraption. Very odd!

But then have also seen men on bicycles in tiny little mini skirts - perched over the handlebars to give the resting bus drivers a sexy eye-full: modellling themselves, no doubt, on that famous Athena poster of the blonde tennis girl with bum cheek exposed.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 09:51

These days many of these men now opt for 'genital removal and re-modelling ' but that is not really any more of an indicator of being 'true trans' - than being a sign of just how deeply consumed with 'the project' they have become.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 03/04/2026 09:53

It's one of the many strange things about this ideology, that societal memory seems to have disappeared

when I was growing up we all knew that generally men wore women's clothes because bluntly it turned them on and yet somehow society has been persuaded that that was never the case...

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 09:55

Theeyeballsinthesky · 03/04/2026 09:53

It's one of the many strange things about this ideology, that societal memory seems to have disappeared

when I was growing up we all knew that generally men wore women's clothes because bluntly it turned them on and yet somehow society has been persuaded that that was never the case...

I think that even the homosexual female impersonators are motivated by sex; by wanting to be fancied by men; especially by straight men. The female presentations are often no less sexualised than those of the heterosexual AGP.

DeanElderberry · 03/04/2026 10:04

What Clark said, but it starts with narcissism.

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

Bertiebiscuit · 03/04/2026 10:19

JennyShaw · 03/04/2026 09:45

I don't feel sorry for his wife. She is Kristi Noem, a conservative politician, and she has opposed gay marriage.

So women who have different politics and opinions from yours deserve to be mistreated? How dare they have independent views, they deserve to be punished? Misogyny much.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 10:20

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

"Being quiet" is not an indicator that there is not a sexual motivation - and yes, many of us, myself included know of men who cross dress.

There are well known male trans activists who have spoken of how they were driven to be 'trans' by pornography or by other types of sexual motivation. And even when this starts in childhood ( before fully formed sexuality has developed) there is still a deep psycho-sexual motivation.

HermioneWeasley · 03/04/2026 10:32

As Mary Cate Delvey says “it’s a fucking fetish”

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 10:34

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

For many years I followed the 'transition' of a young man on a forum I used to post on. It started off with mental health issues and anxiety then ended up with full castration about 10 years later. He was a gamer, 'techy', nerdy. Quite fine facial structure.. though was well over 6ft and stockily built.

He would post photo updates of his transition and talk about his experiences of venturing out presenting 'as a woman' and how he 'was' a woman. All of the photo updates had the same sort of pose - big eyed and coquettish but in clothing that revealed his new cleavage. He would talk of "getting my iconic tits out" - as if the most sure sign of femaleness was flaunting ones breasts for public consumption. Definitely sexually motivated - as well as deeply emotionally invested in the whole project.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 03/04/2026 10:35

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

Regardless of the "why", adopting a transgender persona indicates reductive and disordered thinking about your own sex, the opposite sex or both.

It is impossible to believe you have the mind of the opposite sex without believing some ways of thinking or feeling are only appropriate for one of the two sexes. But "Man" and "Woman" are descriptions of the body not the mind, so to impose this "sex of the mind" is to impose a sexist framework onto all of us.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 03/04/2026 10:35

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

Yes! Yes we do! Many women here have brothers, work colleagues, nephews who are TW and some have been married to TW

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 03/04/2026 10:38

Bravo Malcolm! Wonderful to see this elephant in the room being so efficiently named and explained in blunt terms. And what appears in Spiked and other papers is generally then on its way to appearing in the national press and becoming normal there.

Malcolm does miss one hind leg of that elusive elephant - that this is not the sexual and social behaviour of functional men. And the behaviour is often displayed alongside a flood of quite disturbingly explicit sexually violent ideation and threats, which are splurged all over social media and chalked on pavements where women are daring to talk to each other. Join the dots.

Waitwhat23 · 03/04/2026 10:39

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 10:20

"Being quiet" is not an indicator that there is not a sexual motivation - and yes, many of us, myself included know of men who cross dress.

There are well known male trans activists who have spoken of how they were driven to be 'trans' by pornography or by other types of sexual motivation. And even when this starts in childhood ( before fully formed sexuality has developed) there is still a deep psycho-sexual motivation.

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In their own words....

Men dressing as women; what really motivates them.
Cailleach1 · 03/04/2026 10:44

There were two men in the place I live who dress in women clothes. One passed away recently. He was quite scary. He was huge - height and weight. He was given to outbursts of aggressive shouting. I always made sure to keep a safe distance from him, as I was wary of his volatility, considering his size. He was obviously disturbed.

The other fellow puts his lipstick and eyeshadow on (smudged well over the ‘lines’ in a childlike manner) along with his skirts. He is a bit sad, and often sits on the pavement outside the supermarket, or shopping centre. He is clearly very unwell. My husband saw him at the garage, counting out his coins whilst attempting to buy cigarettes. He didn’t have enough so the chappie behind him in the queue bought them for him. Which was nice.

NotBadConsidering · 03/04/2026 10:45

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 10:34

For many years I followed the 'transition' of a young man on a forum I used to post on. It started off with mental health issues and anxiety then ended up with full castration about 10 years later. He was a gamer, 'techy', nerdy. Quite fine facial structure.. though was well over 6ft and stockily built.

He would post photo updates of his transition and talk about his experiences of venturing out presenting 'as a woman' and how he 'was' a woman. All of the photo updates had the same sort of pose - big eyed and coquettish but in clothing that revealed his new cleavage. He would talk of "getting my iconic tits out" - as if the most sure sign of femaleness was flaunting ones breasts for public consumption. Definitely sexually motivated - as well as deeply emotionally invested in the whole project.

Look at Grace Hyland on Instagram. Cross sex identity as a child, put on puberty blockers and now has a very fetishy sexualised persona and an OnlyFans account (channel? Page?)

Smartiepants79 · 03/04/2026 10:49

Does anyone personally know of a ‘trans’ man who chooses to dress like your average women in the street? Like jeans and a jumper, leggings and a hoodie, chinos and shirts??
Weirdly this was something I was wondering about recently.

Janie143 · 03/04/2026 10:52

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/04/2026 09:51

These days many of these men now opt for 'genital removal and re-modelling ' but that is not really any more of an indicator of being 'true trans' - than being a sign of just how deeply consumed with 'the project' they have become.

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This is my XH. His "woman" persona is submissive slut. It pisses me off that taxpayers have footed the bill for him to have his dick fashioned into a neovagina, "breast" enlargement and all his ongoing prescriptions for hormones etc. Also he wants to be sexually submissive with men but he's a raging homophobe so has to be a woman

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 03/04/2026 10:55

hahabahbag · 03/04/2026 10:15

Honestly it varies! Do any of you know trans people or cross dressers? Well I do and each is an individual with different motivations and it’s more diverse than this article. The guy down the road likes the feel of women’s clothing, he knows he isn’t a woman but prefers to dress as one. His name was unisex to begin with. My nephew is full trans he knew he felt different as a toddler and didn’t have words for it, 20 years before any of the current trends began. DD’s friend knew they felt different but was thrown out by intolerant parents aged 16, they now live as a woman but are quiet and don’t push boundaries,

Yes of course women here do.

The whole point is that there is pressure, constantly, to indulge the wishes of these men to be in women's spaces, where women are in a state of undress, vulnerability or carrying out intimate actions. This is sold as an entirely innocent thing across the entire group of such men.

As the article says, it is widely evidenced and undeniable that the sexual thrill of this is enormous and the main cause of why many men who dress as women wish to be in those spaces. Often linked to an obvious and gleeful enjoyment of intimidation, harassment, exhibitionism and otherwise adding the sexually exciting emotional aspects to the physical ones of enacting being a woman in a woman's space, and of being in the taboo space where, crudely, they're among women with their knickers down who are uncomfortable and can't say no. Like that bastard journalist who used to share his 'journey' in the Guardian and that hideous article of how he liked to target young women assistants to help him buy lingerie to enjoy their discomfort, and how he liked to give them a smile as he paid that said - in his words - 'I know you're not enjoying this, but I am'. It's sexual abuse.

It then follows that there is no way to separate these men from the Nigels of other women in deciding who gets to access women's spaces. And I have to say, those women often end up further down the line shocked to realise that yes, it was sexual for those men too.

So the question then is - to what extent do people believe it is right and acceptable to permit these men to use and abuse these women in women's spaces for sexual gratification? And how very sexist one would have to be to think that men have 'needs' and a right of access to women's bodies to meet those 'needs' that women should not be allowed to refuse?

And what do we then do with the women who won't or can't make the price of their access to spaces and resources in essence, providing the use of their body to men, rather dodgy men who do not respect women's consent and boundaries and wish to use those women as props in their personal sex life? Do we just expect them to go without until they submit?

And yes, it is using women's bodies. It is not the space, it is the women in the space, and no other part of the woman but her body is of any interest to a man who dresses as a woman and wishes to be in a women's space. Her mind, feelings (although her fear, distress or anger might be quite exciting to some), consent, views, identity, it's all wholly irrelevant. It is about her being physically there being a biological woman, it's about the validation her body provides emotionally, it's about her bodily functions and the experience of being present with them, it is about being permitted access in the way that other men aren't. How much is it ok to let men use women's bodies in this way, against their consent and their equality? Particularly as we watch Philipson try to gerrymander the law to get these men back into women's spaces?

Malcolm also nails it that misogyny, actual real serious and fundamental misogyny is at the root of all this, from those men - even the nice ones - and from the women supporting it.

RNApolymerase · 03/04/2026 10:55

It's odd this. My son and his girlfriend, currently at university, very TWAW, JKR is evil, etc. etc. were laughing at Kristi Noem's husband. Maybe because she's a right wing US politician? Maybe if he'd been, for example, a Democrat who liked stealing luggage they'd not have mocked?
It seems like they are putting him in a completely different category. But, when it comes to things like who gets access to women's stuff - how do you differentiate between "TWAW" and Mr Noem? It seems to me that you can't.