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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A UK forum is encouraging a desperate parent of a trans identified male to seek out DIY hormones, without consulting health care professionals, how is this dangerous advice legal?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 17/03/2026 09:52

OP "If anyone could help me to understand, I would be extremely grateful. I just want my daughter to be alive and happy in her own skin as much as possible ."

Responses: "diy is reliable and safe, there are communities that will be able to help, and really all it is getting a blood test every now and then to check how low or high a couple numbers are and adjusting accordingly."

Full details here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1rw0bac/please_help_parent_to_a_16_year_old/

How is this even slightly legal? The pro anorexia sites were shut down right? The pro suicide?

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SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:13

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:05

I’ve known people of those faiths you mention who have had no issue sharing a space with me.

I find it interesting you bring up religion because in most situations I’m sure you’d say you’re under no obligation to act a certain way because of someone’s beliefs.

The key point you are missing is that those women are using spaces meant for females. You are not female. You know you are not female so you being there makes you a selfish man who puts his own wants before the needs of women.

Even if what you say is true that there are some some of those specific faiths that have no issue sharing intimate spaces with you (I don’t believe that to be true) there are definitely others that would self exclude. Consent is not transferable. STAY OUT!

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:14

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:13

She's asking you to respect the damn law

That’s all well and good, but we know it doesn’t end there.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:15

Shedmistress · 18/03/2026 17:07

Lost to follow up but also...

CBC levels, baseline liver and kidney function checks are needed, as well as pituitary function. Once on hormones, yearly followup testing should be done to monitor levels and organ function.

It's called health care.

All people who receive HRT should also receive blood test monitoring and followup for as long as they are on HRT. It's really that simple.

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:15

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:14

That’s all well and good, but we know it doesn’t end there.

What nonsense. It does.

lifeturnsonadime · 19/03/2026 22:15

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:14

That’s all well and good, but we know it doesn’t end there.

The only reason it doesn't end there is because men like you refuse to comply with the law and refuse to respect women's rights.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:16

RedToothBrush · 18/03/2026 16:34

Yep someone can't do maths. Or is lying about age or when they did x or y.

You people are insane.

I went off of HRT in my 30s. I didn't begin HRT in my 30s.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:18

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 22:10

Society is not a democracy where every single person has to agree to something before it’s allowed.

I’d like your response to this: I find it interesting you bring up religion because in most situations I’m sure you’d say you’re under no obligation to act a certain way because of someone’s beliefs

With every post you shows yourself to be a selfish man who really truly does not understand why women needs single sex spaces.

You don’t give a shit about how you impact on women. You don’t give a shit about women self excluding from spaces and services that were created for them. Those spaces and services were NOT CREATED FOR YOU.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:19

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/03/2026 16:13

This is far more fundamental and important to us than a mere hobby, I can assure you.

Add to that a male person claiming to be a woman and telling us what that might entail is just downright offensive and insulting.

There's a fact of life that some groups of people are offended by the existence of other groups of people. Words describing such people usually end in the letters 'ist' or 'phobe.'

These offended will exist and make their opinions known to all who will listen whether or not the other group is nearby.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:20

RedToothBrush · 18/03/2026 17:14

Obviously this is what happens to women having normal natural hormones and then subsequently on HRT cos they are testing for known problems. Which don't exist in women. It's almost as if cross sex hormones in males are risky and can cause harm. Which we are told absolutely isn't the case.

It's such utter bullshit.

All people, men and women, on HRT receive monitoring. It is not bullshit, it is healthcare.

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:21

Is anyone else actually quite amused now by the dynamic here?

CheesemongersApprentice · 19/03/2026 22:21

TiredOfYourLies · 19/03/2026 20:28

Cis men aren’t exactly know for treating trans women very well

I could give a fuck about how men treat each other.

TheKeatingFive · 19/03/2026 22:22

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:19

There's a fact of life that some groups of people are offended by the existence of other groups of people. Words describing such people usually end in the letters 'ist' or 'phobe.'

These offended will exist and make their opinions known to all who will listen whether or not the other group is nearby.

No one is offended that there are men who like to wear clothes/makeup more associated with women.

We are, however, outraged, that anyone would think this means they should have access to women's spaces

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:24

Helleofabore · 18/03/2026 17:26

The inconsistencies make it hard to sort out what is accurate or not.

Also, the initial quote was yanked from a context of discussing why there is a lack of data following the lives of people post-transition.

The second quote was yanked from a context of discussing why someone beginning HRT, and especially a youth, should have legitimate medical treatment rather than DIY access to hormones.

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:25

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:21

Is anyone else actually quite amused now by the dynamic here?

It's a case study in real time

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:26

Igmum · 18/03/2026 20:07

Let me add to your musings Newcastle.

He was a teenager in the 1980s - so age range 50-65 now if we stretch it from a potential 19 in 1980 to 13 in 1989 - has been on wrong sex hormones for over 40 years - say 40 years and 1 month so from the age of 15 - 25 but wasn’t on these hormones in his 30s.

I can’t make it add up. Is this Transgirl maths?

Sex hormones are sex hormones, there's nothing wrong about them. Only sex realist moralising.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:28

Shedmistress · 18/03/2026 20:06

How does a child find out that taking any drugs is 'the care they need'? Especially ones that are off label and were never licenced for use for kids who like the wrong toys/clothes/hobbies.

I knew about oestrogen treatment for trans women as a child because I had access to libraries, used card catalogues and could read words printed in books.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:30

noblegiraffe · 18/03/2026 20:06

The one that said that people claim there's no risk to cross sex hormones? That Reddit thread which is the subject of this one certainly was saying how marvellous and safe they are. Not sure why you are suggesting that people on hormones are always informed of the risks when quite clearly they aren't.

Based on the numbers of doses consumed worldwide, sex hormones are much safer than other prescribed medications. They are even sold over the counter in many countries as any other self-administered remedy.

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 22:32

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:30

Based on the numbers of doses consumed worldwide, sex hormones are much safer than other prescribed medications. They are even sold over the counter in many countries as any other self-administered remedy.

Like smoking, right?

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:32

RedToothBrush · 18/03/2026 20:40

This all relies on the idea that the drugs work and they aren't addicts.

If they are addicts then we should not be making more addicts

Your phrasing legitimises it as healthcare. It's looking increasingly like is psuedo science bunkem

People on HRT are not addicts. This is sex realist moralisation speaking in the efforts demanding the removal of all trans medical treatment.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:35

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 18/03/2026 21:30

I'd suggest that if no longer taking the drugs leads to an individual suffering withdrawal in the form of osteopenia, which goes away when the individual starts taking the drugs again, that might reasonably be said to amount to addiction?

Osteopenia is not withdrawal, it is a medical condition that can be caused by body systems operating without a sex hormone.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:36

500 new messages since I visited last. I guess I have some reading to do.

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:36

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 22:32

Like smoking, right?

No, not like smoking.

Greyskybluesky · 19/03/2026 22:37

Away you go and read them then, quietly without moving your lips

noblegiraffe · 19/03/2026 22:38

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:36

No, not like smoking.

Well, loads of people did it for many years, it was sold over the counter without a prescription, so it must be safe, right?

Or is that not how safety is really established?

onepostwonder · 19/03/2026 22:39

SternJoyousBeev2 · 19/03/2026 22:08

Demanding you stay out of our single sex spaces is NOT removing you from society. If you choose to self exclude because you are not getting your own way then that’s just tough.

The hyberbolic approach doesn’t work on us anymore.

Gender delulus need to realise that it’s 2026.

Trans men are men. Trans women are women.

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