I am prone to being a bit over optimistic, so I’d welcome others thoughts on this.
I think some consistent and strong leadership on this issue is all that is needed to get into a much better position. E.g. Clear and consistent messaging that - Single sex provision , where proportional and legitimate should only be used in line with natal sex. Mixed sex/ gender neutral provision should also be provided. We recognise that this isn’t the preferred solution for many with trans identities, but it is a solution which provides for all.
This could be accompanied by - we are aware that life is very challenging for many trans people and that we are open to exploring alternative means and ways of reducing these challenges to those which involve making single sex provision mixed sex.
And - Natal sex is accurately observed at birth in over 99% of the population. If/ where people have confusion about their natal sex, the NHS is there to help diagnose DSDs. We do not consider, within the context of single sex provision, exogenous hormones and elective cosmetic surgery to change a persons sex.
If government and public services were consistent with this, things would soon settle down. There would still be a vocal group of extremists, as there is in many areas of life, but I’m not sure they’d get much traction.