I will assume that this is addressed to me, so will respond as such.
Are you even a parent?
Yes. Are you?
That a child believes they are the opposite sex isn't any where near the same as concealing vaping, drugs or sex. That you would consider such a serious psychological disposition as completely unnoticeable makes me question your ability to parse the bleedin' obvious.
I didn't suggest it would be completely unnoticeable. I suggested that children may well put in a concerted effort to conceal it from their parents, thus potentially making it unnoticeable. I would expect that parents would notice that their child was withdrawn or behaving differently but, owing to the effort their child makes to conceal what's going on, they may be unaware of the details behind the distress. To parse the bleedin' obvious, this concealment is similar to other issues that children may conceal from their parents when they are at risk of harm.
The parents should be able to at least detect something is up.
Agreed. See above.
That they are oblivious to their child's psychological suffering..
They are unlikely to be. See above.
... and completely unapproachable for a child to ask for support on such serious issues..
I'm not the one suggesting the parents are completely unapproachable at all. I'm saying that someone has likely led the child to believe this.
is their doing not the school, activists or social media or anyone else they want to point the finger at for not developing a trusting communicative relationship let alone being committed enough to notice serious changes in their child's behaviour.
DARVO! ✅ I needed that one for my bingo card. I'm not sure I've ever experienced it myself so directly on a thread. It was an interesting experience. Thank you 🙏
Stop infantilising & making excuses for people who abdicate their responsibilities as parents to burden society with them.
Oh! There's more. Thank you! 😊
And just so you know, it's not teachers responsibility to play private life snitch because of parental incompetency but educate children particularly when they might be putting their students well being at stake should the parents become abusive
Teachers are at the front line of child safeguarding. It is very much their responsibility to report issues of concern about children's parents.
(Obviously what they're not meant to do is assume that parents are harming children if they raise concerns about them becoming gender questioning).
LGBTQ minors are one of the highest risk categories of homelessness
What is an LGBTQ minor? The LGB bit I get. The T... I assume you mean gender questioning. If so, see above. The Q?
that's usually a result of parental rejection
Parental rejection or alienation from parents, following coercion to believe that their parents are harmful to them? Muddling up LGB with TQ is particularly unhelpful here. Yes, there will be some homophobic parents but it's almost impossible to spot those if LGB gets bundled up with TQ issues.
So if its safe guarding you care about you might want to shine the spotlight more on unfit parenting that the rest of society always seem to get stuck cleaning up after.
Sadly, there will always be unfit parents. Thankfully, we have safeguarding laws and protocols to help identify and address this. Also sadly, some of those responsible for doing so have ended up with a safeguarding approach that is upside down. Where they fail to spot that the parent is not the risk here, but instead it's the school and the LGBTQ activism within it.