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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions

546 replies

ArabellaSaurus · 08/11/2025 21:12

New survey

19% of people say 'trans rights have not gone far enough' in the UK.
39% say 'trans rights have gone too far'.

That's a really big change in the past five years.

'The proportion who say transgender rights have gone too far in the UK has more than doubled since 2020, from 17% to 39%, though overall there is still no public consensus on the issue, with 19% now saying transgender rights have not gone far enough, 27% saying they’ve gone as far as they should, and a further 15% not giving an opinion.
The proportion of people who say transgender rights have gone too far has doubled among all age groups – even 16-24s, where one in five (19%) now feel this way, compared with around one in 10 (9%) in 2020. However, young people are still more likely to say transgender rights have not gone far enough (36%).'

https://www.ipsos.com/en-uk/uks-sense-division-reaches-new-high-culture-war-tensions-grow-study-finds

Article:

https://unherd.com/newsroom/growing-number-of-britons-think-trans-rights-have-gone-too-far/

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lifeturnsonadime · 09/11/2025 18:41

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

You've either had your head in the sand for over a decade or you just see female people, even girls, as lesser humans.

Vile.

WarrenTofficier · 09/11/2025 18:41

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

You think it's a OK for a man to see teenaged girls in the shower because despite his cock and balls he says he is a woman? Is it still OK if he is sporting an erection or can he be asked to.leave at this point?

BettyBooper · 09/11/2025 18:42

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

'I know a trans woman is a man and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that the trans woman can understand he will not be in peril in the men's changing room.

The daughter just wants to exercise and get changed without being in a dangerous situation.

Blah blah blah my work mansplain etc'

Fixed it for you.

Bluemin · 09/11/2025 18:43

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

Ah here we are. It women and girls' fault for not understanding that men in womens clothes are all completely harmless. If only women and girls would understand that a man cannot harm a woman if he puts on a wig and lipstick. All those cases of transwomen attacking women and girls? Oh they weren't real transwomen. They were just pretending. The high level of transwomen in prison for violent sexual offences? Oh those are just made up hate statistics by the prison service and the Ministry of Justice. Come on ladies, there's a man here telling you that men in womens spaces aren't a safeguarding risk. Don't you worry your little heads. If a man wanted to rape or sexually assault you he'd find another way anyway, so no need for any safeguarding nonsense.

Oh, except in tape centres. Because despite TWAW if they work in a rape centre they are someone NOT real women so shouldn't be there. Oh, and rapists. If a transwoman rapes someone then he's just a man, so no harm done ladies.

Anarkandanaardvark · 09/11/2025 18:43

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:40

But you're lying.
The daughter is in peril.
Women have been raped by transwomen.
What are you talking about?

I hope you're not a parent, putting a child at risk by not telling the truth?

I agree but to me it is not even just about danger. It is far more sinister. This is not a hypothetical situation as it happened where I live. The girls were basically told that they had no rights to any boundaries. They had to put aside their discomfort. The tw in question could have easily used the male changing rooms (and had been recently with no problems) or accepted a separate changing space. No, this person insisted that the young women should be present too. I cannot understate how detrimental this is. Why on earth do you think women should be taught that their boundaries do not count when it comes to validating what men want?

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

FrippEnos · 09/11/2025 18:44

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

The point that you are forgetting is that you are taking away the option for the person that doesn't want to get changed in front of someone that is the opposite sex.

Many people have issues with their bodies and they deserve the right to change with dignity and privacy without having to be forced to do so in front of a male (whatever their reason for being in the women's changing room).

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 18:44

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 18:27

What would be really interesting would be to ask these people whether they've changed how they vote in the last decade or so, and if so, why?

I hypothesise that the major parties' stances on "culture wars" issues, such as whether TWAW, are driving a rightwards change in voting intentions. We know that some women, including me, resigned from the Labour Party over all-women shortlists being opened up to some men.

Yes, this wasn't disaggregated.

I would like to see some more polling on these issues. Maybe in the run up to the May 26 elections we'll get some more data.

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Greyskybluesky · 09/11/2025 18:46

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

No. You thought you would come on a predominantly women's site and tell women where they were going wrong.

I genuinely hope you've learnt something.

WarrenTofficier · 09/11/2025 18:47

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:40

All good points and I do not know the answers.
I don't think girls feeling do not matter, and I hope this can all be settled somehow.
Maybe with a third changing room.

I think my father in law, my brothers and my next door neighbour are all lovely and not a threat to me but I'm not about to shower or change in front of them. It's not just about safety its about not wanting to be naked in front of people with male bodies however "lovely" they are (and if they were that bloody lovely they wouldn't want to make me uncomfortable by being naked with me so they aren't at the top of the lovely pile anyway).

Helleofabore · 09/11/2025 18:48

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

I dont believe you were here to ‘debate’. You seem to be here to spread misinformation and to censure women.

Bluemin · 09/11/2025 18:48

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

I for one am not upset. I think you have really helpfully exposed the illogical fallacy of TWAW. I appreciate the time you've taken to engage on this thread. I would urge you to reread it and consider where your stance is not only illogical it is materially harmful to the women and girls in your life.

nicepotoftea · 09/11/2025 18:49

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 18:27

What would be really interesting would be to ask these people whether they've changed how they vote in the last decade or so, and if so, why?

I hypothesise that the major parties' stances on "culture wars" issues, such as whether TWAW, are driving a rightwards change in voting intentions. We know that some women, including me, resigned from the Labour Party over all-women shortlists being opened up to some men.

I think its an issue that looms larger in elections because 'trans women are women' is so obviously wrong.

It's difficult to predict what will happen in the economy, even if you are an economist, and it's difficult to understand foreign policy and environmental policy can seem very abstract, but you don't need special knowledge to know that humans can't change sex.

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:50

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:16

I've had an idea @Gnasher1981

Send your mum, sisters, nieces, female cousins, female in laws to a ladies public toilet.
Separately or in pairs would be good.

Then send in a few transwomen that you don't know, but "believe" are transwomen.

Wait outside for 15 minutes, see how you feel.

Be honest. Remember you have absolutely no idea who these transwomen are. How do you feel?

@Gnasher1981

Will you try out my above idea sometime?

I would be very interested in the outcome.
Don't forget, the transwomen have to be complete unknowns to yourself and female relatives.

Helleofabore · 09/11/2025 18:50

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:31

I feel a trans woman is a woman and there needs to be discussion about this subject so that your daughter can understand she will not be in peril.
The trans person just wants to exercise and get changed without being thought of as dangerous.
At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

At my work we all get changed in front of each other without any issues and the one person who doesn't want to go into a cubicle.

WTAF?

What workplace has male and female people ‘changing’, stripping down to underwear or less, together?

Whoever has forced female people to strip in front of male people needs some very bright sunlight !

Greyskybluesky · 09/11/2025 18:50

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

Turns out all women are individuals and not a hive mind. Who knew?

CohensDiamondTeeth · 09/11/2025 18:51

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:16

I've had an idea @Gnasher1981

Send your mum, sisters, nieces, female cousins, female in laws to a ladies public toilet.
Separately or in pairs would be good.

Then send in a few transwomen that you don't know, but "believe" are transwomen.

Wait outside for 15 minutes, see how you feel.

Be honest. Remember you have absolutely no idea who these transwomen are. How do you feel?

Unfortunately I don't think asking an MRA to consider women works, we're just NPCs to them. We're not real people and harms done to us aren't real harm.

I mean there's "vulnerable and oppressed" men who need access to women and girls bodies, spaces, awards, words etc to consider don't you know?!

Won't someone think of the poor menz!

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:50

@Gnasher1981

Will you try out my above idea sometime?

I would be very interested in the outcome.
Don't forget, the transwomen have to be complete unknowns to yourself and female relatives.

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

Helleofabore · 09/11/2025 18:53

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

So, you have got your information from female people who have very low boundaries around their needs for safety, privacy and dignity.

If I were you, I would be asking myself why do the women in my life have such low boundaries and why do they lack empathy for the women who need female single sex provisions to remain female only?

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 18:55

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

Fab. I met a transwoman in the loo once. He was masturbating. I guess I should have been reassured that he meant me no harm, though, eh?

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BettyBooper · 09/11/2025 18:55

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

I hope this is genuine.

If it is, please think on and listen to some Helen Joyce podcasts (others are available).

Women on here are not 'haters', 'anti trans' or 'bigots'. We just want the safety of women and girls.

ContentedAlpaca · 09/11/2025 18:55

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

Creepy as fuck that like

Petitchat · 09/11/2025 18:56

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:44

Thank you all for an interesting debate. I'm sorry to those of you whom I upset, it was not my intention.
I should point out i got most of my views from women, including my mother who is fully accepting of the trans community.

Edited

Interesting...

So does your mum get changed in front of men (sorry, transwomen) then?
How far? Down to underwear?

Anarkandanaardvark · 09/11/2025 18:56

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:40

All good points and I do not know the answers.
I don't think girls feeling do not matter, and I hope this can all be settled somehow.
Maybe with a third changing room.

Oh believe me the third changing room was the first thing that was offered but apparently this was not good enough. Single sex spaces are there for a reason. The answer can never be "let this one "nice" male in" because that is the same as "let anyone who wants to come in". If you prioritize one male's desires over a whole team of young girls, perhaps you are not the nice person you think you are.

Helleofabore · 09/11/2025 18:57

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 18:53

I would have no problem with this scenario.

In fact my sister said she was given tampon in the ladies loo by a trans person because she ran out and the trans person had them on her as she had seen so many women in that situation.

Women helping women.

This is creepy! Absolutely creepy!

No male person should be carrying tampons ‘just in case’. No male person needs tampons so they are carrying these to establish a connection to female people. And the female people accepting this has not thought this through.

Women helping women

Absolutely not!

This is predatory behaviour by any male person doing this!

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