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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Survey on culture in the UK - 'trans rights' questions

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ArabellaSaurus · 08/11/2025 21:12

New survey

19% of people say 'trans rights have not gone far enough' in the UK.
39% say 'trans rights have gone too far'.

That's a really big change in the past five years.

'The proportion who say transgender rights have gone too far in the UK has more than doubled since 2020, from 17% to 39%, though overall there is still no public consensus on the issue, with 19% now saying transgender rights have not gone far enough, 27% saying they’ve gone as far as they should, and a further 15% not giving an opinion.
The proportion of people who say transgender rights have gone too far has doubled among all age groups – even 16-24s, where one in five (19%) now feel this way, compared with around one in 10 (9%) in 2020. However, young people are still more likely to say transgender rights have not gone far enough (36%).'

https://www.ipsos.com/en-uk/uks-sense-division-reaches-new-high-culture-war-tensions-grow-study-finds

Article:

https://unherd.com/newsroom/growing-number-of-britons-think-trans-rights-have-gone-too-far/

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ErrolTheDragon · 09/11/2025 11:04

Brainworm · 09/11/2025 11:02

They should not get abuse. They should also not use provision designated for the opposite sex.

Males, regardless of their gender identity, should take responsibility for complying with the law and upholding single sex provision. This is needed to uphold the integrity of single sex provision.

Yes.
don't make a problem caused by men into one blamed on women and for which women have to suffer.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:05

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:51

Because, statistically, cis men are far more likely to commit violent or sexual assault than trans women.
I know a few trans people and they are all very nice and non abusive, whereas I know plenty men who should not be allowed to leave the house unsupervised.

Edited

TW in prison are more likely to be sex offenders than the rest of the male population, not less likely. This is from Ministry of Justice data.

All your inaccurate claims were debunked years ago.

ContentedAlpaca · 09/11/2025 11:06

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 10:54

I mean they get abuse whether they in to men's or women's spaces.
But I feel you knew what i meant and just like to use semantics to throw off a conversation.

Edited

So the problem is men not being accepting and kind to men who choose to express themselves differently?

Why make that the problem of women who who want privacy?

In many cases, sex doesn't matter but in some cases it matters very much.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 09/11/2025 11:07

If TW in your view Gnasher are literally women should they bother with prostate screening?

if TM are literal men then should they sack off cervical screening?

BonfireLady · 09/11/2025 11:08

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 09:45

Nobody is forcing rape victims call their abusers "she", and using this example to attack the trans community is disingenuous.
A trans woman is a woman and compairing them to rapists is why there needs to be more laws; to stop your abusive rhetoric.

Nobody is forcing rape victims call their abusers "she", and using this example to attack the trans community is disingenuous.

If nobody is forcing rape victims to call their abusers "she", what pronouns are acceptable in your view?

He? They?

Does it make a difference what pronouns the perpetrator prefers? E.g. Isla Bryson prefers "she". So what should Isla's victims say in your opinion?

ArabellaSaurus · 09/11/2025 11:10

OnAShooglyPeg · 09/11/2025 10:56

It's a bit odd that more people are thinking that they culture wars are a problem, but fewer people blame the media. I don't get that at all?

There was a recent thread posted on the back of a politician's comment about adverts. I would consider that as part of the culture war. I have also noticed in TV shows and films there's a definite increase in girlboss-type characters and it's jarring. That would also come under the culture war heading.

My reading is that people are understanding the real world implications of what they may have thought were abstract arguments.

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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:14

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:02

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41386-020-0666-3
https://hudson.org.au/news/written-in-dna-study-reveals-potential-biological-basis-for-transgender/
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/
These are three examples for pro trans debate from a scientific perspective.

Could you provide scientific examples from an anti trans perspective?

Yes, I can.

You don't piss with your brain, but with your genitals. You don't make someone pregnant with your brain, but with your genitals. You don't get pregnant after someone rapes you because of your laydee brain, but because of having a uterus.

These facts predate scientific peer-reviewed journals.

Single-sex spaces exist to protect women from the risk of forced pregnancy through rape. Not to validate people's feelings that may or may not be based in neurology.

You might also consider reading "Delusions Of Gender" by Cordelia Fine, which debunks the notion of congenital brain sex completely.

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

BonfireLady · 09/11/2025 11:08

Nobody is forcing rape victims call their abusers "she", and using this example to attack the trans community is disingenuous.

If nobody is forcing rape victims to call their abusers "she", what pronouns are acceptable in your view?

He? They?

Does it make a difference what pronouns the perpetrator prefers? E.g. Isla Bryson prefers "she". So what should Isla's victims say in your opinion?

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/11/2025 11:17

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

Excluding Isla Bryson and his ilk isn’t fair on women, especially women prisoners.

Judellie · 09/11/2025 11:18

But you are doing the same @Gnasher1981 , insisting all your stuff is right because you want it to be, but not happy when people provide examples/links/studies showing the exact opposite.

ContentedAlpaca · 09/11/2025 11:19

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

What about Alexis Black?

spannasaurus · 09/11/2025 11:20

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

So transwomen are women except if they make the trans community look bad at which point they become men?

Theeyeballsinthesky · 09/11/2025 11:21

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

sooooo how to we tell the nice harmless TW from the violent rapist TW? We have been told over and over again by TRA that if a man says he is a women then women must accept that he is a woman. In fact to not accept this is transphobic

what's your answer to this problem?

or do you think women should take their chances and hope?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:23

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:01

The English courts were compelling victims to use "she" to refer to trans-identified male defendants for a while, under guidance inserted by TRA magistrate Tanweer Ikram into the 2018 edition of the Equal Treatment Bench Book. For context, Ikram acquitted Sarah Jane Baker after his "if you see a TERF, punch them in the fucking face" speech.

R v Wolf, popularly known as the "Maria MacLachlan case", is an example where this compulsion was applied.

I think the 2018 bench book may be the later version that withdrew this compulsion. I cant't remember when the prosecution for attack on Maria was. Nonetheless, it remains fact that the judge reduced Maria's damages because she was unable to use "preferred pronouns" (aka lie under oath that a woman had attacked her when in fact a man had).

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:27

Judellie · 09/11/2025 11:18

But you are doing the same @Gnasher1981 , insisting all your stuff is right because you want it to be, but not happy when people provide examples/links/studies showing the exact opposite.

I have not been shown anything other than personal opinions.
I have provided scientific studies to show my beliefs.

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:28

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:23

I think the 2018 bench book may be the later version that withdrew this compulsion. I cant't remember when the prosecution for attack on Maria was. Nonetheless, it remains fact that the judge reduced Maria's damages because she was unable to use "preferred pronouns" (aka lie under oath that a woman had attacked her when in fact a man had).

Then this was a miscarriage of justice.

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:30

Theeyeballsinthesky · 09/11/2025 11:21

sooooo how to we tell the nice harmless TW from the violent rapist TW? We have been told over and over again by TRA that if a man says he is a women then women must accept that he is a woman. In fact to not accept this is transphobic

what's your answer to this problem?

or do you think women should take their chances and hope?

The same way you tell a violent man from a non violent msn. In cis men it is the majority who are not while for trans men it is the greater majority.

spannasaurus · 09/11/2025 11:30

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:28

Then this was a miscarriage of justice.

Does this mean you have no problem with people referring to transwomen as he and calling them a man?

spannasaurus · 09/11/2025 11:32

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:30

The same way you tell a violent man from a non violent msn. In cis men it is the majority who are not while for trans men it is the greater majority.

How do you tell the difference between a violent and non violent man before they attack you?

BettyBooper · 09/11/2025 11:33

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:02

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41386-020-0666-3
https://hudson.org.au/news/written-in-dna-study-reveals-potential-biological-basis-for-transgender/
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/
These are three examples for pro trans debate from a scientific perspective.

Could you provide scientific examples from an anti trans perspective?

I got as far as the introduction saying sex 'assigned at birth'.

This is not scientific or unbiased.

Women are objecting to male bodies in female spaces.

You cannot change a male body into a female body. It is impossible. It is irrelevant what feelings someone has about it.

BonfireLady · 09/11/2025 11:33

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:16

Theyould call Isla Bryson an unholy hell hound for all i care.
Using this as example is not fair on the rest of the trans community.

Which is kinda my point, people use extreme examples to justify their own opinions rather than try to be understanding of the matter at hand.

So could they call any rapist an unholy hell hound for all you care? (I assume that means you don't care which pronouns are used for Isla Bryson BTW)

Given the increasing numbers of TW rapists and sex crime perpetrators reported in the press, it would be helpful to know if you apply the same standards to all of them regarding pronoun usage.

The next logical question is "where is the line?" At what point do you start to care about pronoun usage in courts and in news reports about TW who have committed crimes? Why is the crime significant in how much you care?

nicepotoftea · 09/11/2025 11:34

ErrolTheDragon · 09/11/2025 09:51

They position re rape victims has now been corrected but in the recent past that was the position, as laid out in the ‘Bench book’.
A victim of physical attack by a transwoman had her compensation reduced because she’d ‘misgendered’ him. This is all a matter of public record. Facts, not opinion.

The only TW who are ‘compared to rapists’ are the ones who actually are rapists. There are numerous examples, unfortunately.

Edited

And the guidance in the old Bench book was intentional - The editorial panel included Victoria McCloud, a trans identifying male who is currently trying to to challenge the Supreme Court ruling.

Re: comments on Isla Bryson, the point is not that he represents trans people (a category that now resists any definition ), but that activists are campaigning for men like him to be housed in women's prisons.

@Gnasher1981 You give the impression that you don't know much about the details of this issue, and to be fair, I think that is true of most people.

BettyBooper · 09/11/2025 11:40

@Gnasher1981

Even if what you say is true, that trans identifying men somehow have 'lady brains':

If a man was found to have a mental age of 7 and thought he was a child, would you allow him to attend primary school?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 09/11/2025 11:40

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:27

I have not been shown anything other than personal opinions.
I have provided scientific studies to show my beliefs.

You think that my statement that pregnancy is a risk that only males can inflict on to only females is a personal opinion?

Scout2016 · 09/11/2025 11:44

Gnasher1981 · 09/11/2025 11:28

Then this was a miscarriage of justice.

And how did it happen? Wasn't in a vacuum because the judge had a personal agenda was it?
It was because of lobbying that it is transphobic hate to say that TW are men and that anyone who says as much should be punished. It was because lots of people decided that trans people had lots of "rights" that legally they did not.