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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ocasio-Cortez vs Riley Gaines

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PopstarPoppy · 30/10/2025 10:53

Wow. Just…wow. It’s so depressing how many female misogynists there are, and how many are in powerful positions.

thehill.com/homenews/media/5576319-ocasio-cortez-mocks-riley-gaines/

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FrippEnos · 30/10/2025 17:46

This

If you took every trans athlete out of sports, no one would have heard of Riley Gaines. She owes her livelihood to trans athletes.

Is quite funny.
As RG herself says that if it wasn't for the trans athletes she would have continued her studies to be a dentist.

Which I suspect is a lot more lucrative (and safer) than what she is currently doing.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 17:48

Helleofabore · 30/10/2025 13:30

Can you confirm whether there was any more to it than the following:

Riley Gaines posted at Oct 27, 2025

"We're being destroyed from within" which is a picture of three people including Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.

https://x.com/Riley_Gaines_/status/1982654572075360550

Which was then answered by Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez on the same day with:

"Maybe if you channeled all this anger into swimming faster you wouldn’t have come in fifth."

https://x.com/AOC/status/1982882637376303280

Which Riley then replied with on the same day tweet quoting the above tweet:

"It’s always hilarious when they think they’ve landed a “gotcha” by pointing out I was the 5th-fastest woman in the nation yet they conveniently forget the mediocre man who ranked 462nd in the men’s division lol Misogynistic dunce"

And Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez then responded to a tweet with a link to an interview that Riley gave on the interaction where apparently Riley said ' I would like to challenge AOC to a debate' :

"And I would like to challenge this person to get a real job."

https://x.com/AOC/status/1982956276679057643

Was there anything before the first tweet from Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez making a very personal attack on Riley Gaines that I have missed?

No I can't. Can you?

TheNightingalesStarling · 30/10/2025 17:52

Unfortunately although RG is (rightly) very vocal on one particular area, I wouldn't call someone who has talked about the "evils" of abortion rights a feminist exactly...

It does highlight a problem with how polarised US politics is currently. Neither side is exactly pro-women.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 18:07

Apollo441 · 30/10/2025 13:18

RG is entitled to comment on policies pushed by politicians. AOC is a politician who supports those policies. She should be able to engage in a debate to defend them. As completely typical of supporters of trans inclusive policies she did not engage in debate but chose to sling a personal insult instead.

I would hardly call the comment under the photo a debate.

Fighting to keep biological males out of sport does not give her a pass on her views on women's bodily autonomy. Republicans are only selectively pro women #Adrianasmith

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 18:10

TheNightingalesStarling · 30/10/2025 17:52

Unfortunately although RG is (rightly) very vocal on one particular area, I wouldn't call someone who has talked about the "evils" of abortion rights a feminist exactly...

It does highlight a problem with how polarised US politics is currently. Neither side is exactly pro-women.

I'm not sure RG would call herself a feminist? I don't actually know but I suspect not. She's a very commited Christian.

I suspect she believes she campaigns for women's rights and cares about women but doesn't subsribe to all the supposed tenets to claim to be a feminist.

Being in favour of unrestricted abortion is not the only pro women stance. Many women think unrestricted abortion has harmed women in many ways. There are diffreing opinions on what leads to the best outcomes for women.

Anyway, yes I'm sure her abortion stnace is a key reason AOC feels it's OK to attack her like this

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 18:51

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 18:10

I'm not sure RG would call herself a feminist? I don't actually know but I suspect not. She's a very commited Christian.

I suspect she believes she campaigns for women's rights and cares about women but doesn't subsribe to all the supposed tenets to claim to be a feminist.

Being in favour of unrestricted abortion is not the only pro women stance. Many women think unrestricted abortion has harmed women in many ways. There are diffreing opinions on what leads to the best outcomes for women.

Anyway, yes I'm sure her abortion stnace is a key reason AOC feels it's OK to attack her like this

It wasn't unrestricted abortion to robbed Adriana Smith of her dignity in death.

RogueFemale · 30/10/2025 19:19

letsallchant · 30/10/2025 17:34

I'm convinced the first woman president will be a Republican. Someone will go all out to talk tough and out men the men, and voters will go for it. The Democrats are in trouble. The 'Kamala is for they/them, Trump is for you' line really struck a chord but they can't back away from it.

Compare here, where the Conservatives have had two women PMs and one leader, and Labour zero. So yes, I agree it's more likely a woman Republican would succeed - but also unlikely given the male supremacy reigning in the USA in general. It'd take a very tough women equivalent to Thatcher.

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 19:21

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 18:51

It wasn't unrestricted abortion to robbed Adriana Smith of her dignity in death.

Well no but this thread isn't about the abortion debate, so suffice to say RG's opinions on abortion is one of the reasons some women feel it's justfied to attack her as they do.

RogueFemale · 30/10/2025 19:25

@PopstarPoppy I was also dismayed at AOC's really nasty comment. Also demonstrating her ignorance of the nature of trans ideology and how it's intruding on women's rights.

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 19:26

TempestTost · 30/10/2025 16:43

I don't put a huge amount of importance on having a woman president in the US just for the sake of having a woman, but it is unfortunate that the Dems have been running these female candidates who are very unlikely to win. AOC is really popular in the Dem base - unlike Harris - but I am not sure she is popular enough with swing voters to win.

The reason it is unfortunate, imo, is people will keep blaming their losses on misogynist voters, rather than the Dems being clueless and running unwinnable candidates. And maybe people will start to really believe that and shy away even from good female candidates.

I think a good woman candidate could absolutely win in the US. I almost think a Republican woman would fare better.

I agree if they run AOC they'll have had 3 terrible female candidates.
Not great for women.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:05

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 19:21

Well no but this thread isn't about the abortion debate, so suffice to say RG's opinions on abortion is one of the reasons some women feel it's justfied to attack her as they do.

Is not about abortion you are quite right. But holding up RG as some sort of victim is deeply offensive.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:08

MalagaNights · 30/10/2025 19:26

I agree if they run AOC they'll have had 3 terrible female candidates.
Not great for women.

But RG and her ilk are great for women? Go and educate your self about Adriana Smith. IMOO RG stand for misogyny and the oppression in women... just not in sport or toilets.

Dragonasaurus · 30/10/2025 20:31

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:08

But RG and her ilk are great for women? Go and educate your self about Adriana Smith. IMOO RG stand for misogyny and the oppression in women... just not in sport or toilets.

Strangely, it’s possible that both Riley Gaines and Adriana Smith have been treated appallingly

nolongersurprised · 30/10/2025 20:36

Floisme · 30/10/2025 14:55

Have the Democrats learned anything from November 2024?
Anything at all?

Nope. They are beholden to the far left of their party and will therefore continue to lose.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:37

Dragonasaurus · 30/10/2025 20:31

Strangely, it’s possible that both Riley Gaines and Adriana Smith have been treated appallingly

No they have not. RG is a blonde haired white republican female in the US. It is insulting that you compare the level of treatment that they have endured.

SionnachRuadh · 30/10/2025 20:39

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:37

No they have not. RG is a blonde haired white republican female in the US. It is insulting that you compare the level of treatment that they have endured.

Seems to me there's only one person here saying people should be treated differently based on their race, and that person is you.

SisterTeatime · 30/10/2025 20:41

AOC is a horrible, arrogant person. And whatever one thinks about Riley Gaines and Republicans in general, Gaines is dead right on this issue.

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:43

SionnachRuadh · 30/10/2025 20:39

Seems to me there's only one person here saying people should be treated differently based on their race, and that person is you.

Tell me you know nothing about racism in the US, without telling me. Sit down and let the adults (some of them, anyway) talk.

Llamasarellovely · 30/10/2025 20:49

RogueFemale · 30/10/2025 19:19

Compare here, where the Conservatives have had two women PMs and one leader, and Labour zero. So yes, I agree it's more likely a woman Republican would succeed - but also unlikely given the male supremacy reigning in the USA in general. It'd take a very tough women equivalent to Thatcher.

Three female PMs, Thatcher, May and Truss, as well as Badenoch as leader.

Sorciere1 · 30/10/2025 20:51

Give the racism a rest, you don't want to be a Jew or get murdered or chased or hated just for existing.
RG absolutely can be a feminist, no one owns the term. She's pro women. She has conservative values, as do I. The left don't own feminism or even support it right now ...

Howseitgoin · 30/10/2025 20:54

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:08

But RG and her ilk are great for women? Go and educate your self about Adriana Smith. IMOO RG stand for misogyny and the oppression in women... just not in sport or toilets.

Exactly.

RG is merely a useful wedge as is gender critical ideology effectively acting as a women's gateway to the far right. She either doesn't care (because of the incentives) or doesn't understand the leopards eating faces party aren't about to do women any favours particularly because they blame them & birth control for the 'browning' of America. No second prizes for guessing how they intend to make up for the birth rate decline of white babies.

“I want to dive into an issue more deeply into why targeting trans girls is particularly problematic not just for trans girls but for all of us… Trans people represent 1% of the population and we have spent so many resources and time figuring out how to more finely exclude them… and I’ve started to realize that a lot of these proposals here involve invasion of privacy of all women.” More recently, in a House hearing on a Republican bill to ban trans people from sports, Ocasio-Cortez delivered a searing rebuke: “Republicans, who have voted consistently against the Violence Against Women Act, who have taken the rights of all women to have control over their own body, who as women are bleeding out in parking lots, now want to pretend today that they care about women. And why? To open up genital inspection on little girls across this country in the name of attacking trans girls. We have two words. Not today.”

https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/aoc-to-anti-trans-swimmer-riley-gaines

Unlike RG, AOC knows exactly what time it is…

Erin Reed (@erininthemorning.com)

Rep AOC: "republicans, who have voted consistently against the violence against women's act, who have taken the rights of all women to have control over their own body, who as women are bleeding out in parking lots, now want to pretend today that they...

https://bsky.app/profile/erininthemorning.com/post/3lfpsxq2erk2s

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:59

Sorciere1 · 30/10/2025 20:51

Give the racism a rest, you don't want to be a Jew or get murdered or chased or hated just for existing.
RG absolutely can be a feminist, no one owns the term. She's pro women. She has conservative values, as do I. The left don't own feminism or even support it right now ...

She is not pro women, she is anti trans. There is a difference. Educate yourself.

AutumnalCrows · 30/10/2025 21:00

PollyNomial · 30/10/2025 11:12

Fortunately RG isn't in a powerful position.

I appreciate you know what it feels like, and strongly identify with this powerlessness of position; but your projection on this thread is not doing you any good at all.

It’s ok to be emotional. It’s ok to have some talking time out there in the real world.

Dragonasaurus · 30/10/2025 21:04

NorthXNorthWest · 30/10/2025 20:37

No they have not. RG is a blonde haired white republican female in the US. It is insulting that you compare the level of treatment that they have endured.

Adriana Smith was treated appallingly.
Riley Gaines being expected to strip in front of a man, while he was waving his penis around in the women’s changing room counts, in my book as being treated appallingly.
Their race is not relevant in terms of my belief both were treated appallingly.

if you think it’s fine for RG to be treated like this because she’s a blonde white woman, that sounds like a you problem

Dragonasaurus · 30/10/2025 21:08

Dragonasaurus · 30/10/2025 15:00

@PollyNomial , both you and AOC have seen fit to address this with personal attacks rather than making an actual argument. So, you have the opportunity….

Women’s sports were instigated because the biological differences between male and female bodies mean that it is pretty much always unfair to expect males and females to compete on level terms. Male advantage does not disappear upon transition, skeleton geometry and bone length can never be changed, just as transition doesn’t give men the better colour vision that most women have. The vast majority of sports favour characteristics where males have an advantage. Can you explain why you think it is fair to allow someone with these inherent advantages into the female category?

Edited to add, I’m not really expecting a response - surprise me?

Edited

@Howseitgoin maybe you can answer my question from earlier, Polly doesn’t seem to have an answer

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