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JK on Emma Watson

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Lowarnes · 29/09/2025 13:08

A stunningly perfect response to Watson’s recent comments. Haven’t seen a thread on this so thought I’d post below:

”I'm seeing quite a bit of comment about this, so I want to make a couple of points.

I'm not owed eternal agreement from any actor who once played a character I created. The idea is as ludicrous as me checking with the boss I had when I was twenty-one for what opinions I should hold these days.

Emma Watson and her co-stars have every right to embrace gender identity ideology. Such beliefs are legally protected, and I wouldn't want to see any of them threatened with loss of work, or violence, or death, because of them.

However, Emma and Dan in particular have both made it clear over the last few years that they think our former professional association gives them a particular right - nay, obligation - to critique me and my views in public. Years after they finished acting in Potter, they continue to assume the role of de facto spokespeople for the world I created.

When you've known people since they were ten years old it's hard to shake a certain protectiveness. Until quite recently, I hadn't managed to throw off the memory of children who needed to be gently coaxed through their dialogue in a big scary film studio. For the past few years, I've repeatedly declined invitations from journalists to comment on Emma specifically, most notably on the Witch Trials of JK Rowling. Ironically, I told the producers that I didn't want her to be hounded as the result of anything I said.

The television presenter in the attached clip highlights Emma's 'all witches' speech, and in truth, that was a turning point for me, but it had a postscript that hurt far more than the speech itself. Emma asked someone to pass on a handwritten note from her to me, which contained the single sentence 'I'm so sorry for what you're going through' (she has my phone number). This was back when the death, rape and torture threats against me were at their peak, at a time when my personal security measures had had to be tightened considerably and I was constantly worried for my family's safety. Emma had just publicly poured more petrol on the flames, yet thought a one line expression of concern from her would reassure me of her fundamental sympathy and kindness.

Like other people who've never experienced adult life uncushioned by wealth and fame, Emma has so little experience of real life she's ignorant of how ignorant she is. She'll never need a homeless shelter. She's never going to be placed on a mixed sex public hospital ward. I'd be astounded if she's been in a high street changing room since childhood. Her 'public bathroom' is single occupancy and comes with a security man standing guard outside the door. Has she had to strip off in a newly mixed-sex changing room at a council-run swimming pool? Is she ever likely to need a state-run rape crisis centre that refuses to guarantee an all-female service? To find herself sharing a prison cell with a male rapist who's identified into the women's prison?

I wasn't a multimillionaire at fourteen. I lived in poverty while writing the book that made Emma famous. I therefore understand from my own life experience what the trashing of women's rights in which Emma has so enthusiastically participated means to women and girls without her privileges.

The greatest irony here is that, had Emma not decided in her most recent interview to declare that she loves and treasures me - a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was - I might never have been this honest.

Adults can't expect to cosy up to an activist movement that regularly calls for a friend's assassination, then assert their right to the former friend's love, as though the friend was in fact their mother. Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it.”

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Citrusbergamia · 29/09/2025 13:10

A perfect response.

(JKR's response has been mentioned on another thread on here btw - Well, hello Emma Watson | Mumsnet)

Greyskybluesky · 29/09/2025 13:12

Thank you OP.

"a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was"

Ohhellnooo · 29/09/2025 13:12

Wow. That’s a fantastic response. I hope that makes people think.

MarieDeGournay · 29/09/2025 13:13

A wise, respectful and balanced response.

It's probably being condemned as more JKR hatespeech even as I write🙄

Lowarnes · 29/09/2025 13:14

Citrusbergamia · 29/09/2025 13:10

A perfect response.

(JKR's response has been mentioned on another thread on here btw - Well, hello Emma Watson | Mumsnet)

Ah sorry I did see that thread but obviously didn’t scroll down enough to see it had been posted 😵‍💫

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Greyskybluesky · 29/09/2025 13:16

Greyskybluesky · 29/09/2025 13:12

Thank you OP.

"a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was"

I mean, it's still obviously de rigueur in certain circles!

It's whether EW wants to be associated with those circles.

The old 'guilt by association' conundrum!

AnSolas · 29/09/2025 13:16

🍿🤣🤣🤣

Class way to say stop trying to run with the hare while leading the hunt as a hound

PepeParapluie · 29/09/2025 13:16

[accidental double post]

PepeParapluie · 29/09/2025 13:16

I never fail to be impressed with how JKR expresses herself.

WatchingTheDetective · 29/09/2025 13:36

PepeParapluie · 29/09/2025 13:16

I never fail to be impressed with how JKR expresses herself.

Me too - she's done a great job here. All of this must be hurtful. I hope JKR knows just how many women are standing behind her.

ItsCoolForCats · 29/09/2025 13:39

PepeParapluie · 29/09/2025 13:16

I never fail to be impressed with how JKR expresses herself.

Me too. She is so incredibly insightful, which is why she is such a wonderful writer. And she has a great bullshit filter.

KittyWilkinson · 29/09/2025 13:40

I'm so glad that JKR wrote that.
Measured and clear. It was long overdue.

Lottapianos · 29/09/2025 13:41

She's an absolutely class act. Terrific piece of writing

MaMaMalenka · 29/09/2025 13:47

JKR 💐🏆

Orangemintcream · 29/09/2025 13:47

Once again JKR expresses herself articulately and with dignity.

cornishatheart · 29/09/2025 13:51

She's remarkable - for her extraordinary courage and for her outstanding articulacy.

TroubledBloodyMary · 29/09/2025 13:53

That’s impressively calm, measured and cutting.

isitmyturn · 29/09/2025 13:53

I saw that post. Beautifully written as always but what stood out to me was the sneaky little note from EW.

CatsMagic · 29/09/2025 13:55

Fantastic statement from JKR.

I think she is a fantastic writer, but actually much more than that - she is the philanthropist that we should all strive to be.

Particpatory · 29/09/2025 13:59

It is such a rare skill to write so well. Brava JKR.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 29/09/2025 14:02

Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it.”

Mic drop!

TheSlantedOwl · 29/09/2025 14:03

Unfailing clarity and balance as usual. She’s such an important trailblazer.

Bonden · 29/09/2025 14:05

Bloody love JK

REP22 · 29/09/2025 14:19

Class and dignity, as ever. Love JKR. EW's "all witches... except one." petty aside was glib and nasty. That JKR can speak of it so tolerantly says more about her than any deluded snipe to jeering crowds will ever say.

MarieDeGournay · 29/09/2025 14:23

I'm glad you posted this separately from the Emma Watson thread, OP.
It merits its own space.

I've never read a single word of JKR's books, none of them, not HP, nor the detective stuff. Not my thing at all.

So the deep admiration I feel for JKR is based solely on her statements and her actions in support of women, children, justice and the truth.

The dignity and power of this statement is an example of why I admire her so very much, without being a fan - or even a reader! - of her books.

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