It is. It's representative of a fundamental belief in gender activism: that women aren't really human and obviously have no inner life or thoughts or purpose except men. They serve men, they think about men, everything they do is about men because what else is there? So when they are not doing what a man wants they must obviously be doing it solely to piss the man off because everything will always be all about him. She has no existence beyond him.
And in many activists you see it go into an even less evolved and developed horror and rage that mummy has life and thoughts beyond baby, and meeting baby's needs.
I'm done, and it's largely because of those activists here endlessly niggling and wangling.
I do not care how sad a man is. He doesn't care about the women he wants to exclude, the women who will be unable to use any space, the women who will be strip searched and assaulted by the other men he's held the door open for.
I don't care about the wangling, the guilt, the shaming, a lot of pomo waffle, the clownfishcolonialistheteronormativerightwingfasciatJKKeenewitchSection28 bullshit, I'm bored to the fucking teeth of it and burned right out. Tears and tantrums can fuck off now, women are not your bloody doormat. Find your own space, end of.