In final submission, NC invites the tribunal to recall Upton's demeanour as a witness, and I'm pretty sure they won't be able to forget!
The people who escorted Upton into the tribunal (not family) had to be told off for sitting behind NC trying to look at her screen. The behaviour was atrocious all round from the group.
Overall he reminded me of a quieter version of Rick Pratt from The Young Ones https://theyoungones.fandom.com/wiki/Rick
This was a bit I remember vividly:
NC On 24.12 u stood yr ground re CR, but few hrs later u feel unsafe and later use the CR. Y're giving mixed messages?
DU No, I was shaken and freaking out. But then settled down. Gave a little info to a friend, that had an uncomfy incident and wld she accompany me as felt unsafe. No specifics. Put my big girl pants on but wasnt as brave as I thought I was, and went to plaster room in my socks
NC You explained thro tears to Elspeth, and tears on 29th. Not cos of threats from SP? No-one laid a finger on you. All this distress cos of what she said?
No. She asked Qs and compared me to a rapist. She'd decided to confront me. Never been spoken to like that in my life
The reference to Big Girl Pants was said very smugly as though it was rehearsed. The "I'd never been spoken to like that in my life" was shock-laugh-out-loud memorable. Really indignant entitled posh boy attitude.
NC How can u cope w my Qs over a longer period, that are more direct, w/out distress
DU I'm expecting it. Not ahead of Xmas and a long drive. My AE job is stressful and have to exude xlam. I deal w grumpy rude patients a lot, the parents of dying kids. I'm tapping into that
currently but am deeply distressed by this process
NC said more than TT managed to get down here, and she seemed to be testing out exactly what you're asking. Upton was grandly explaining that he was tapping into his almightly professionalism in court as a cover for his 'deep distress', but actually, he looked and sounded like a supercilious posh twat sneering down at anyone who challenged him.