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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Katy Montgomerie

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niadainud · 24/07/2025 19:35

Just wondering what people think about her. I was sent a link by someone, and I do occasionally try to watch the views of pro-trans people for "balance", but I really struggled with this one.

I find her excessively pleased with herself, incoherent, ageist and of course prone to flinging around insults such as "TERF", "transphone" and "bigot" every few minutes.

I'm not quite sure what gives her the confidence to "diss" people like Helen Joyce, Richard Dawkins et al, as if they're idiots and she is some sort of intellectual giant.

She says things like this: "The UK's Supreme Court ruled on "biological sex", but they have absolutely no idea what they're talking about. The "Gender Critical" position on biology is just factually wrong. Finally hundreds of experts in the field come together to call out all this anti-science rubbish"

Other than being trans herself, does she have any justifiable claim to the superior knowledge she purports to have?

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BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 20:33

I don't think anyone was having a go at you, it's just most of the regulars on this board have been talking about this issue for over a decade, realised early on that the pronouns are the thin end of the wedge and believe in correct sexing for accuracy.

After all if you aren't allowed to use accurate language you can't articulate what the issues are.

This was shared again in a different thread, you might find it an interesting read.

Pronouns are Rohypnol • Fair Play For Women

Pronouns are Rohypnol • Fair Play For Women

There’s a lot of chat around about pronouns right now. Specifically, ‘preferred’ pronouns. By which is usually meant, the pronouns a person would prefer.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/pronouns/

niadainud · 24/07/2025 20:34

soupycustard · 24/07/2025 20:23

KM is completely ignorant of biology but like many males, utterly convinced of his own rightness in all things.
As to that letter, there was at least one really good thread on it straight after it was published. I'm afraid I cant find it now. But without going over each point, it totally lacks intellectual rigour and mixes a number of concepts together in a way which is consistent with most TRA arguments. If anyone else can find that thread, it's useful as a few posters explained the issues very well and clearly.

Thanks. MN is an excellent resource for this sort of thing!

It amazes me how unintelligent a lot of these so-called experts are when it comes to putting together a coherent and logical argument.

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NHSFifeStatementFinalFINALFinalVersionV9FINAL · 24/07/2025 20:37

The thing is, even if sex was a spectrum and people were walking around being 65% male, and 35% female - so what?

Trans people are people who have a sex, they have a gender identity, and they believe that these somehow do not 'match'. So how could you have a trans person if they didn't have a sex to match or not-match their gender identity?

What are the list of gender identities that match a 65%M/35%F person? They can't even write out a list of those that match male or female.

niadainud · 24/07/2025 20:37

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 20:33

I don't think anyone was having a go at you, it's just most of the regulars on this board have been talking about this issue for over a decade, realised early on that the pronouns are the thin end of the wedge and believe in correct sexing for accuracy.

After all if you aren't allowed to use accurate language you can't articulate what the issues are.

This was shared again in a different thread, you might find it an interesting read.

Pronouns are Rohypnol • Fair Play For Women

No, I know - it was just getting a bit repetitive and not giving the discussion any substance.

Totally agree about accurate language. I should have used "he" in the first place, but I was introduced to KM through quite a militant pro-trans group I used to belong to (for complicated reasons) so am in the habit of calling KM "her" so as not to be lynched.

Thanks for the link.

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NHSFifeStatementFinalFINALFinalVersionV9FINAL · 24/07/2025 20:38

The number of times you see people being interviewed and asked, for example, to define a woman. They way they squirm and stutter is just embarrassing, but I'm sure it's disingenuous 90% of the time and they just know that they can't say what a woman is without totally losing face.

And anyone who says they are going to transition to being a woman, and then alters their body to appear female, knows full well that they think women are female. Unless this is just a huge massive coincidence??

Muffinmam · 24/07/2025 20:47

niadainud · 24/07/2025 19:50

So rather than just correcting pronouns, what do you think of him?

I think nothing of him. I don’t think about these people. I ignore them - which is what we all should do.

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 20:49

niadainud · 24/07/2025 20:37

No, I know - it was just getting a bit repetitive and not giving the discussion any substance.

Totally agree about accurate language. I should have used "he" in the first place, but I was introduced to KM through quite a militant pro-trans group I used to belong to (for complicated reasons) so am in the habit of calling KM "her" so as not to be lynched.

Thanks for the link.

Posters here can be blunt and straight talking. I quite like that personally.

But contrary to TRA opinion, the regulars here are actually really lovely people and welcome open good faith discussion.

OldCrone · 24/07/2025 21:00

I just clicked on this link and my computer crashed.

niadainud · 24/07/2025 21:06

Muffinmam · 24/07/2025 20:47

I think nothing of him. I don’t think about these people. I ignore them - which is what we all should do.

Fair enough!

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niadainud · 24/07/2025 21:07

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 20:49

Posters here can be blunt and straight talking. I quite like that personally.

But contrary to TRA opinion, the regulars here are actually really lovely people and welcome open good faith discussion.

I agree.

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ArabellaScott · 24/07/2025 21:08

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 20:49

Posters here can be blunt and straight talking. I quite like that personally.

But contrary to TRA opinion, the regulars here are actually really lovely people and welcome open good faith discussion.

We are not.

Some of us are absolute horrors. NAMING NO NAMES.

niadainud · 24/07/2025 21:08

OldCrone · 24/07/2025 21:00

I just clicked on this link and my computer crashed.

Sorry! Perhaps your computer is gender critical?

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ArabellaScott · 24/07/2025 21:09

niadainud · 24/07/2025 21:08

Sorry! Perhaps your computer is gender critical?

It runs on binary coding, so highly likely.

DuesToTheDirt · 24/07/2025 21:11

niadainud · 24/07/2025 19:52

I agree, but clearly plenty of people do think he has something of value to say.

Apparently a sizeable list of doctors and biologists wrote to the Supreme Court recently objecting to the ruling (the primary objection being the claim that sex in humans is binary). Do their arguments hold any weight?

Sex is binary. DSDs don't change that.

So, some figures. The percentage of people with DSDs is very small, though noone seems to know how small - one paper says "Estimates of incidence range from more than 1 in 100 to less than 1 in 5,000 births". A huge variation in figures. One organisation (dsdfamilies,org) claims "Every year in the UK, approximately 150 children are diagnosed with differences of sex
development (DSD) – and that means there are approximately 2,300 children living with DSD conditions in the UK." Tiny numbers.

Then we have the percentage of trans people. Again, estimates vary between perhaps 0.5 and 2% and many rely on poor data.

It is the trans community pushing the argument that sex is not binary, because it would benefit them. It isn't people with DSDs who push this argument. So, do trans people have some kind of gender dysphoria because they have DSDs? No, they don't. One paper claims that "Gender dysphoria generally affects between 8.5-20% of individuals with DSDs, depending on the type of DSD". I haven't found any figures for the percentage of DSDs among people who say they are trans. However, given that the incidence of trans people is rising rapidly, while I expect DSDs remain fairly constant (though rates of diagnosis and treatment may vary) I cannot imagine there is much of a link. If there was, I'm sure they would be lining up to prove it.

I'm not linking all the papers, you can hunt them out if you want from the phrases I've quoted.

Basically, sex is binary and in many situations it matters. People with DSDs are still male or female. Watch an interview with Caster Semanya and tell me if you think he is female. Watch Imane Khelif boxing and tell me if you think he is female. Watch their behaviour and tell me if they think they're female. (Hint, they really don't.) Trans people are still male or female. How many females are convicted of sexual assault, rape, violence, indecent exposure? And how many trans-identifying men? Whatever is going on in their heads, it is not reflected in their behaviour.

Sorry, that was longer than expected!

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 21:14

😂 @ArabellaScott

I know absolutely nothing about technology tbh but I notice the link is to a google doc, I'm sure someone mentioned on the NHS Fife threads that some people might not want to click on those for some reason?

TheRoundestRobin · 24/07/2025 21:14

niadainud · 24/07/2025 20:32

Jeez.

The number of times you see people being interviewed and asked, for example, to define a woman. They way they squirm and stutter is just embarrassing, but I'm sure it's disingenuous 90% of the time and they just know that they can't say what a woman is without totally losing face.

The thing is though, I consider myself as GC as they come (though not as articulate or well-informed as some on this board) but I struggle to define what a woman is. I mean, it's an adult human female, but what's a female? It's not just about chromosomes, because variations from XX/XY are relatively common (moreso than variations in the number of limbs for example, I would have thought). And it's not just about fertility and reproduction because not everybody is fertile (someone upthread said that 97% of people are/will be/have been fertile, but that seems high based on my own small social circle and the number of couples who have struggled with infertility.)
So how do we define "female"?

OldCrone · 24/07/2025 21:16

NHSFifeStatementFinalFINALFinalVersionV9FINAL · 24/07/2025 20:38

The number of times you see people being interviewed and asked, for example, to define a woman. They way they squirm and stutter is just embarrassing, but I'm sure it's disingenuous 90% of the time and they just know that they can't say what a woman is without totally losing face.

And anyone who says they are going to transition to being a woman, and then alters their body to appear female, knows full well that they think women are female. Unless this is just a huge massive coincidence??

This is what I don't understand about trans identified people who deny the existence of biological sex.

If biological sex didn't exist, trans people couldn't exist because there would be nothing to transition to or from.

OldCrone · 24/07/2025 21:17

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 21:14

😂 @ArabellaScott

I know absolutely nothing about technology tbh but I notice the link is to a google doc, I'm sure someone mentioned on the NHS Fife threads that some people might not want to click on those for some reason?

I don't normally click on them, but I didn't notice that was a google doc until after I clicked on it. I won't make that mistake again.

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 21:18

TheRoundestRobin · 24/07/2025 21:14

The thing is though, I consider myself as GC as they come (though not as articulate or well-informed as some on this board) but I struggle to define what a woman is. I mean, it's an adult human female, but what's a female? It's not just about chromosomes, because variations from XX/XY are relatively common (moreso than variations in the number of limbs for example, I would have thought). And it's not just about fertility and reproduction because not everybody is fertile (someone upthread said that 97% of people are/will be/have been fertile, but that seems high based on my own small social circle and the number of couples who have struggled with infertility.)
So how do we define "female"?

Is your body "set up" to produce large immobile gametes (eggs), or small mobile gametes (sperm)? It does not matter whether your body actually produces them or not, or whether there are issues or not. It is always one or the other.

spannasaurus · 24/07/2025 21:19

Female- of the sex class which produces large immobile gametes

ArabellaScott · 24/07/2025 21:22

BouncyCastleNHSSquirrels · 24/07/2025 21:14

😂 @ArabellaScott

I know absolutely nothing about technology tbh but I notice the link is to a google doc, I'm sure someone mentioned on the NHS Fife threads that some people might not want to click on those for some reason?

As far as I understand it, there are some ways that if one is logged into a google work account, one's username is potentially visible to the owner of the google doc. But I don't understand it very well. I don't click on them, just in case.

eatfigs · 24/07/2025 21:26

I've argued with him on Twitter long ago. It was a quite irritating experience. Not sure why there's a thread about him in particular when there are so many of these gender zealots.

Helleofabore · 24/07/2025 21:26

OP

If you are after shorter form content that might help you to calm the dissonance of learning that there really are medical doctors and scientists who would put their signature to a letter declaring sex is complicated for the purpose of safeguarding, check out the Paradox Institute content. It is a good starting place or perhaps a good ‘resetting’ place.

https://theparadoxinstitute.org

Paradox Institute

From cleanly illustrated animated videos to long form essays, we provide digestible, scientific content on the most fundamental and controversial research in the biology of sex differences.

https://theparadoxinstitute.org

usedtobeaylis · 24/07/2025 21:26

Maty Katy is a bog standard misogynist who doesn't really have credibility. Katy also a shitebag who backed out of a debate with I think Jane Clare Jones.

zerofeeling · 24/07/2025 21:27

I think he's more intelligent than the average TRA and can be quite witty in arguments so gullible people believe that means he must be right. Peel that away and there's a very messed up conflicted man who can't tolerate even one woman saying no to him.

He must be pushing 40 now and I really wonder how he'll cope with ageing when he sets so much store by superficial looks.

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