To the contrary I've spend hours and hours on this site carefully and thoughtfully trying to explain it in the most accessible way that I can.
And yet in all those posts, never once explained why a male bodied person (person of male karyotype if you prefer)'s inner sense of his own womanhood should be more significant to the women he interacts with than their own experience that he is of male body. Why his belief that his eyes are a woman's is more real than a woman's experience she is being watched by a man. Why his belief that his hands are a woman's is more real than a woman's experience she is being touched by a man. Why his belief that his experience is a woman's is more real than a woman's experience that her own experiences are being belittled and reframed for her by a man.
And never once explained how your claim that trans women are not a threat to women sits with the fact that transwomen have raped and indeed murdered women. You've claimed it's incorrect to infer from the fact that a higher proportion of trans women prisoners were imprisoned for sexual offences than that of other male (karyotype) prisoners let alone female ones that trans women in the overall population are also more likely than females to commit sexual offences but not supported that assertion with any explanation.
And never once explained why female people should accept being regulated from a meaningful social group with our own name, a history that is clearly and inarguably rooted in the reality of our bodies and what that means within patriarchy, and specific rights because of that, to a subgroup of a larger group called "women" based on no definable common factors that also includes self selected people of male karyotype, even though those people share none of that with us, but simply have a belief (or certain knowledge if you prefer) in their commonality with us that you cannot even explain nor measure.
You demand we accept that these people who share none of thoe embodied experiences and challenges are somehow just like us in ways we ourselves do not even recognise as us, but you feel nevertheless these people of male karyotype have more authority to speak for us about what it is to be us than we do for ourselves.
The best I can guess is that you somehow feel anything of the body is crass and gauche while anything of the mind is pure and real, so when the two disagree, it is the higher path to defer to the mind.
A laudable thought and a world I am happy to join you to work towards, but an utterly fallacy in this world where our bodies do have consequences regardless of out feelings on the matter. And until you recognise that, all you are doing in reality is perpetuating Patriarchy's disempowerment and marginalisation of the female (karyotype) body and through that of the people who have it.
However, most posters (who are engaged on this topic on mumsnet) are so entrenched in their prejudices and fantasies about trans people that they just simply are not willing to listen or to consider.
An easy way out for you but a lie. On the contrary, I have no prejudices or fantasies about trans people, I simply do not believe that their inner life no matter how genuinely felt overrides the consequences of physical sex, and that since under Patriarchy it is female bodied people who suffer the most detriment due to our body sex, to pretend otherwise hurts us specifically.
I, and many other, have listened to you over tens, maybe even hundreds of posts. I have asked you these questions again and again and again and again you have ignored, deflected or misrepresented.
So if you really want us to "listen or to consider" simply denying our own knowledge and our own experiences altogether tell us we are wrong for reasons you will not explain is not the way to do it.
Because while you go on ignoring questions from people when they do engage, even though those questions get to the heart of the reasons the people you say you want to convince are not convinced, and answering them well would be the absolute best way to achieve what you claim you want to achieve, well forgive me if I have my doubts.