That is fucking enraging. I'm so sorry your colleague had to deal with that.
And this is what makes me so angry about DrU and all his enablers. There was absolutely fuck all wrong with him. He was throwing a strop like a three year old because as a man he should not have been using the women's changing room. Yet due to growing his hair long and putting on a nice pair of tights and saying the magic special words "I'm a woman actually" he was pandered to and fawned over like the second coming.
All of these women who did this and enabled him should be ashamed. What a joke.
It was a good few threads back now that I saw a comment from a doctor (or a consultant I think) who listed quite matter of factly all the utterly awful things that she had had to deal with in her working life (truly traumatic events, death etc) and had just been expected to suck it up, as that's the job. Any crying from her would have been seen as a weakness. Yet this entitled Dr gets to wail that a nurse isn't undressing in front of him and has the AUDACITY to ask him to leave the changing room and it's like he's some poor soul in need of a warm blanket round him.
I'm not in the medical setting at all, but I have a lot of friends who are, and as well as denying the reality of biological sex, this pandering to a non-event would tip me over the edge if I was. How dare he. How dare all of those women pander to him. Proves that society knows exactly who the men are and exactly who the women are when it really matters.