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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Mumsnet Obsession With Penises

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Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 18:33

My controversial opinion is that most of the Mums who obsess here over penises, uteruses and chromosomes, would pick more important and interesting topics if their own child was trans.

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Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 21:53

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BettyBooper · 29/06/2025 21:54

Bloody hell MNHQ! Bring back the laughing emoji!

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 21:54

dysphoria, sorry.

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Igneococcus · 29/06/2025 21:57

Why was this post deleted? it should have stood in all it's incoherent, imbecellic mess for everyone to see how pathetic this ideology is.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 21:58

yet you all heckle and bay like a lynchmob that they are fetishists; not "real women"; that if your kid had gender dysphasia you'd put them right and tell them what's what...you all sound like a bunch of nutters and I say that pun intended.

evidence that everyone on FWR say those things or you’re a fucking liar

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 21:58

Oh now i just look silly 😀

user101101 · 29/06/2025 21:58

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 20:01

How do you tell a gay man from a paedophile. You don't - but that does not mean gay men are paedophiles.

But trans women are men though

Boiledbeetle · 29/06/2025 21:58

Igneococcus · 29/06/2025 21:57

Why was this post deleted? it should have stood in all it's incoherent, imbecellic mess for everyone to see how pathetic this ideology is.

I briefly checked another thread and missed it.

I'm sad now.

InjuryMyArse · 29/06/2025 21:59
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RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 21:59

Boiledbeetle · 29/06/2025 21:58

I briefly checked another thread and missed it.

I'm sad now.

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A highlight fir me was when they said that being trans is like eating curry in the 1950’s

BettyBooper · 29/06/2025 22:00

Igneococcus · 29/06/2025 21:57

Why was this post deleted? it should have stood in all it's incoherent, imbecellic mess for everyone to see how pathetic this ideology is.

Agreed!

What was that about it being the same as... Er... something about curry??!

Igneococcus · 29/06/2025 22:00

Boiledbeetle · 29/06/2025 21:58

I briefly checked another thread and missed it.

I'm sad now.

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Maybe Rufus copied all of it but the bit she pasted gives you an idea

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:00

Okiedokie123 · 29/06/2025 21:32

Lol dont be ridiculous.

One does not equal with the other.
One you just are.
The other is a mental health issue.

One isnt a choice
The other shouldnt be enabled because its incredably damaging.

Ill let you try and figure out which is which. A join the dots activity for you.

being gay was until very recently also considered a mental health problem.

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Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:01

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 21:59

A highlight fir me was when they said that being trans is like eating curry in the 1950’s

Yes I did say that.

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Boiledbeetle · 29/06/2025 22:01

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:01

Yes I did say that.

But why?

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 22:02

Yes I did say that

yes i know you did…thats why i said you said it, are you not keeping up with your own thread?

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:02

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 21:58

yet you all heckle and bay like a lynchmob that they are fetishists; not "real women"; that if your kid had gender dysphasia you'd put them right and tell them what's what...you all sound like a bunch of nutters and I say that pun intended.

evidence that everyone on FWR say those things or you’re a fucking liar

Just read it. It's all there.

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Okiedokie123 · 29/06/2025 22:03

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:00

being gay was until very recently also considered a mental health problem.

Actually fair point made @Manfreglory my bad. Congrats at having said at least one thing on this thread that is actually true.

BettyBooper · 29/06/2025 22:03

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:01

Yes I did say that.

Oh OP.

Trans is like 1950s curry. I love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 22:03

Just read it. It's all there

you really have comprehension issues

Igneococcus · 29/06/2025 22:04

Boiledbeetle · 29/06/2025 22:01

But why?

Because obviously wrecking children's health and fertility with PB, cross sex hormones and surgery is exactly the same as first encountering some food that is a bit spicier than one is used to.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 29/06/2025 22:04

No, I believe gender dysphoria exists.

I just don't think the solution to that dysphoria is to feed into a fragile delusion, or force anyone else to either. I think it is more harmful fo reinforce the idea of gender stereotypes. I think it's awful to say only girls can wear pink dresses and only boys can play with cars.

I think it's inspiring when men embrace themselves as men, and smash through gender stereotypes and say "this is me I don't think these clothes or makeup are just for girls, using them doesn't make me female, but it does make me happy" and it's the right example that should be set.

Also all rapists are men. To rape, you must have a penis.

You believe human beings are much more complicated than immutable sex, well I believe that is what you believe, because you also believe that men are the most oppressed women of all.

But if you could also enlighten us on how we tell the real trans women from the fake pretend ones that are doing it just to sexually assault, rape, intimidate and oppress women I'd love to know, having been repeatedly sexually assaulted by a transwoman while my workplace covered it up in one of the most vulnerable times of my life. I obviously don't want to make that mistake again, so I'd appreciate some pointers.

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 22:04

RufustheFactualReindeer · 29/06/2025 22:02

Yes I did say that

yes i know you did…thats why i said you said it, are you not keeping up with your own thread?

Wasn't I clear I was talking about being a social outcast, the subject of scorn, for being "abnormal". It is a lynch mob mentality.

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Helleofabore · 29/06/2025 22:04

Manfreglory · 29/06/2025 19:40

I grew up in the 80's; had my bum fondled on a staircase aged 7; was flashed at, cat called and had 'whore' shouted at me as a frightened teen...by men. I was terrified walking home from the bus stop - I used to take my shoes off and run. I once had a lesbian try to pick me up on the tube (so women can be invasive abusive dicks too but that's another point). You're all directing your vitriol at trans women when since the beginning of time it is men hurting women, not trans women hurting women.

Yeah I know you'll all scream "but trans women are MEN" but even if that's the case, why centre your fury around them and not, er, actual man-identifying MEN. Oh and by the way that rapist who pretended to be trans and raped women in a prison: not trans. A man. A fucking deceitful, violent, perverted sex offending man in a dress. Get it right.

You talk so fondly about your husbands' penises yet if a trans woman has one, it's the enemy. At heart, this is all rage and hatred against people who are not "normal" and don't look or identify how you'd prefer them to look and identify. Did you know that in 19th century South Africa black people were termed "non human?". Substitute "trans" for "black" and "not women" for "not human" and then see how your hatred is working for you.

Oh and by the way that rapist who pretended to be trans and raped women in a prison: not trans. A man. A fucking deceitful, violent, perverted sex offending man in a dress. Get it right.

Just reading this thread now and fuck, this is enlightening . It is transphobic to gatekeep who is transgender and who is not. So maybe you should ask for this post to be deleted.

Whoever you are talking about is transgender if they say they are. That is a fact. You, personally, don’t get to pick who is and isn’t.