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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Wow. Have you seen all the Pride and Trans flags flying in the audiences at Glastonbury?

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DiamondThrone · 28/06/2025 00:01

No. Neither have I.

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Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 08:58

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/06/2025 08:46

I'm not just concerned about a trans-identified male attacking women in prison, I'm also concerned that women prisoners shouldn't be sharing accommodation with males. Even if there is no attack, most such males are not gay so there's the risk of voyeurism. Also, female prison staff shouldn't be expected to strip search or pat down male prisoners, regardless of how the male identifies. I'd also like to be reassured that there are no male prison staff identifying as female being given the green light to pat down and strip search female inmates.

All so needlessly complicated. We used to have this sorted.

Women who work in male prisons may have to strip search male prisoners anyway e.g emergency situations. I dont think the possibility of the odd transwoman in a female prison needing strip searched is going to put off women pursuing a career in the prison service.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 29/06/2025 09:06

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 08:58

Women who work in male prisons may have to strip search male prisoners anyway e.g emergency situations. I dont think the possibility of the odd transwoman in a female prison needing strip searched is going to put off women pursuing a career in the prison service.

Or men could just go in the men’s prison where they belong

ErrolTheDragon · 29/06/2025 09:12

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 07:09

Yes I have heard of miscarriages of justice. So now we are down to the thinnest hair of both a trans man being in a womans prison and him then attacking a wrongfully accused woman.

Who the heck is ‘we’ in that?Hmm If you only give a shit about nice law abiding women, that’s a pretty shallow sort of feminism (if you are a feminist?)
All this hair splitting and whataboutery … males don’t belong in women’s prisons, period.

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

Theeyeballsinthesky · 29/06/2025 09:06

Or men could just go in the men’s prison where they belong

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 29/06/2025 09:15

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

Female prisons are for Females, if you put males in them, they they cease to be Female prisons but mixed sex prisons. Its that simple, there really isn't any room for arguments.

dementedpixie · 29/06/2025 09:20

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

Females dont have male genitalia

Transmen with bits of arm/leg attached to their nether regions aren't men
Transwomen with their bits inverted aren't women

Annoyedone · 29/06/2025 09:22

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

Ooh that’s quite a good serve by the prison service. As all TW will have male genetalia no matter what modifications they have made. I see what they did there. Love it

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:24

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 29/06/2025 09:15

Female prisons are for Females, if you put males in them, they they cease to be Female prisons but mixed sex prisons. Its that simple, there really isn't any room for arguments.

Well maybe they can build trans prisons then! Something for everyone. And lesbian prisons just in case any lesbians attack the non lesbian prisoners.

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 09:25

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 07:51

Ok sorry trans woman! What about male trans does that work?

If it’s easier to remember Trans Identifying Male (TIM) can be used instead of trans woman for a biological male. And Trans Identifying Female (TIF) for biological female/trans man…. Confusing! But using TIM and TIF is clearer in line with biological sex and is easier for others to understand

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:27

dementedpixie · 29/06/2025 09:20

Females dont have male genitalia

Transmen with bits of arm/leg attached to their nether regions aren't men
Transwomen with their bits inverted aren't women

Right so if they dont have male genitalia they will be in the womens prisons

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 29/06/2025 09:29

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:24

Well maybe they can build trans prisons then! Something for everyone. And lesbian prisons just in case any lesbians attack the non lesbian prisoners.

We already have something for everyone, Male prisons for Males and Female Prisons for Females, at least we did until the prison service started sticking males in female prisons, which is against the law by the way.

We just want it put back to the way it should be, even women who have committed crimes have right's, placing males in prisons with them is violation of their rights.

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 09:31

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 08:58

Women who work in male prisons may have to strip search male prisoners anyway e.g emergency situations. I dont think the possibility of the odd transwoman in a female prison needing strip searched is going to put off women pursuing a career in the prison service.

Well apart from the female prison officer in Canada who ended up with PTSD due to having her past sexual abuse triggered. She ended up in a bad way and unable to work

Shedmistress · 29/06/2025 09:31

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

Inverted male genitalia is still male genitalia.

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 09:32

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:12

If they have male genitalia they go to male prisons now. It's all done on a case by case basis.

No that’s not the case yet. Especially in Scotland. There are various TIMs (known to be having sex with other female inmates) in prisons still

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:35

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 09:32

No that’s not the case yet. Especially in Scotland. There are various TIMs (known to be having sex with other female inmates) in prisons still

Consensual sex?

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:37

Shedmistress · 29/06/2025 09:31

Inverted male genitalia is still male genitalia.

So you think a man will have his balls and penis mutilated just on the off chance that if he goes to prison he can go into a female prison? You don't think the decision will be based on pretty much everything but that.

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:38

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 09:31

Well apart from the female prison officer in Canada who ended up with PTSD due to having her past sexual abuse triggered. She ended up in a bad way and unable to work

Was she working in a male or female prison?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/06/2025 09:57

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:37

So you think a man will have his balls and penis mutilated just on the off chance that if he goes to prison he can go into a female prison? You don't think the decision will be based on pretty much everything but that.

Very fortunately indeed, hardly any males have this brutal surgery, which has a high risk of infection and doesn't produce anything comparable to female genitalia. As I understand, a high proportion of male prisoners who have a trans identity only declare this after they are charged or even imprisoned. Some of them may be sincere, but given that quite a number of them are registered sex offenders, there has to be a suspicion that some of them were trying it on in the hope of getting a cushier option than male prison, ready access to vulnerable women and also putting female prison officers in an uncomfortable position.

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 10:03

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:38

Was she working in a male or female prison?

Female prison. She was made to do an observation on a trans-identified male inmate who had recently been transferred to the women’s prison. It ended up being a 12 hour shift where she had to watch CCTV and record when he ate, used the loo and masterbated. He apparently did the latter a lot. There wasn’t a male officer available because it was a female prison.

Annoyedone · 29/06/2025 10:05

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 09:27

Right so if they dont have male genitalia they will be in the womens prisons

Well yes. All females whatever they have done to their genitalia will be in the female prison and all males whatever they have done to their genitals will be in the male prison. Simple and elegant solution all round

CassOle · 29/06/2025 10:06

"And lesbian prisons just in case any lesbians attack the non lesbian prisoners."

Cut out the homophobia.

"Consensual sex?"

Fucking Hell. That is one of the grimmest questions I have read. You have women locked up with a male and you can't imagine that there might be coercive control or other factors that render the idea of 'consensual' in that situation to be completely flawed.

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 10:19

Anyway…. Back to the thread…. Did anyone see the AHF flag on yesterday’s coverage? I was looking out for it. Is the woman ok?

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 10:27

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/06/2025 09:57

Very fortunately indeed, hardly any males have this brutal surgery, which has a high risk of infection and doesn't produce anything comparable to female genitalia. As I understand, a high proportion of male prisoners who have a trans identity only declare this after they are charged or even imprisoned. Some of them may be sincere, but given that quite a number of them are registered sex offenders, there has to be a suspicion that some of them were trying it on in the hope of getting a cushier option than male prison, ready access to vulnerable women and also putting female prison officers in an uncomfortable position.

Yes the ones trying it on only declare they identify as trans after committing a crime and being charged. A man who at some point in his life had his penis and balls cut off did that for his own very personal reasons, not on the off chance that in the future he may commit a crime that would see him going to prison. With the new rules a man simply announcing they identify as trans will still go to a male prison.

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 10:30

CassOle · 29/06/2025 10:06

"And lesbian prisons just in case any lesbians attack the non lesbian prisoners."

Cut out the homophobia.

"Consensual sex?"

Fucking Hell. That is one of the grimmest questions I have read. You have women locked up with a male and you can't imagine that there might be coercive control or other factors that render the idea of 'consensual' in that situation to be completely flawed.

Have you interviewed the women? Your just going to assume its impossible for a woman to want sex whilst locked up for years. Not all women are victims in this world.

Eagle2025 · 29/06/2025 10:34

KnottyAuty · 29/06/2025 10:03

Female prison. She was made to do an observation on a trans-identified male inmate who had recently been transferred to the women’s prison. It ended up being a 12 hour shift where she had to watch CCTV and record when he ate, used the loo and masterbated. He apparently did the latter a lot. There wasn’t a male officer available because it was a female prison.

What a very unfortunate set of circumstances! Prison work can be tough. Same with being in the police force or other emergency services, if you have suffered in life you may encounter something which triggers you.