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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

BBC series I Kissed a Boy decision "homophobic in the extreme" - LGB Alliance

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IwantToRetire · 11/05/2025 18:52

We have written to Tim Davie, Director-General of the BBC, about the homophobia displayed in the casting of a trans identified female in their upcoming series of ‘I Kissed A Boy’.

By doing this they are telling young gay men watching the show that they must be attracted to women who are pretending to be male. This is regressive, insulting and ‘homophobic in the extreme.’

Read our letter here:

https://lgballiance.org.uk/bbc-series-homophobic-in-the-extreme/

(Sorry cant find a version of the letter that isn't text via a graphic.)

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MistyGreenAndBlue · 14/03/2026 13:57

HaddyAbrams · 14/03/2026 13:14

I haven't said I don't believe women on here. I was merely pointing out that there was a TiF on the last serious.

I don't believe that a transman is a gay man in any way, shape or form. But the men on the last series certainly seemed happy enough. Maybe it was for the cameras, we can only go by what we see. And my gay friends are split on the issue. Some think transmen are men and will happily date them. Others are horrified by the idea.

Your gay friends who date trans identified females are not gay then, are they? Gay men are attracted to other men. Exclusively. Words mean things. Gay means homosexual which means same sex attracted.
A TIF is not the same sex as a gay man. If a man is dating a woman that's a heterosexual relationship regardless of how either party "identify"
Sex is a biological category.

It's actually insane that this needs to be explained but apparently it does.

HaddyAbrams · 14/03/2026 13:59

MistyGreenAndBlue · 14/03/2026 13:57

Your gay friends who date trans identified females are not gay then, are they? Gay men are attracted to other men. Exclusively. Words mean things. Gay means homosexual which means same sex attracted.
A TIF is not the same sex as a gay man. If a man is dating a woman that's a heterosexual relationship regardless of how either party "identify"
Sex is a biological category.

It's actually insane that this needs to be explained but apparently it does.

Well... yes I agree. Confused But they call themselves gay. Hence that's the term I've used here.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/03/2026 14:00

HaddyAbrams · 14/03/2026 13:14

I haven't said I don't believe women on here. I was merely pointing out that there was a TiF on the last serious.

I don't believe that a transman is a gay man in any way, shape or form. But the men on the last series certainly seemed happy enough. Maybe it was for the cameras, we can only go by what we see. And my gay friends are split on the issue. Some think transmen are men and will happily date them. Others are horrified by the idea.

Just think it's good to hear the actual voices of gay men (and lesbians) about this while others are busy debating, and in some cases denying, our rights to same sex attraction.

HaddyAbrams · 14/03/2026 14:06

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/03/2026 14:00

Just think it's good to hear the actual voices of gay men (and lesbians) about this while others are busy debating, and in some cases denying, our rights to same sex attraction.

Absolutely agree. Like I said some of my "gay" friends include trans people in their dating pool. Others don't. Which I guess is the issue. The men who identify as gay but date TM think other gay men are being mean. And vice versa for lesbians/TW. Interestingly the majority of "lesbians" I know are absolutely TRAs/TWAW. The very very few I know who aren't have been shunned by the community at large. Its all a mess.

Chainlinkferry · 14/03/2026 15:05

Interestingly the majority of "lesbians" I know are absolutely TRAs/TWAW. The very very few I know who aren't have been shunned by the community at large.

Threats and punishment does have the effect of coercing people into stating positions they don’t agree with.

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