I transitioned as a child, assimilated and built a life; a career. Everything I've ever known - the entire last 25 years of my adult life - all undone.
I think your parents and doctors should bear the responsibility here - if they transitioned a child in the 1990s and told you that you could actually change sex, even before the GRA existed, I can’t imagine why they thought this would be an easy path for you at all.
I've lived alongside you. Laughed, loved and cried alongside you. Shared moments of elation and despair. What the fuck else can I do? It's who I am - who I have always been.
It's all gone now. Written out of existence
I’m a woman and have lived, laughed, loved and cried alongside men. The notion that those tender moments and fond memories suddenly cease to exist because a statute has been clarified sounds a bit dramatic and tangential - how does that change the interactions you’ve had in your life?
Clarifying the EA doesn’t make your experiences any less real, and the only way I can possibly imagine these two things to be linked is if the reason these experiences meant so much to you was not because you valued sharing these moments with another person but because doing it specifically with a woman validated your own sense that you were also a woman.
Which is quite an unsavoury thought, as it suggests you have been using women as props in your life to support the lie your parents told you that you actually were a woman like any other.
I do feel sorry for you and other trans people in your situation, but it’s not women’s fault that your parents and doctors made terrible decisions on your behalf.