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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trump re trans issues / Tate brothers

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Mittens67 · 28/02/2025 10:43

I have read many threads both before and after the US election where posters are so pleased that Trump does not support the trans agenda. Some also saying that this was the most important issue which would and did influence their vote in the UK election.
Do you still feel the same now? Trump has shown his contempt for women throughout his life and career. Now he has bullied Romania into lifting the travel ban on the Tates and flown them into Florida ready to abuse more women and radicalise a new generation of misogynists and rapists.
Any buyer’s remorse?

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MarieDeGournay · 28/02/2025 14:46

ArabellaScott · 28/02/2025 13:59

'Megan Fox with the dick or Hulk Hogan with a pussy' - honestly, this is exactly the kind of thing a disturbed nine year old boy might come out with. And why can't he buy a shirt that fits? Isn't he quite rich?

Sartorial derail: I think the same thing about the obnoxious Conor McGregor, who wears suits that look a size or two too small for him. I wonder if it's 'See how big my muscles are, they can't be contained by normal man-apparel'.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 28/02/2025 14:46

I suspect we're seeing a real live case of TDS - Trump Derangement Syndrome. Because he's such an appalling man, the mummies of Mumsnet are responsible for him and must stop trying to safeguard children and maintain women's rights to safety from men because we aren't capable of fighting more than one battle and Andrew Tate ..... errr.... ummmm.... reasons?

UrsulasHerbBag · 28/02/2025 14:47

What do you want to see? American women saying sorry for voting for Trump? You might be better off asking American women that than mumsnet.

frenchnoodle · 28/02/2025 14:49

Mittens67 · 28/02/2025 14:45

I am not scolding or telling off anyone. If anything I have been roundly scolded for asking a question!
As for chat gp or whatever it is I can assure you I have never had anything to do with it, and I agree the media of all persuasions has an angle on each issue so I am no more or less influenced than anyone else who reads widely to try and get to the facts.
I am not saying trump’s behaviour is anybody’s fault except his own.
I am questioning whether it is possible that some people who said stopping the juggernaut of gender ideology was their top priority are now questioning their choice if it means helping trump (and I would say or anybody like him, but to be honest I am not sure there is anyone as awful as a comparator) into power.
The various threads I have read about changes trump has introduced regarding trans issues are celebratory. I understand that because of course this is a good thing but I haven’t seen many caveats and references to the other crap which he has done at the same time.
From the likes my original post received I can see I am not alone in wanting to ask about this but presumably others were too sensible than to put their head above the parapet!
It is a sad thing when we can’t ask a question amongst ourselves and agree or disagree without the way this thread has gone.
I’ll leave the topic alone now as I think I have got an answer.

It's even sader that you can't clarify this;

What have women in the UK bought that you are asking them if they are remorseful for?

Once again you post lots of words which say nothing. Andrew Tate and trump have nothing to do with us.

IllustratedDictionaryOfTheDoldrums · 28/02/2025 14:51

ArabellaScott · 28/02/2025 13:57

It's his very odd jug-eared Gollum look that got me when I first watched that video.

I remain baffled by his apparent appeal.

It is weird! I sat down with DS to watch a Tate video when Tate first became a thing, planning to have an open discussion with my male teenager and address the sexism.
Instead, DS and I both got the giggles and ended up crying with laughter at the ridiculousness of him. I don't know how he is taken seriously. He's so pompous.

lechiffre55 · 28/02/2025 15:03

@Mittens67
Your OP read like a rebuke to MN to me. "Are you sorry for what you did yet?"
You chose and set the tone. You have no right to act surprised that tone was reflected back in the replies to you.

eatfigs · 28/02/2025 15:03

I would've preferred to see the Democrats renounce and undo all their absurd and harmful policies that promoted "gender identity" over sex. It would've sorted the problem out and made it impossible for the Republicans to use this as a wedge issue.

It is so utterly ridiculous that it took Trump of all people to address these harms to women and children, when it would've been a perfectly reasonable left-wing policy change if only Biden's team had considered the issue from feminist and safeguarding perspectives.

eatfigs · 28/02/2025 15:04

Nonetheless I'm glad he signed those executive orders.

NecessaryScene · 28/02/2025 15:06

but I haven’t seen many caveats and references to the other crap which he has done at the same time.

That's because this is the "sex and gender discussions" board. The "other crap" is off-topic.

If you want to see discussions about other topics, go to the boards for the other topics.

ArabellaScott · 28/02/2025 15:07

Mittens67 · 28/02/2025 14:45

I am not scolding or telling off anyone. If anything I have been roundly scolded for asking a question!
As for chat gp or whatever it is I can assure you I have never had anything to do with it, and I agree the media of all persuasions has an angle on each issue so I am no more or less influenced than anyone else who reads widely to try and get to the facts.
I am not saying trump’s behaviour is anybody’s fault except his own.
I am questioning whether it is possible that some people who said stopping the juggernaut of gender ideology was their top priority are now questioning their choice if it means helping trump (and I would say or anybody like him, but to be honest I am not sure there is anyone as awful as a comparator) into power.
The various threads I have read about changes trump has introduced regarding trans issues are celebratory. I understand that because of course this is a good thing but I haven’t seen many caveats and references to the other crap which he has done at the same time.
From the likes my original post received I can see I am not alone in wanting to ask about this but presumably others were too sensible than to put their head above the parapet!
It is a sad thing when we can’t ask a question amongst ourselves and agree or disagree without the way this thread has gone.
I’ll leave the topic alone now as I think I have got an answer.

But what is it that you want or expect us to do, OP?

Mostly on here we're UK women.

Is it just a general condemnathon you're looking for? To what end?

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 28/02/2025 15:08

I think there may be slightly more going on here that we know. Romania is in a very unsettled political state, the elected government is not being recognised by the overseeing authority ( apologies for my feeble grasp, I expect there are people who can explain much better than me). I have a suspicion that this may be more to do with the US conflict with the EU and its supranational stance than with the rights and very wrongs of these two miscreants.

Sorciere1 · 28/02/2025 15:08

UrsulasHerbBag · 28/02/2025 14:47

What do you want to see? American women saying sorry for voting for Trump? You might be better off asking American women that than mumsnet.

I'm an American woman, a libertarian-conservative, a lesbian and I am very happy for girls and women's rights that Trump won.
I'm also very happy that he cut off USAID that was internationally funding the trans agenda!
That's huge
I hear all the time from former Democratic, leftish women how insane the Dems are over this. The Governor of Maine is defying the Federal govt to keep boys in women's sports . They don't understand; I don't either. Ask Kara Dansky .
Trump's cutting govt waste with DOGE has like 80% approval and if he ends the Ukraine war he'll be even more popular.

ArabellaScott · 28/02/2025 15:11

I'll also point out that Trump used to be firmly TWAW.

Long ago while women in the UK were getting attacked and threatened and cancelled for criticising and asking questions.

So he changed his mind. Are women in the UK supposed to regularly check to see what his view is on various issues and dutifully take the opposite position?

Are there any issues women are allowed to just have our own views on, regardless of what various men round the world's thoughts on the subject?

WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:25

MrsLeonFarrell · 28/02/2025 10:57

The outcome of the US election was about the economy not trans rights. Trump got headlines but there isn't a lot of evidence that his position got him votes from people who would have otherwise voted Democrat.

On the contrary, @MrsLeonFarrell the Dems own personal (Blueprint2024) private polling company says transgender issues was the third reason for a vote for Trump in the swing states. There is a reason the 'They/Them' ad was so successful and he played it 10 times more in swing states. The amount of feminists on twitter and elsewhere, many of them lesbians and who posted pics of them voting for Trump, that said they were voting for Trump based on this issue is phenomenal. You are in deep denial as to how crucial this issue was. It basically gave Trump the election.

Trump re trans issues / Tate brothers
WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:38

Mittens67 · 28/02/2025 11:51

I completely agree that sex is immutable and I also agree that all the issues which go hand in hand with the trans ideology are extremely harmful so this is a very important issue but, and it is a big but, there are even bigger issues facing humanity as a whole and also particular to women as a group.
Trump, and to a much lesser extent conservatives and even reform in the uk have the benefit of not supporting the trans agenda but at what price?
As regards being left or right or wing, trump is neither. He is a sub species. He is trump wing. This is not normal politics.
I used the term “buyer’s remorse” to include buying into part of what he is selling not purely those who voted for him.
As somebody else posted, hitler was a vegetarian. I am a vegetarian myself but I don’t see this as a redeeming quality balanced with the horrors. In fact it rather fucks me off.

There are not much 'bigger issues' than RAPE SURVIVORS having safe single sex spaces - single sex spaces which affect 100% of women and girls every day, and fair sport. You are minimising how serious and vital this issue is. It doesn't come more bigger or more serious than this. You remind me of those handmaidens during the suffragette era who said there were 'more important issues'.

There always will be 'more important issues'. Which means, we NEVER get around to safeguarding women and girls. Ever. To me? Women and girls being able to feel safe participating in society? It's a FAR GREATER issue than having women voting.

WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:42

Mittens67 · 28/02/2025 12:14

Not at all. I really admire many of the women who post here. I am genuinely wondering how people feel now.
We all know that Andrew Tate is utter scum who targets women and girls. He is now relaxing in sunny Florida thanks to Trump’s intervention.
I agree that the left let women down enormously by pandering to this nonsense and need to be held accountable.
It shouldn’t be an either or situation where in order to get something so important you have to hold your nose and vote for/ praise trump. Or indeed any right wing party if that is not your natural leaning.
But it was/is.
Is stopping the trans agenda worth any price or at what point do other issues take precedence?
I don’t mean we should stop trying to return society to reality. I just don’t think that is the way to do it.

Is stopping the trans agenda worth any price or at what point do other issues take precedence?

Giving women our basic human rights back, is worth any price. Any price.

WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:43

nauticant · 28/02/2025 12:15

Apparently Baron Trump is a fan. He's one to watch for the future.

Fan of what/who?

WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:51

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/02/2025 12:54

Donald Trump could have stopped it all in the same way in 2016-2020, no? Or didn't he have the numbers? I don't think he was that interested, more concerned about playing golf with Caitlyn Jenner.

The issue didn't blow up back then, at least not to the extent it has now. It wasn't even a topic discussed anywhere, I myself hadn't even heard of it.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 28/02/2025 15:51

Odd opening post ... surely a poster and the Orange Tosser can be in agreement about one or even two views yet that no mean they share some sort of Hive Mind?

Why have you lumped trans into your title?

So many people are being screwed by that idiots policies right now with their actual livelihoods in jeopardy. Not just the vanishingly rare/enormous (delete as appropriate because apparently the size of this population changes with the wind) trans people in the US

FlirtsWithRhinos · 28/02/2025 15:52

Is stopping the trans agenda worth any price or at what point do other issues take precedence?

Interesting that this question is always directed at the women who did not capitulate to unfair genderist demands in support of some "greater good".

Why isn't the question being asked of Genderists "is validating trans people's demands to be accepted as the opposite sex worth any price or at what point do other issues take precedence?"

Genderism broke the Left's faith with women, not the other way round.

Grammarnut · 28/02/2025 15:57

I have not changed my mind about biology. The blame for this Trumpfest is on the Democrats who supported men in women's sports etc. We have them to thank for Trump (and his rudeness to Canada, Denmark, the EU, the UK etc) and they should all hang their heads in shame and start learning some proper biology, not the stuff produced by Gender ideologists.

frenchnoodle · 28/02/2025 16:02

WillIEverBeOk · 28/02/2025 15:51

The issue didn't blow up back then, at least not to the extent it has now. It wasn't even a topic discussed anywhere, I myself hadn't even heard of it.

I can assure you the women here have been fighting it for far longer than 5 years

DeanElderberry · 28/02/2025 16:28

I understand the general principle of 'whatever happens it's always the woman's fault' and sort of understand the extended cut version 'always the women's fault', but in both those cases it's women who were there when the Awful Thing happened.

But now women are to blame for things in countries they don't live in.

It's like that other thread where some woman in America in the 2000s was to blame for something that happened in England in the 1970s. I realise we're terrible rights-hoarding dinosaurs with no thought for anyone except ourselves and especially not for the poor dear downtrodden men but I think some of the poor dear downtrodden men also had votes and share blame for the Awful Things.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 28/02/2025 16:34

Absolutely Dean. We all ought to remember our place Grin

eurochick · 28/02/2025 16:41

I see this as the equivalent of a stopped clock being right twice a day. Trump is right on this point but wrong on pretty much everything else he has done since returning to power.

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