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NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #4

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nauticant · 06/02/2025 11:39

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 January 2025 and is expected to continue for 2 weeks.

Access to view the hearing remotely can be obtained by sending an email request to [email protected] headed Public Access Request (Peggie v Fife Health Board) 4104864/2024 and requesting access.

Thread 1: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5186317-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse

Thread 2: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5267591-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-thread-2

Thread 3: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268347-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-3

The hearing is being live tweeted by https://x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.is/xkSxy.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: https://nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

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TWETMIRF · 06/02/2025 14:20

Male

HousesofHolbein · 06/02/2025 14:20

JR is going to appear in my nightmares.

Her absolute shift in the way she speaks, questions, her tone, her language.

She should be ashamed to the end of her days for what she has put SP through.

Mayaisashero · 06/02/2025 14:20

For someone who says he doesn't look at women when they're changing he didn't hesitate to say where all his female colleagues were precisely.

Szygy · 06/02/2025 14:21

CheekySnake · 06/02/2025 14:11

It begs the question of how he manages to think about this whilst also working in A&E, which is a fast moving, high pressure environment in which things can and do go very wrong very quickly, and doctors need to be flexible and able to think on their feet. It doesn't suggest that he was patient focussed.

This makes me feel all sorts of emotions, none of them good, about my beloved DM who was in hospital during Covid, very ill, and we weren’t allowed to visit her, so we had to trust she was being looked after.

The idea that any medical professionals could have been spending their time making ‘contemporaneous notes’ on their phones about entirely normal interactions with colleagues, and building grievances, and generally occupying their time in totting up the micro-aggressions they perceived against them, rather than just getting on with looking after desperately vulnerable patients, is horrific to think about. That’s what makes me feel ‘sad’.

Cailleach1 · 06/02/2025 14:21

KnottyAuty · 06/02/2025 14:17

Now on to the Xmas Eve CR meeting.
Finishing shift and went to CR to get changed.
Saw lots of staff to say Merry Xmas but can't remember much about them
Wearing scrubs and trainers on entry to CR
"I arrived with 2 colleagues" and "it was empty". "we were chatting about xmas plans... " "We all arrived at roughly the same time" "get changed in the corner facing the wall ... I am concious about the unpleasant attitudes of some people about trans people using changing rooms so I avoid any indication that I might be looking at them so I don't give the impression that I am looking at them. It is a shame but it helps me to feel safe"

Reminds me of Laurie Penny (paraphrasing) about a child getting exposed to by a man. It was along the lines of the child shouldn’t look as they would be rude if they did.

TWETMIRF · 06/02/2025 14:21

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CriticalCondition · 06/02/2025 14:22

There's quite a good view of the changing room on the clerk's screen. It's very small.

Mayaisashero · 06/02/2025 14:22

KnottyAuty · 06/02/2025 14:17

Now on to the Xmas Eve CR meeting.
Finishing shift and went to CR to get changed.
Saw lots of staff to say Merry Xmas but can't remember much about them
Wearing scrubs and trainers on entry to CR
"I arrived with 2 colleagues" and "it was empty". "we were chatting about xmas plans... " "We all arrived at roughly the same time" "get changed in the corner facing the wall ... I am concious about the unpleasant attitudes of some people about trans people using changing rooms so I avoid any indication that I might be looking at them so I don't give the impression that I am looking at them. It is a shame but it helps me to feel safe"

Oh i missed that. He thinks it's a 'shame' that due to transphobia he can't stare at women in the women's changing room?

Really?

Cutted. up. pear.

Datun · 06/02/2025 14:22

Oh my GOOD GODDESS - he is pontificating on how to get changed AS A MAN IN THE LADIES. The fucking brass balls of this guy. He sounds really happy to be able to give this little lecture.

Yes!!!

I hope he's asked whether he thinks women do that. Why he does it. Why he thinks women might be uncomfortable with it. Why he continues to do it even though he knows that.

Certainly from experience on here, the more you question a TRA, the quicker they fall apart and their entitlement is given full rein.

Mmmnotsure · 06/02/2025 14:23

His voice - light, young man's voice. He is around 30 - his voice sounds younger than that, actually. I know voices vary, but from the sound I would put him more like early 20s.

OhBuggerandArse · 06/02/2025 14:23

We're not going to get to Naomi today, are we - this is taking forever!

WeeBisom · 06/02/2025 14:24

OhBuggerandArse · 06/02/2025 13:58

See when witnesses are not allowed to discuss their evidence, questions, etc with their lawyer or anyone else during the breaks, is that actually monitored at all? Does it mean they have to go for separate sandwiches/talk about the weather? What would happen if someone suspected them of moving from small talk to something that might be substantive? Or is it just a polite fiction and actually they all just go off and game-plan like mad?

it's not monitored per se, but in my experience witnesses are strongly encouraged to stay in a room by themselves and not talk to anyone. They are allowed to talk about the weather etc with others, but generally they stay by themselves. If you saw them in a cafe in a heated discussion with their lawyer you would tell the tribunal. It's not a polite fiction - lawyers take witnesses being under oath very seriously and can get in deep trouble for talking to witnesses. I've personally never experienced anyone game planning when they are under oath.

Mayaisashero · 06/02/2025 14:24

Sandie's Dad's page is now £1915. There is still good in the world, even though this man's testimony is making me feel the opposite.

JumpingPumpkin · 06/02/2025 14:24

It limits his ability to connect with his colleagues apparently.

Oh god, now he's anxious because she didn't leave when he's in there.

Appalonia · 06/02/2025 14:24

He's making himself out to be in danger!

BobLemon · 06/02/2025 14:24

Didn’t he describe lockable cubicles? Why isn’t he using those if he’s trying to be so modest?

BettyBooper · 06/02/2025 14:25

He doesn't sound upset at all.

I sounds quite excited to be telling his story. Tbh.

HousesofHolbein · 06/02/2025 14:25

Now he's complaining that she DIDN'T leave the CR when he was there.

The previous complaints of been about her leaving.

TWETMIRF · 06/02/2025 14:25

He can be anxious about her presence in the room but not the other way round?

CheekySnake · 06/02/2025 14:25

KnottyAuty · 06/02/2025 14:17

Now on to the Xmas Eve CR meeting.
Finishing shift and went to CR to get changed.
Saw lots of staff to say Merry Xmas but can't remember much about them
Wearing scrubs and trainers on entry to CR
"I arrived with 2 colleagues" and "it was empty". "we were chatting about xmas plans... " "We all arrived at roughly the same time" "get changed in the corner facing the wall ... I am concious about the unpleasant attitudes of some people about trans people using changing rooms so I avoid any indication that I might be looking at them so I don't give the impression that I am looking at them. It is a shame but it helps me to feel safe"

In other words, he knows that if the women catch him looking at them in a state of undress, they'll have grounds for a potentially very damaging complaint that the hospital would have to take seriously because it could be a criminal offence, so he's very careful to make sure he's not caught looking.

It has also just occurred to me that there's a big difference between not giving the impression that you're looking, and not looking.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 06/02/2025 14:25

He doesn't like it when she leaves the changing room, and he doesn't like it when she does use the changing room. 🙄

Harassedevictee · 06/02/2025 14:25

NotAGentleReminder · 06/02/2025 13:57

But she walked out because she didn't want to be in the women's changing room with a man. So saying she was doing it to give him privacy would be disingenuous. And also accepting that it was ok for him to be in there. Which it wasn't.

I know I’m just pointing out DU went straight to harassment rather than any other explanation.

yourhairiswinterfire · 06/02/2025 14:25

FFS, it's important to him that everyone's comfortable so in that case get out of the women's changing room

Yet writes notes and considers 'escalating' when a woman waits until he's gone for her own comfort Hmm

ArabellaScott · 06/02/2025 14:25

'normally, I'm in a changing room, she knows I'm in a changing room, she leaves'

CriticalCondition · 06/02/2025 14:25

So now her staying there and not leaving is upsetting him. She can't win.

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