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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I think males should be banned from female sport and anyone should be allowed to enter the male / open category. The US President has just signed an executive order saying this.

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SernieBanders · 05/02/2025 12:13

Females need their own sports for reasons of fairness, competitiveness and safety. I am glad that orders like this make it easier to talk about these issues without being called a biggot.

Everyone deserves fair opportunities, women and girls are under represented in sport, this can only help that get a little better.

Transgender sports people also clearly deserve opportunities to participate in sport and so trans women and men should be allowed to enter male / open categories or have their own categories if needed.

https://apnews.com/article/donald-trump-transgender-athletes-3606411fc12efffec95a893351624e1b

President Donald Trump speaks during a news conference with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu in the East Room of the White House, Tuesday, Feb. 4, 2025, in Washington. (AP Photo/Alex Brandon)

Trump to sign executive order barring transgender female athletes from competing

President Donald Trump is signing an executive order designed to prevent people who were biologically assigned male at birth from participating in women’s or girls' sporting events.

https://apnews.com/article/donald-trump-transgender-athletes-3606411fc12efffec95a893351624e1b

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NotBadConsidering · 06/02/2025 05:12

MarsScarlet · 06/02/2025 03:27

@NotBadConsidering

So everyone should continue to allow men to beat up women in contact sports, spike volleyball in their faces, beat them at swimming, walk around naked in the changing rooms, and so on, until someone “nice” comes along and bans it? You’re ok with the harm continuing until then?
No, I don't like or agree with those things.*
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How long do you want to wait? Who are you waiting for? Because you can be damn sure a Democrat won’t do it.
No, you can't be sure a Democrat won't do it, actually.

This decision is “populist” because the vast majority of the human race recognise a difference between women and men for sport, and think there should be rules in place to maintain that. If others are too stupid to take advantage of a political open goal then that’s on them. But if you want to shame anyone for supporting this EO, explain from your moral high horse why you’re happy to see women and girls continue to be physically and emotionally harmed while you wait for an acceptable saviour to come along.
It's populist because Trump et al. recognised an opportunity to gain a sector of voters and took it. He and his party don't support women - they want women to support them.

I will not apologise for not supporting anything that this moral and ethical vacuum does. Every passing day confirms this position.

Oh, and your heroine Nancy Mace? This was her response to Trump's announcement that he is turning Gaza into the Middle East Riviera: "Let's turn Gaza into Mar-a-Lago."

No, I don't like or agree with those things

So what are you going to do to stop it then? You would prefer it to continue obviously.

No, you can't be sure a Democrat won't do it, actually.

This is laughable. It was during 12 years of Obama and Biden than policies enabling men in women’s sport took hold. Who’s the saviour then?

It's populist because Trump et al. recognised an opportunity to gain a sector of voters and took it. He and his party don't support women - they want women to support them.

So what if it’s “populist”? A popular decision made supported by the majority the population and women and girls are protected. What political mechanism do you propose to correct this problem?

I will not apologise for not supporting anything that this moral and ethical vacuum does. Every passing day confirms this position.

Which is fine, but you have to then admit you’d tolerate women and girls continuing to suffer physical and emotional harm, including sexual assault, because you can’t bring yourself to agree with a few decisions.

Oh, and your heroine Nancy Mace?

I support Mace in having single sex spaces in her workplace. I don’t support her views on Gaza. Why do you find it so hard to comprehend that people can situate themselves like that?

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 06/02/2025 05:52

Dotjones · 05/02/2025 13:28

The "open" category is the only one that should exist. Everyone should compete together. Sport is a meritocracy, people should be grouped on ability. There are plenty of female athletes who are better than some men who play the same sport.

Yeah let's just go back to the days when everything was won by young able bodied males. 🙄

Zita60 · 06/02/2025 06:13

Dotjones · 05/02/2025 13:28

The "open" category is the only one that should exist. Everyone should compete together. Sport is a meritocracy, people should be grouped on ability. There are plenty of female athletes who are better than some men who play the same sport.

The facts disagree with you. Take a look at https://boysvswomen.com/#/

Among other things, it shows the world records of boys in various athletic events versus the world records of women in the same events. In most of them, the women's world record is beaten by 14 or 15 year old boys.

https://boysvswomen.com/#/world-record

And what about athletes with disabilities? Are you going to throw away their categories as well? What about age categories - should anyone, man or woman, be allowed to enter the junior events? And weight categories in boxing, judo etc - do away with those too?

The various categories in sport were created to give people other than young able-bodied males the chance to have meaningful sporting opportunities.

If boys are faster than elite female athletes, should males compete in female athletics?

See how the best high school boys stack up against the best female Olympians and World Record holders in Track & Field and Swimming.

https://boysvswomen.com/#/

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 06/02/2025 06:17

littledotheyknow · 05/02/2025 12:28

Trans women are women

Carry on chanting your pathetic little mantra. Its nonsense like this that put Trump in the White House. No one is buying it any more.

Zita60 · 06/02/2025 06:19

MarsScarlet · 06/02/2025 00:31

He isn't doing it out of the goodness of his heart. He is doing it for his own populist ends, and you're falling for it.

We're not "falling for it". Most of us know what he is, and why he's doing this.

It doesn't make it wrong, just because it was done by him.

MyLimeGuide · 06/02/2025 07:31

guaranteedpersonality · 05/02/2025 22:40

The video of him signing is actually quite lovely.
an amazing day. (video on the x link)
https://x.com/EricLDaugh/status/1887248991974289869

Legend.

FindusMakesPancakes · 06/02/2025 07:47

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Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 06/02/2025 08:02

dovetail22uk · 05/02/2025 13:38

Why does it bother you what a trans person is doing? You're not protecting women, you're attacking trans people.

What men do bothers me when it harms women, eg invading spaces where women are meant to be allowed privacy. Men pretending to be women are dangerous to women.

SernieBanders · 06/02/2025 08:09

@FindusMakesPancakes only a child hates everything somebody does, even the things they agree with, because they don’t like the person.

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Helleofabore · 06/02/2025 08:16

I doubt you will find many who either believe that he is doing this for any reason other than that he is doing this for votes.

Most people on this thread understand he is abhorrent and this is the umteenth thread on his EOs.

The thing is two things can been true at the same time. He can be an abhorrent individual. He can sign a n executive order that someone on his team put together that is worthy of support.

Like all governments, actions will be taken during the time of serving as a government that reasonable people will be able to support while not supporting a huge slew of other actions. I find it tribal to declare that an action by a government that is worthy of support should be not supported because of who signed it off or who voted for it.

I keep asking the question, are there any successful lobby groups that don’t lobby to the current sitting government to get their objectives achieved if that group opposes the majority of that government’s other policies? Do those belonging to the lobby group get accused of being fools if their years of campaigning have been finally successful because the government that made some of the changes asked for has other abhorrent policies? Do those members of the lobby group get told that they now align with that government based on some of their work being adopted by a government they don’t support on more than one or a few decisions?

It is an entrenched polarised view that a democratically elected government can never produce work that is worthy of support, even if you generally don’t support anything else the government does, surely?

MotionIntheOcean · 06/02/2025 08:17

Zita60 · 06/02/2025 06:19

We're not "falling for it". Most of us know what he is, and why he's doing this.

It doesn't make it wrong, just because it was done by him.

Yes, I doubt there are many posters on here who haven't noticed that men are often selective about the aspects of women's rights they support. It's hardly an impressive insight to point out that Trump is one of them. We'd be waiting a long while for rights if they could only be granted by people who were ideologically perfect, and in a US context clearly neither of the major parties are willing to bat for us on every important issue.

illinivich · 06/02/2025 08:19

The left want to prioritise queer white men by removing women only spaces, medicalising children and having drag queens expose themselves in the white house.

If the left cared about women and children they wouldn't have let that happen.

The only correct misogyny is left wing misogyny?

Floisme · 06/02/2025 08:31

Watching Trump signing this is a mind fuck, that's for sure, but then so was reading Kara Dansky's and Abigail Shrier's accounts of how 'good guys' like Obama and Biden helped to set this train wreck of women's and girls' rights in motion. Still at least my brain isn't so addled that I can't be happy for women and girls who want to play sport. I don't think they should have to wait until the right kind of person comes along to sort it out.

WillIEverBeOk · 06/02/2025 08:38

littledotheyknow · 05/02/2025 12:28

Trans women are women

No they are not, they are males with male genitals and post-pubertal male physical sporting advantage @littledotheyknow .

Helleofabore · 06/02/2025 08:44

Here is a poll done by a media outlet in the USA about women’s sports. The link to Leor Sapir’s post is

https://x.com/leorsapir/status/1887251272128139299?s=46

Tweet says :

“President Trump has signed an executive order limiting female sports to women and girls.

Some in the media will write that he "banned transgender people from sports."

He did no such thing. Disingenuous claims like these no longer resonate with the American people.

The latest NYT poll finds that the policy reflected in Trump's executive order is supported by

* 67% of Democrat or Democrat-leaning
* 94% of Republican or Republican-leaning
* 64% of Independents
* 79% of all Americans

It's hard to find any other issue in contemporary politics that has that such wide bipartisan support.

Trump may have just signed one of the most popular executive orders of the 21st century.”

The poll data is

https://static01.nyt.com/newsgraphics/documenttools/a66cc1cd29a9ea2c/41386e22-full.pdf

and page 18 is the relevant one to sport.

Should nearly 70% of those Democratic Party supporters feel shame at any positive feeling about this EO?

Or can we say that this and the other EO s that have been signed to signify the changes to support the very campaigns that women have worked for are worthwhile supporting without this repetitive shaming that has been a constant on these threads about the EO?

x.com

https://x.com/leorsapir/status/1887251272128139299?s=46

WillIEverBeOk · 06/02/2025 08:47

FindusMakesPancakes · 05/02/2025 12:55

I think it is more that he couldn't give a shiny shit about women, but this is a useful populist tool to keep idiots on his side.

Women's rights in the US are in dire straits. Preventing trans women compete in women's events is a hollow victory in the face of diminished healthcare and abortion rights.

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Its not a 'hollow victory' if you are a female competitor. Girls/women's sport are important to a lot of people. Over 5000 transwomen victors, 27 world records, 109 U.S. records, $1.6 million in prize money. Just in the last few yrs. https://hecheated.org/totals_results_2020s

And we are not 'idiots' for wanting fairness for women and girls who make so many sacrifices to train from sacrificing time with schoolfriends, to family, to free time, blood sweat and tears. Years. Then to have that stolen by a male, and all that time wasted for nothing. You sound very shallow and narrow-minded. There is far, far, far, FAR more to womens rights than just the state issue of abortion. We're all more than sick and tired people/Democrats holding that as a carrot out to women for their vote, when Democrats never once tried to codify it into law. Why would they? Then they'd no longer have that as a gambling chip.
And, btw, I say this as a labour member and voter who is pissed off with the left throwing womens rights away to pander to a misogynistic and dangerous Mens Rights movement.

https://www.hecheated.org/totals_results_2020s

https://t.co/yWGijgGF1U

TheCatsTongue · 06/02/2025 09:00

"He's only doing it for votes".

That is a politician, but the main difference is that he is actually doing what he said he would do.

How many politicians say something for votes and never do it? Broken promises.

People voted for him to ban males in female sports. He has now signed off on that policy within 3 weeks.

WillIEverBeOk · 06/02/2025 09:01

Eastie77Returns · 05/02/2025 13:03

Many self described left wing people I know support the TWAW nonsense precisely because the right wing do not. They don’t want to be seen as finding common cause with right wing fundamentalists, Christians etc so they go along with the trans rights groups who insist anyone who doesn’t believe men can be women is a bigot.

It’s actually a bit insane. The left has allowed itself to be cowed by activists and so they deny biological fact just so they are on the ‘right side’. I’ve given up arguing with left leaning friends who believe a man in a skirt and make up has no biological advantage over women and should be allowed to compete against us in sports and share prison space with women.

And as a PP has pointed out, if TWAW then why the need to have ‘trans women’ at the beginning of that mantra. Shouldn’t it just be ‘women are women’. It’s almost as if trans women are different from bio women in some way.

Many self described left wing people I know support the TWAW nonsense precisely because the right wing do not. They don’t want to be seen as finding common cause with right wing fundamentalists, Christians etc

Yes, its out of pugnacious tribalist spite. I used to think only the right were so politically purist and politically tribalistic. The left are as bad, if not worse, than the right. We're now at a place where if Trump and the Republicans made a rule against animal cruelty, the left will fight against it purely out of venomous politically tribalistic spite.

FindusMakesPancakes · 06/02/2025 09:02

WillIEverBeOk · 06/02/2025 08:47

Its not a 'hollow victory' if you are a female competitor. Girls/women's sport are important to a lot of people. Over 5000 transwomen victors, 27 world records, 109 U.S. records, $1.6 million in prize money. Just in the last few yrs. https://hecheated.org/totals_results_2020s

And we are not 'idiots' for wanting fairness for women and girls who make so many sacrifices to train from sacrificing time with schoolfriends, to family, to free time, blood sweat and tears. Years. Then to have that stolen by a male, and all that time wasted for nothing. You sound very shallow and narrow-minded. There is far, far, far, FAR more to womens rights than just the state issue of abortion. We're all more than sick and tired people/Democrats holding that as a carrot out to women for their vote, when Democrats never once tried to codify it into law. Why would they? Then they'd no longer have that as a gambling chip.
And, btw, I say this as a labour member and voter who is pissed off with the left throwing womens rights away to pander to a misogynistic and dangerous Mens Rights movement.

Look, I don't agree with TW in women's sports, but it is a distraction. While everyone is whooping and cheering, he is busy signing away on far more sweeping changes. He created the environment that allowed the over turning of Roe v Wade and allowed states to remove those rights.

While championing the rights of elite sports women (yes, grass roots, heard it before), the rights of every woman are quietly being destroyed. There are over 160 million women and girls in the US. The totality of women's rights is far more concerning than sport for me.

MotionIntheOcean · 06/02/2025 09:04

TheCatsTongue · 06/02/2025 09:00

"He's only doing it for votes".

That is a politician, but the main difference is that he is actually doing what he said he would do.

How many politicians say something for votes and never do it? Broken promises.

People voted for him to ban males in female sports. He has now signed off on that policy within 3 weeks.

Politician trying to win votes shocker. Whatever next!

Fwiw I get the impression Trump doesn't actually like males in women's sports anyway. He is clearly not a TWAW believer. But the outcome is exactly the same regardless. He correctly identified a popular policy and has had the sense to quickly implement it, because he's a politician who has been electorally successful. It's what they do.

BezMills · 06/02/2025 09:05

Lovelysummerdays · 05/02/2025 12:19

Not a fan of Trump but woman and girls should be able to compete without having to pander to a mediocre bloke who can’t beat other men deciding to compete against women.

agree. Women deserve fair sport that is inclusive for women.

Men can compete in the men's sport categories, or Open if that's what they want to call it. I don't see how it affects men's sport at all.

If a woman is good enough to compete with men and thinks the Open category is a better opportunity (maybe prize money or media exposure or facilities are better) then fair play to her. No issue with that.

CautiousLurker01 · 06/02/2025 09:06

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Not sure what this has to do with the post, really. Yes, she’s a woman but she wasn’t fired because she was a woman (it appears to be because she spent too much time focusing on DEI policy and not enough time reducing drugs and illegal immigrants from crossing the border, ie her job, which she was deemed to have failed in the performance thereof?). If you check sources, 75% of the people he/his administration have fired are men.

For the record, I do think the way this was handled is despicable, but I find it difficult to believe she was singled out for this treatment because she was a woman. I suspect there are equivalent stories of male employees who have been treated this badly upon being fired too, but they haven’t garnered the air time in the media.

Chersfrozenface · 06/02/2025 09:09

"..the rights of every woman are quietly being destroyed"

That sounds very concerning. If we knew which rights specifically and exactly how they are being destroyed, we would be in a better position to criticise and campaign.

WillIEverBeOk · 06/02/2025 09:09

Dotjones · 05/02/2025 13:28

The "open" category is the only one that should exist. Everyone should compete together. Sport is a meritocracy, people should be grouped on ability. There are plenty of female athletes who are better than some men who play the same sport.

Tell me you don't know anything about the enormous INSURMOUNTABLE advantage post-pubertal males have without telling me. Female sports were created PRECISELY BECAUSE no woman could ever win anything without it. That was the only reason female sports were created. Even Serena Williams admitted she'd lose against the lowest ranking male tennis player.

You may as well say do away with the paralympics while you're at it, @Dotjones .