I can't help sighing that people think if he'd only said it like this, or like that.
The fact he wasn't going to treat this person, purely on the basis that they are not female, was the issue. It wouldn't have mattered what he said. The furious pushback would've been ongoing.
And if the partner of the transwoman is indeed an activist, entirely deliberate. Well of course it's deliberate. Activist or not
You might then get into the situation where you say, well he shouldn't let himself be goaded. But then where the fuck are we?
I was struck by OldCrone's comment here.
It may have been the first time he'd been faced with transactivism, and thought he was just stating facts that all reasonable people would agree with. I think we forget on here sometimes that large numbers of people really have no idea what's going on.
Because people's knowledge of this, and therefore reaction to it, is indeed on a spectrum.
Many women know the score, know when they're being set up, know they're being intimidated, coerced, and threatened, and this is an example of it, and their reaction is no, this is ridiculous, he's a bloke, end of.
And many people have no idea that what this transwoman is doing is transactivation. They just know a man has walked into their surgery and demanded to be treated by gynaecologist. And their reaction will be exactly the same. No, this is ridiculous, you're a bloke! Outrage and incredulity is a normal reaction.
It's a testament to how much we have been trained by this ideology that what would've been considered a completely normal reaction 10 or 15 years ago is now considered unprofessional and rude.