It occurred to me while reading your comment that violence and aggression, described here as "dominance", are both stereotypically masculine characteristics. I looked at a study on men and violence, published in 2024 (Masculinity and Violence Interconnectedness: Defining and Reconciling the Gender Paradox Among Men With Cumulative Lifetime Violence Histories / pub. Sage Journals) - very interesting, the study offered the participants the chance to reflect on "what it means to be a man" and noted that "We discovered in our Men’s Violence, Gender and Health Study (MVGHS) 82% of men reported experiencing violence as both target and perpetrator across their lifespan (Scott-Storey et al., 2018)." 82% !
So men are socialised into using violence from a very young age, because it is a "manly" behaviour. There are many factors feeding into this. Then, a male who decides they want to "become a female", and tries to enact the stereotypical behaviours associated with "the feminine side", still has the unaddressed, unconscious male type violence lying just under the skin, as it were. Maybe they were the victim of violence, maybe they witnessed it. So this "trans woman" when upset or annoyed, springs straight into that male-pattern violence. They show aggression towards the people who denied them their demands. They shout and scream at the doctor. Their status must be respected! Even as they enact a male-type violent aggressive response, they still want their "feminine self" to be validated. But their gender constructs just don't work. Not in any sense.
Maybe this is the process, this unconscious pattern, why TRAs would threaten to "decapitate TERFs".