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This is why so many women voted Trump

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BabyLlamaZen · 07/11/2024 22:13

I’m not saying it’s right, I’m not saying it’s worth the horrors of the Trump administration (and what other women’s rights will be abolished). However, I can also empathise. Books like this are everywhere in baby sections of bookshops in USA. My american friend is naturally more conservative than myself although hated Trump and didn’t vote for him previously (she abstained and then she went Biden although she says she seriously regrets) and this time she voted Trump. She said this stuff is now everywhere and it’s constant. She also showed me a baby’s ABC book which included B for bisexual (and literally then described it as people who are sexually attracted to either gender). For babies.

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Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 12:13

@jellyfrizz that was in 2016. I think many of us would have agreed with Trump back then, I certainly would have. And I think a lot of us, including Trump, have been on quite a journey since then educating ourselves and seeing the evidence coming out.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/11/2024 12:15

‘The left kept pushing, the right pushed back.’

Not ‘the right’ , or at least not just ‘the right’. The middle, the uncommitted, the just plain horrified at what was going on in schools, colleges, hospitals, sports, the military. It has been too personally dangerous for many to express their opinion. Thank heavens for the secret ballot, the greatest weapon of democracy.

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:16

jellyfrizz · 08/11/2024 12:10

He just flips any way for votes, it's not so long ago he was dissing North Carolina for making toilets single-sex:

*North Carolina should allow people to “use the bathroom they feel is appropriate,” Donald Trump said this morning of the state’s new law that bans people from using bathrooms that don't match the sex indicated on their birth certificate.

“North Carolina did something that was very strong,” the Republican presidential front-runner told “The Today Show.” “And they're paying a big price,” a reference to the growing economic boycott against the state.
Trump Wants Harriet Tubman on $2 Bill

State lawmakers should “leave it the way it is,” he added.
Asked whether Caitlyn Jenner would be free to use any bathroom she wanted if she walked into Trump Tower, he said, “That is correct.”*

abcnews.go.com/Politics/donald-trump-caitlyn-jenner-bathroom-tower/story?id=38566263

Yes, it's what politicians do, unfortunately.

Finding a politician with personal conviction is like hens teeth.

Which is why I don't really understand how the Democrats didn't notice which way the wind was blowing.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 12:17

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/11/2024 12:09

I will certainly listen later, but I'm very sceptical as to whether two men will be able to persuade me that it's ever reasonable to turn a blind eye to rape and sexual assault, or to put that kind of man in a position of such power. I'll come back and let you know what I think when I've listened.

Marina Hyde is a female voice on there.

But take your point in general.

Helleofabore · 08/11/2024 12:18

As to 'what is the harm of children transitioning'?

The harm is huge and complex.

Male children in female children's single sex spaces - including in toilets and changing rooms, in away from school accommodations.

Male children with male physical advantages (even before puberty) in female sports.

Female children's boundaries being lowered to accept that male people can ever be 'female' and how that works with safeguarding children, particularly female children.

Children in general being told that they have to support a falsehood that someone is something that they are materially not is also harmful. What other falsehoods do we want children to believe and actively ignore?

u3ername · 08/11/2024 12:18

^The Trump campaign spent roughly $215 million on political ads targeting Harris’s transgender stance.

fucking hell. That's a lot of money.^

Trump is a rich puppet for some smart rich guys (Musk comes to mind). They wanted the win and they weren't chancing it.
Yeah, they have plenty of hate for trans ideology but that is not why they wanted to win. They want much more, and they want it for themselves only. And everybody who voted only because of the trans issues, basically cut off their nose to spite their face.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 12:19

And at @MrsBennetsPoorNerves they're not attempting to persuade you in any event.

They are explaining the reasoning of others.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 12:21

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:00

Several years ago, we saw this transgender issue as a major way to break ground and win over swing voters, and even some soft Democrats,” Terry Schilling, a conservative strategist, told The Daily Wire this week. Schilling said he showed Trump “voter impact research” demonstrating that the trans issue “shifted tens of thousands of votes in Arizona” as well as 72,000 votes in Wisconsin in 2022. “We wanted to make sure that he knew that this is a winning issue,” Schilling added.

Looks like he listened

The Trump campaign spent roughly $215 million on political ads targeting Harris’s transgender stance.

fucking hell. That's a lot of money.

Yes it is.

I doubt that they would have cared about this enough if they hadn't realised it was a vote winner.

What is astonishing is that the Democrats failed to address it leaving an open goal.

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:22

u3ername · 08/11/2024 12:18

^The Trump campaign spent roughly $215 million on political ads targeting Harris’s transgender stance.

fucking hell. That's a lot of money.^

Trump is a rich puppet for some smart rich guys (Musk comes to mind). They wanted the win and they weren't chancing it.
Yeah, they have plenty of hate for trans ideology but that is not why they wanted to win. They want much more, and they want it for themselves only. And everybody who voted only because of the trans issues, basically cut off their nose to spite their face.

If politicians are chasing votes, then they are going to try and be tuned to what people want.

He was more tuned on this issue, than Harris was.

I bet he personally thinks it's load of bollocks, but as it doesn't really affect him, doesn't much care.

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:24

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 12:21

Yes it is.

I doubt that they would have cared about this enough if they hadn't realised it was a vote winner.

What is astonishing is that the Democrats failed to address it leaving an open goal.

Exactly.

Lovelyview · 08/11/2024 12:27

Lostmyusernametoday · 07/11/2024 23:48

1% of people in the USA are trans. If you voted for trump
for this reason you’re a moron. I normally like to make a more intelligent argument but in this case it really is that bloody simple

Apparently, there were a lot of signs up saying Save Women's Sport. That 1% are messing with a lot of women's lives.

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:30

Lovelyview · 08/11/2024 12:27

Apparently, there were a lot of signs up saying Save Women's Sport. That 1% are messing with a lot of women's lives.

Yes. You've got women and girls in sport, all the children in schools with the stupid gender neutral toilets, girls coming out as trans like there's no tomorrow and the fear of saying anything, and men being allowed to access vulnerable women and children willy-nilly.

That's a lot of people being affected

jellyfrizz · 08/11/2024 12:32

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 12:13

@jellyfrizz that was in 2016. I think many of us would have agreed with Trump back then, I certainly would have. And I think a lot of us, including Trump, have been on quite a journey since then educating ourselves and seeing the evidence coming out.

I don't think his change of stance came from educating himself.

PixelatedLunchbox · 08/11/2024 12:34

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 12:13

@jellyfrizz that was in 2016. I think many of us would have agreed with Trump back then, I certainly would have. And I think a lot of us, including Trump, have been on quite a journey since then educating ourselves and seeing the evidence coming out.

100%

In 2016 before all of the gender shit hit the fan and men were punching women in the face at boxing matches and "winning" women's golf tournaments I would have said the same. Eight years on and with the invasive woke narrative and injustices against women l, and changing terminology to suit a tiny faction of society has radically changed for the negative the view of many people -- a transition from compassionate and tolerant to outraged and in despair.

nauticant · 08/11/2024 12:38

What is astonishing is that the Democrats failed to address it leaving an open goal.

It was too risky to address it properly without making it worse. Harris ran (in US terms) an extreme Left campaign when she ran against Biden, when the contest was within the Democrats. Since she became the candidate, the campaign tried to disown what she'd said several years ago by either claiming that at some point she'd advanced an opposing view or "fake news". Had Harris tried the disowning herself, not only was there a chance she'd have bungled it terribly, but had she been clear, she'd have risked causing a civil war with the Democratic activist base. She was stuck with that albatross and the hope was that the electorate either wouldn't notice or would be too polite to comment on it.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 12:40

nauticant · 08/11/2024 12:38

What is astonishing is that the Democrats failed to address it leaving an open goal.

It was too risky to address it properly without making it worse. Harris ran (in US terms) an extreme Left campaign when she ran against Biden, when the contest was within the Democrats. Since she became the candidate, the campaign tried to disown what she'd said several years ago by either claiming that at some point she'd advanced an opposing view or "fake news". Had Harris tried the disowning herself, not only was there a chance she'd have bungled it terribly, but had she been clear, she'd have risked causing a civil war with the Democratic activist base. She was stuck with that albatross and the hope was that the electorate either wouldn't notice or would be too polite to comment on it.

These are good points. I wonder if they will now see which side the political wind is blowing & slowly back down or whether they are true believers even though they know that it is not a vote winner.

Time will tell.

jellyfrizz · 08/11/2024 12:41

PixelatedLunchbox · 08/11/2024 12:34

100%

In 2016 before all of the gender shit hit the fan and men were punching women in the face at boxing matches and "winning" women's golf tournaments I would have said the same. Eight years on and with the invasive woke narrative and injustices against women l, and changing terminology to suit a tiny faction of society has radically changed for the negative the view of many people -- a transition from compassionate and tolerant to outraged and in despair.

It was a massive problem then, more so than now because you weren't allowed to talk about it and declared a massive bigot for even asking questions.

Do a search on 'gender' in this forum from 2016 and prior to see.

KPMGE · 08/11/2024 12:41

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HRTQueen · 08/11/2024 12:41

While it may have annoyed people the real drive was the economy

when people are struggling to pay bills, rent and buy food with the fear of prices continue to increase this is the core of their concern day to day living

not the annoying woke agenda (not my words), not supporting the people in a country far away with their war against Putin or Hamas, not the we need to be kinder and the agenda of America was built on immigration non of this matters to many voters and the Democrat's thought it did

TheShellBeach · 08/11/2024 12:46

jellyfrizz · 08/11/2024 12:32

I don't think his change of stance came from educating himself.

No. His advisors would have known which policies to push.

When Trump fought the 2016 election, he had to be told to be anti-abortion.

Because he wasn't, of course. Bannon told him he should pretend to be.

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 12:54

I think he probably did educate himself, in his own way - remember how active he always was on Twitter, and how he's always got Fox News running? I don't think he went off with an open mind and researched it but I'm sure he saw what kinds of people were supporting this horseshit online and saw very quickly which way the wind was blowing.

If you'd asked me in 2016 what bathroom Caitlyn Jenner should be using I probably would have said the same as Trump. It's not that long ago in real terms but there's a LOT that's happened since then that's made me change my mind, and why can't it be the same for Trump.

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:57

Xiaoxiong · 08/11/2024 12:54

I think he probably did educate himself, in his own way - remember how active he always was on Twitter, and how he's always got Fox News running? I don't think he went off with an open mind and researched it but I'm sure he saw what kinds of people were supporting this horseshit online and saw very quickly which way the wind was blowing.

If you'd asked me in 2016 what bathroom Caitlyn Jenner should be using I probably would have said the same as Trump. It's not that long ago in real terms but there's a LOT that's happened since then that's made me change my mind, and why can't it be the same for Trump.

Personally I think his journey was less about how unfair it is for women and more about how fucking mad it is.

Although sport would definitely have made a dent.

WarriorN · 08/11/2024 12:58

Kostantin Kisin has done a 10 reasons why thing on Twitter - have to say he gets into the American mindset and makes some really relevant points.

Much of it is about illegal immigration. Also cost of living under Biden (which was probably mostly post pandemic/ Ukraine). Also Israel. The us is a very different culture to the UK and Europe.

We do tend to project European / British ideals and ideas onto US politics. It a very different country and people's

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 13:04

Datun · 08/11/2024 12:57

Personally I think his journey was less about how unfair it is for women and more about how fucking mad it is.

Although sport would definitely have made a dent.

And also for all his faults he and his advisors are not stupid.

They know these issues matter to women.

They know that a lot of people will be deeply concerned about an agenda that chops body parts off children.

It won't be about his deep love of women's rights it will be about winning votes.

lifeturnsonadime · 08/11/2024 13:04

WarriorN · 08/11/2024 12:58

Kostantin Kisin has done a 10 reasons why thing on Twitter - have to say he gets into the American mindset and makes some really relevant points.

Much of it is about illegal immigration. Also cost of living under Biden (which was probably mostly post pandemic/ Ukraine). Also Israel. The us is a very different culture to the UK and Europe.

We do tend to project European / British ideals and ideas onto US politics. It a very different country and people's

But Trump felt it was an issue worth spending 21 million dollars for ads on.

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