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3 questions for GC women

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ChirpyFinch · 28/08/2024 00:27

As the title says, three questions for the women in this chat.

  1. Do you think the majority of people are gender critical, and why/why not?

  2. Globally, the right wing is more vocally gender critical than the left. They are also far more likely to be regressive on a range of women’s issues like abortion and anti-gay. Why do you think they agree with GCs on this one issue but disagree on so much else (if you think they do?)

  3. How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

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XChrome · 28/08/2024 05:49

GrumpyPanda · 28/08/2024 03:26

Not if like me you happen to have an aversion for coconut flakes and involuntarily gag on them 🙄 must be how some folks are feeling about coriander. Love me a coconut curry so make of that whatever sense you will.

Understood. I discovered I'm actually allergic to coconut a few years ago, which sucks, because I adore it. I guess it's one of those things you either love or loathe.

MoveToParis · 28/08/2024 06:10

This is the Maya Forstater position, which I think represents gender critical belief well.
It begs the question which part of this do you reject?

GENDER CRITICAL BELIEF
I believe the following:
(A) “Sex” is a material reality which should not be conflated with “gender” or “gender identity”.
(B) Being female is an immutable biological fact, not a feeling or an identity.
(C) Sex matters.
(D) In particular it is important it is important to be able to talk about sex in order to take action against the discrimination, violence and oppression that still affect women and girls because they were born female.

SharonEllis · 28/08/2024 06:14

cariadlet · 28/08/2024 02:05

This has moved on. I wrote half a reply when there were only 2 other replies; had to stop for dinner; came back and found dozens of replies.

I can't believe people have been dissing rock cakes. A decent rock cake is delicious - not at all heavy.

Talking of old school recipes, I made a lovely bread pudding this week. Yummy!

Bread pudding has definitely made a comeback!

WarriorN · 28/08/2024 06:24

We went to beamish recently; the rock go cakes saved us from hangry children tantrums. I'd forgotten how good they are!

WarriorN · 28/08/2024 06:25

I’m merely trying to get a cross section of what GCs believe about being GC so I can better understand it.

Siri, show me... Siri.

PriOn1 · 28/08/2024 06:37

MoveToParis · 28/08/2024 06:10

This is the Maya Forstater position, which I think represents gender critical belief well.
It begs the question which part of this do you reject?

GENDER CRITICAL BELIEF
I believe the following:
(A) “Sex” is a material reality which should not be conflated with “gender” or “gender identity”.
(B) Being female is an immutable biological fact, not a feeling or an identity.
(C) Sex matters.
(D) In particular it is important it is important to be able to talk about sex in order to take action against the discrimination, violence and oppression that still affect women and girls because they were born female.

I second this. Which part of the list do you disagree with, OP.

And if you do disagree with any of it, please explain why.

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 06:42

EveSix · 28/08/2024 02:26

I've been using up allotment raspberries and making rather nice streüssel bakes the last couple of weeks. I reckon I could turn out a decent glutenfree version ‐I'll have a think. Brownies are lovely, but sometimes you want something fruity.

I love raspberries. What's a streüssel bake?

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 06:50

SpidersAreShitheads · 28/08/2024 03:12

I just want to say that I’ve been on the keto diet for the last month and the one thing I’m struggling with is the lack of cake.

This thread has been very triggering for me, you absolute bastards. I’m now considering a ram raid on my local Co-op for a Victoria sponge. (Also known as a “jam raid” 😂😂😂😂🫣🫣).

(Point of note - I used to make rock cakes with my mum growing up but she likes the beigest and most bland food in the world - she complained the other week that sausage rolls from Greggs were too spicy to eat).

If anyone wants to share a keto cake recipe that doesn’t involve growing my own keto-crops or anything else too complicated, it would be gratefully received. Every recipe I find makes my head spin as it’s got weird ingredients.

"jam raid" 😂😂

And your mum thinking Greggs sausage rolls are too spicy... 😂😂🥺

CautiousLurker · 28/08/2024 06:52

cariadlet · 28/08/2024 03:50

@GrumpyPanda Washing up was the first thing that came into my head but you can use chores, sports, toys, clothes, careers - any aspect of human behaviour.

Conservatives: gender stereotypes are part of the natural order and you should conform to the stereotype that matches your sex.

TRAs: Gender roles exist and are part of the natural order. If you are gender non-conforming and interested in things associated with the opposite sex then it's a sign that you were born in the wrong body and are trans.

GCs: Fuck gender stereotypes. Anyone can dress how they want and be interested in anything but sex is immutable and sex matters.

Absolutely this.

My mum used to make the most amazing cheesecake. You backed it in the oven at some ridiculously low heat for hours and hours, but it was light and fluffy and amazing when dressed with strawberries. She got the recipe from a magazine in the 1980s. Was nothing like the stodgy American style cheesecakes you see now. Would kill for that recipe. Not least cos I’ve not had cake in 16months (diet - nearly 5.5 stones lost, yay me.)

Mum also made the most delicious rock cakes… moist, buttery oozing with sultanas. Didn’t eat any of her baked goods herself, though, as she was chronically anorexic and food was her weapon of choice. Funny how EDs are still largely the preserve of the female sex, isn’t it?

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EdithStourton · 28/08/2024 06:54

@LiterallyOnFire You don't ever see those kinds of things now. Seed cake was another one.
I make seed cake!

I do have a gluten free chocolate orange cake recipe somewhere, I think. Could look it out for you if you fancy it?

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 06:57

StealthSpinach · 28/08/2024 02:11

I have a recipe for jam drops that can be made vegan and/or gluten free - it is so moreish…

So far, I have made them at different times with fig and cinnamon jam, cherry (my favourite!), apricot, strawberry, raspberry, and plum jams.

If anyone is interested, I can post a recipe?

Grandma made the BEST jam drops. I think I made them at school too from the Day to Day Cookery book for home ec. I still use that book.

But Brits don’t know what a jam drop is.

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 07:00

Are jammy dodgers the factory-made biscuit version of jam drops?

Fimbledore · 28/08/2024 07:03

I think left wing people believe in supporting the underdog.
In this instance I think they believe the rhetoric that trans people are suffering more than women.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 28/08/2024 07:05

1.Yes, the vast,vast majority of people globally (if what you mean by GC is not believing that TWAW or TMAM).

  1. Because the GC stance is a rare example of a belief that's simultaneously 'traditional' (in that it's what has been known to be true by virtually all of humanity since the dawn of time) but also sort of progressive, in that it's going against the resurgence and dominance of sex-based stereotypes. So it's not at all surprising that those different groups both have GC views.
  1. I have no idea and don't particularly care tbh.
PonkyPonky · 28/08/2024 07:18

I think it’s more of a coincidence that right wing and GC people happen to agree on this one thing. I’m GC because I believe in science, a lot of extreme conservative types (who believe in banning abortion) are religious and that’s not compatible with science. It’s a scientific impossibility to change your sex. It’s a mental health issue that needs treating as such, not pandering to and allowing people to believe they can change the facts of life just because they’re unhappy with what they got.
The overwhelming majority of people I know, in all walks of life, think that the trans movement has gone too far and is dangerous to young people.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 28/08/2024 07:19

Do you think the majority of people are gender critical, and why/why not?
I think that the majority of people do not believe human being can change sex. I also think they don't know what gender critical actually means.

Globally, the right wing is more vocally gender critical than the left. They are also far more likely to be regressive on a range of women’s issues like abortion and anti-gay. Why do you think they agree with GCs on this one issue but disagree on so much else (if you think they do?)
look at it like a Venn diagram. The right wing circle has bits about traditional roles and living conservatively, the GC circle has protect women's rights and women's spaces and "people cannot change sex" is the bit in the middle. It is not right wing to believe that human beings cannot change sex.

How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

There are very few people with gender dysphoria, at a guess maybe 0.5% or less and maybe 5% with autogynephilia, but at the moment I would say the majority of people saying they are trans are young people who believe it or are saying it for a wide variety of reasons but most of them will not go on to live presenting as the opposite sex for their adult life

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 07:24

ChirpyFinch · 28/08/2024 05:42

It’s not that I don’t understand the definition, it’s that the definition has been different for almost everyone in this thread and that is what I’m trying to make sense of. There’s no sinister motive, I’m merely trying to get a cross section of what GCs believe about being GC so I can better understand it.

Have you thought the issue is that you are trying to ask a group of people who have different interests to define a term which has been detached from its original purpose (gender critical feminism) and misapplied to a segment of society that don’t fit the original intention of the term at all?

In effect, you are saying you want to understand a term which is now meaningless. But has become a tool to discredit feminists because activists who want gender to be treated as being as important as sex detached the term from ‘gender critical feminist’ and wedged in groups with opposite motivations. That is forced teaming and was always dishonest.

So of course you will get what you see as different answers. There is no definition to the now meaningless term these days.

Even on this board there are people who are not feminists (by their own admission), have no understanding of feminism and are not interested in feminism, so why would you expect such a board to give you the consistent meaning you say you are seeking?

There are also many of us who also reject the term as it used now. In fact, I think many of us reject labelling full stop.

Your posts do come across as if you have an ulterior purpose. You are one of many who come and post around midnight to do this type of ‘academic’ exercise.

WarriorN · 28/08/2024 07:29

Snowypeaks · 28/08/2024 07:00

Are jammy dodgers the factory-made biscuit version of jam drops?

Yes . HTH.

Slothtoes · 28/08/2024 07:29

Here for the GF recipes. I tried making these the other day and added lemon zest, they were lovely. I could also have added a lot less sugar and they would’ve still been great.
https://www.deliciousmagazine.co.uk/recipes/almond-macaroons/amp/

Almond macaroons

These sweet, gluten-free almond macaroons, traditionally eaten during Passover, are easy to make from few ingredients.

https://www.deliciousmagazine.co.uk/recipes/almond-macaroons/amp

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 07:32

How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

Most people around the world would fall into the category of ‘non-binary’. Because most people have interests that don’t fit into what has been used to categorise the ‘binary genders’. Most people just are who they are and like what they like and their sex is only relevant for issues around having a sexed body.

So without further definition of what you mean as ‘trans people’, why do you expect others to give a consistent answer?

MrsTerryPratchett · 28/08/2024 07:32

I'd like to ask a wide-eyed question about how many feminists are vegan and/or gluten-free. Because from this thread, it's a LOT. <narrows eyes>

DeanElderberry · 28/08/2024 07:34

If I use 'sex role stereotype' as a synonmym for 'gender' your questions become:

Do you think the majority of people are sex role stereotype critical, and why/why not?

Not sure. Half the people are men, and the stereotypes have served them well for millennia. Women, less so. Feminism still has a lot of work to do worldwide.

Globally, the right wing is more vocally sex role stereotype critical than the left.

Oh No They Are Not. They really really are not. The love sex role stereotypes. Genderism is an extremely regressive and repressive ideology, one of a number of reasons one powerful and vocal subset of its enthusiasts is rich white middleaged men.

They are also far more likely to be regressive on a range of women’s issues like abortion and anti-gay. Why do you think they agree with those who reject sex-role stereotypes on this one issue but disagree on so much else (if you think they do?)

I don't because they don't.

How many trans people do you estimate there are globally?

How long is a piece of string? Define 'trans person' - break that down by birth sex, age, race, social status, access to money, continent of residence.

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 07:34

WarriorN · 28/08/2024 07:29

Yes . HTH.

Not quite. The jam to biscuit ratio is all wrong. And the biscuit is the wrong texture. I dont like jammy dodgers at all. But I love a good jam drop.

Helleofabore · 28/08/2024 07:36

MrsTerryPratchett · 28/08/2024 07:32

I'd like to ask a wide-eyed question about how many feminists are vegan and/or gluten-free. Because from this thread, it's a LOT. <narrows eyes>

I am GF! But I eat a little bit every day so my allergy doesn’t set in.

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