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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Algerian boxer filing legal claim over online harrassment

544 replies

GoogleWhacking · 10/08/2024 22:26

news.sky.com/story/algerian-boxer-imane-khelif-at-centre-of-olympic-gender-row-files-legal-complaint-over-online-harassment-13195264

She could have put this to bed by sharing DNA tests. I'm struggling to feel sympathy, although it must be horrid.

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LoobiJee · 11/08/2024 09:56

Snowypeaks · 11/08/2024 09:30

Yes, 17 years old. Was spotted while playing football.

And coincidentally the same year that the three XY athletes took gold, silver and bronze in the women’s 800m at the 2016 Olympics.

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 09:56

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:53

How would you feel if you have been brought up as female, always thought you were female, didn't have male genitalia and someone did a test (no one seems to have said what the test was and what it showed) and told you that you were male. Would you suddenly think Oh yes I'm a man or would you still think you were a woman.

If I was in my twenties when the test was conducted I'd feel pretty fucking dumb.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 09:56

Snowypeaks · 11/08/2024 09:51

Frasers

And any lurkers - it's important to understand that a person's sex is not a sort of totting up of how many or which kind of sex characteristics they end up with.
Sex is which of the two types of gamete they are supposed to be set up to produce (all being well).

Sex is determined in humans by the SRY gene. This decides which of the two sexual development pathways the baby will follow, ie which sexual organs and characteristics it will develop. If all goes as it should in the womb, you end up with a baby with unambiguous outer genital structures and the complete internal physiology for its sex. But sexual development is a complex process, dependent on several different triggers operating in the correct sequence and it can go wrong or be incomplete, which is why DSDs occur. But the specialists can still work out whether the baby is male or female and the parents can be advised accordingly.

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Most potential international athletes will be picked up by age 18 - even in less affluent countries - these days.

There needs to be efforts to tackle the coaches deliberately seeking out DSD cases too. That's at the national level.

It should be dealt with at grass roots before it gets to the actual games.

Deadringer · 11/08/2024 09:57

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:53

How would you feel if you have been brought up as female, always thought you were female, didn't have male genitalia and someone did a test (no one seems to have said what the test was and what it showed) and told you that you were male. Would you suddenly think Oh yes I'm a man or would you still think you were a woman.

I would be devastated, but I wouldn't go on to box the head off actual women, I know that for sure.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 11/08/2024 09:57

Just a little prediction. The actual worst and bluntest comments will I'd imagine be from men but I predict their 'case' will target women. Even those just using language appropriate to what they see e.g. male pronouns. We'll see.

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:58

RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 09:22

As a matter of interest, if a young female family member passes through puberty without beginning menstruation, how long do you think the parents would leave it before consulting a doctor?

If you're training at a national level and have access to their medical team, how many minutes do you think you'd be into your

  • first medical before you're asked about your menstrual cycle
  • coaching schedule planning before you were asked about your menstrual cycle.
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Intense training can stop menstruation so if they start training young that might not raise any questions.

Deipara · 11/08/2024 09:58

GoogleWhacking · 10/08/2024 22:26

news.sky.com/story/algerian-boxer-imane-khelif-at-centre-of-olympic-gender-row-files-legal-complaint-over-online-harassment-13195264

She could have put this to bed by sharing DNA tests. I'm struggling to feel sympathy, although it must be horrid.

"She"???

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:59

Deadringer · 11/08/2024 09:57

I would be devastated, but I wouldn't go on to box the head off actual women, I know that for sure.

They've both been beaten by women so not a given they will win and I haven't heard of any boxers having their heads boxed off.

It might be difficult if you are poor, you are a professional boxer and that puts food on the table.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 11/08/2024 10:00

any009 · 11/08/2024 02:36

I’m calm don’t worry about me. You don’t see a he you just don’t know. And if you don’t know maybe stop saying he. It’s horrible and you are adding to the bullying.

Breaking a woman’s nose is more bullying than stating someone’s sex.

RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 10:01

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:58

Intense training can stop menstruation so if they start training young that might not raise any questions.

I'm reasonably well versed in the female athlete's triad and the efforts coaches go to to forestall this.

Note, you remark "can stop". IK was playing football and spotted at the age of 17. Any intense training would have started beyond that age.

Again, no menarche before the age of 17. And the question about age of onset of menarche would have been asked along with details of the menstrual cycle when intense training started.

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:04

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 09:56

If I was in my twenties when the test was conducted I'd feel pretty fucking dumb.

Why? Generally we are told, over and over again, if you have a penis you are male. With some of these conditions there isn't a penis so by that logic they aren't men or at least they probably have no reason to think they are men.

It must be pretty bloody horrific to find this out when you are an adult.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 10:05

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:53

How would you feel if you have been brought up as female, always thought you were female, didn't have male genitalia and someone did a test (no one seems to have said what the test was and what it showed) and told you that you were male. Would you suddenly think Oh yes I'm a man or would you still think you were a woman.

All countries have a responsibility to their own athletes. If they look likely to progress to the international level, then good procedures talking about how there is a test, how the test works, why the test is necessary and how it's possible the result might not come back with 'the right result' should be tackled. The IOC should set this out as basic good practice.

As part of that, before you even get to that stage, questions about whether you are presenting as a female or whether there may be a potential problem and chance such a test might show an unexpected result.

I think my point is it's disengenous to say that an XY result will come as a complete shock without any prior indications.

WeaselCheeks · 11/08/2024 10:05

Khelif needs to sue the IBA, as it's their tests that have caused the outrage.

It's an outrage which is justified if the tests are correct, because men with DSDs shouldn't be participating in women's sports, even if they were misidentified as female at birth. But, conversely, if the tests are inaccurate, then the IBA have caused a woman to be harassed and accused of being male when she's not.

People shouldn't be punished for saying that Khelif (or Lin Yu-ting) shouldn't be in women's sports when a major sporting body has publicly said that they're ineligible due to their sex. Rather than going after those people, Khelif needs to go after the IBA. Maybe she could... I dunno, do a new test to clear things up and prove them wrong?

Omlettes · 11/08/2024 10:06

PaterPower · 11/08/2024 07:18

The people who make points like “Algeria is a country where people cannot transition,” or point out how conservative it is etc etc…

…somehow don’t have much to say about all the pictures of this guy in male clothing with hair uncovered. Or that he was permitted to play football with other boys. Who knew that Algeria’s become so accepting of (what a conservative country would view as) gender non-conforming behaviour?

And then you have his coach putting him on his shoulders. Even if Khelif is a thoroughly modern Millie, I can’t see his much older male coaches sharing that attitude.

Its patronising reverse racism.

TheKeatingFive · 11/08/2024 10:06

Maybe she could... I dunno, do a new test to clear things up and prove them wrong?

So simple, eh?

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 10:06

It quite literally is the job of the IOC to be tackling cultural taboos surrounding this.

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:08

RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 10:01

I'm reasonably well versed in the female athlete's triad and the efforts coaches go to to forestall this.

Note, you remark "can stop". IK was playing football and spotted at the age of 17. Any intense training would have started beyond that age.

Again, no menarche before the age of 17. And the question about age of onset of menarche would have been asked along with details of the menstrual cycle when intense training started.

Menarche is generally reckoned to be typically between 10 and 16. Obviously it can happen a bit earlier or a bit later. I don't think 17 is that wildly different to 16. Other things can affect it, weight and nutrition being big factors.

GoogleWhacking · 11/08/2024 10:09

Deipara · 11/08/2024 09:58

"She"???

I was trying to stop a pile on.

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RethinkingLife · 11/08/2024 10:09

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:04

Why? Generally we are told, over and over again, if you have a penis you are male. With some of these conditions there isn't a penis so by that logic they aren't men or at least they probably have no reason to think they are men.

It must be pretty bloody horrific to find this out when you are an adult.

I suppose the warning is in your user name but it's difficult to accept your comments with any degree of good faith.

PPs have engaged with you extensively and provided useful links.

There's a point at which further engagement is a disregard for women's resources and any 'lurkers' or bystanders have plenty of links to follow-up.

Ingenieur · 11/08/2024 10:12

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 09:53

How would you feel if you have been brought up as female, always thought you were female, didn't have male genitalia and someone did a test (no one seems to have said what the test was and what it showed) and told you that you were male. Would you suddenly think Oh yes I'm a man or would you still think you were a woman.

Yes, that is the honourable and sensible thing to do, not living a lie

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erik_Schinegger

StealthSpinach · 11/08/2024 10:12

Snowypeaks · 11/08/2024 09:30

Yes, 17 years old. Was spotted while playing football.

That puts a gigantic stop to my sympathy for IK. The coaches knew, they selected, IK would have known.
Woman - my arse.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 11/08/2024 10:13

WeaselCheeks · 11/08/2024 10:05

Khelif needs to sue the IBA, as it's their tests that have caused the outrage.

It's an outrage which is justified if the tests are correct, because men with DSDs shouldn't be participating in women's sports, even if they were misidentified as female at birth. But, conversely, if the tests are inaccurate, then the IBA have caused a woman to be harassed and accused of being male when she's not.

People shouldn't be punished for saying that Khelif (or Lin Yu-ting) shouldn't be in women's sports when a major sporting body has publicly said that they're ineligible due to their sex. Rather than going after those people, Khelif needs to go after the IBA. Maybe she could... I dunno, do a new test to clear things up and prove them wrong?

Yes, this would be the most logical thing to do although IBC believed it was a safety issue (rather borne out by events) so had to speak up.

But they both were given a chance to appeal and didn't, why not? I would imagine this might undermine any legal claim as they didn't take the route to appeal offered at he time.

Unless of course this is actually just riding a wave of power to punch down on women (see my prediction above).

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 10:13

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:04

Why? Generally we are told, over and over again, if you have a penis you are male. With some of these conditions there isn't a penis so by that logic they aren't men or at least they probably have no reason to think they are men.

It must be pretty bloody horrific to find this out when you are an adult.

Horrific or not,he knows he's a bloke and if he's determined to carry on boxing he can climb into the ring with other blokes.

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:14

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2024 10:05

All countries have a responsibility to their own athletes. If they look likely to progress to the international level, then good procedures talking about how there is a test, how the test works, why the test is necessary and how it's possible the result might not come back with 'the right result' should be tackled. The IOC should set this out as basic good practice.

As part of that, before you even get to that stage, questions about whether you are presenting as a female or whether there may be a potential problem and chance such a test might show an unexpected result.

I think my point is it's disengenous to say that an XY result will come as a complete shock without any prior indications.

Is it possible to go through life thinking you are female, with everyone from the midwife who delivered you to your close family thinking you are female and then find out you aren't?

What does "presenting as female" actually mean? I knew a girl who was very sporty, slim but muscular, always played sports with the boys. She could easily have been a target for this sort of speculation if she was 20 years younger. Of course when she gave birth to her two children the speculation would probably have stopped.

Iwasafool · 11/08/2024 10:15

WickedSerious · 11/08/2024 10:13

Horrific or not,he knows he's a bloke and if he's determined to carry on boxing he can climb into the ring with other blokes.

So many mind readers on here.

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