In other words you are allowing male ideology to minimise what you want to do.
In giving up in this way you are colluding with the problem with society which is what men say, goes.
If early women's liberationists had taken that defeatist attitude we would never have had Domestic Violence acknowledged as an actual crime, insteand of it just being brushed aside as a bit of a domestic.
And whilst TW claiming they have experienced misogyny and not doubt gets lots of headlines, I can live with that because compared to the many, many more instances of murder of women and girls by men as femicide, fueled by misogyny being reported, is of far greated signifigance.
Those murders are far more important and a priority to be recognised for what they are, than they usual attention seekers claiming female status.
Lets please have the courage of our convictions and stop allowing men to narrow our horizons.
And lets start trying to do something meaningful to change to male concepts of society that allow boys and young men to grow into men who are violent towards women.
No doubt there are mothers of boys on this and other FWR.
We need to talk about how to stop those boys and young men being groomed by violent male culture.