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Slaughtering women & girls is *not* terrorism, according to the police

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YellowAsteroid · 30/07/2024 13:29

Well, what is it then, when women & girls are targeted because they are specifically girls & women ?

Just your common or garden slaughter?

I'm so so angry about the way in which the regular murder of girls & women because they are female is not seen as political, or a terrorist action.

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Mondaysocial · 30/07/2024 16:48

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:54

When a man commits violence against women and girls, all women and girls are harmed and all men and boys benefit. It's absolutely appropriate to call this terrorism when it occurs.

Reposting from another thread:

Every man who has a woman say "yes" when she wanted to say "no" because she feared that he would murder her has benefited from the lesson to all women that men like Kyle Clifford [who murdered Carol, Hannah, and Louise Hunt with a crossbow] teach.

Every man who gets a job because a woman was too scared to even apply because she feared that she would not survive the walk home has benefited from the lesson to all women that men like Josef Puska and Wayne Couzins teach.

Every man who gets a job in construction or tech because a woman left the industry because of sexual harassment benefits from the actions of the harassers, even if he does not himself harass.

Men as a class benefit from male violence against women. Even the "good men".

This is so bloody true. I have never thought of it like that before.

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 16:48

Leah5678 · 30/07/2024 16:38

I don't want to live in a society where children are stabbed in dance classes and the killer still gets to walk the earth

He won't be, if convicted. He will be walking a jail cell.

Capital punishment has the downside that unsafe convictions mean innocent people being murdered by the State. It's not possible to only have the death penalty for "safe" convictions because all convictions are presumed safe until an appeal shows otherwise.

We have collectively, via our MPs, decided that it's better to have whole life orders ETA: I think these are now called "detained at His Majesty's pleasure", basically you aren't coming out until the Home Secretary says so for the really nasty people than to risk executing someone who might be innocent, no matter how remote that chance of innocence is.

Before you start frothing about "sympathising with a killer", read the above again. Not having the death penalty is about who we collectively want to be as a country: a nation who allow for the possibility, even slight, that jury trials might return wrongful guilty verdicts and give only sentences that allow for the possibility of release on successful appeal.

RedToothBrush · 30/07/2024 16:49
  1. we don't know if the motive is incelism
  2. we need to classify incelism as terrorism if it comes with a manifesto style explanation like some murders have.

I despise this idea that terrorism has become solely brown/islamic people. Historically in this country that has been totally removed from our experience.

Snowypeaks · 30/07/2024 16:51

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 16:48

He won't be, if convicted. He will be walking a jail cell.

Capital punishment has the downside that unsafe convictions mean innocent people being murdered by the State. It's not possible to only have the death penalty for "safe" convictions because all convictions are presumed safe until an appeal shows otherwise.

We have collectively, via our MPs, decided that it's better to have whole life orders ETA: I think these are now called "detained at His Majesty's pleasure", basically you aren't coming out until the Home Secretary says so for the really nasty people than to risk executing someone who might be innocent, no matter how remote that chance of innocence is.

Before you start frothing about "sympathising with a killer", read the above again. Not having the death penalty is about who we collectively want to be as a country: a nation who allow for the possibility, even slight, that jury trials might return wrongful guilty verdicts and give only sentences that allow for the possibility of release on successful appeal.

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Thanks for expressing it so well.

Omlettes · 30/07/2024 17:01

DazedandConfused1234 · 30/07/2024 14:17

What??? Seriously? They actually argue a woman should not be entitled to say no to sex?

I dove into incel and MRA culture in 2012 and you would weep in despair if you saw what they advocate.
Incel culture has been allowed to grow unchecked for 15 years or more.

MoltenLasagne · 30/07/2024 17:01

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 16:48

He won't be, if convicted. He will be walking a jail cell.

Capital punishment has the downside that unsafe convictions mean innocent people being murdered by the State. It's not possible to only have the death penalty for "safe" convictions because all convictions are presumed safe until an appeal shows otherwise.

We have collectively, via our MPs, decided that it's better to have whole life orders ETA: I think these are now called "detained at His Majesty's pleasure", basically you aren't coming out until the Home Secretary says so for the really nasty people than to risk executing someone who might be innocent, no matter how remote that chance of innocence is.

Before you start frothing about "sympathising with a killer", read the above again. Not having the death penalty is about who we collectively want to be as a country: a nation who allow for the possibility, even slight, that jury trials might return wrongful guilty verdicts and give only sentences that allow for the possibility of release on successful appeal.

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The problem is, when death sentences were removed, the agreement was that taking a life would always mean life in prison. Instead, prison sentences are now risible and the public feel betrayed.

SwanRonsen · 30/07/2024 17:13

Littlewhingingfucker · 30/07/2024 14:32

It's disgusting that you immediately blame it on mental illness, whilst ruling out the toxic masculinity of incel culture as a possibility. Most people with schizophrenia are kind and gentle and are more likely to be victims of violence, both men and women. But if you want to continue with that discredited argument where are the thousands of schizophrenic women losing control and murdering people?

Such a great point. It's ableism.

TheWoodlanders · 30/07/2024 17:15

@Leah5678 you don’t understand what schizophrenia is.

YellowAsteroid · 30/07/2024 17:16

But when it comes to women and girl victims, it's always 'unlikely' they're killed because they're female. It must be mental health and just a coincidence, I suppose, that the perpetrator just happened to 'snap' and unleash on women and girls instead of big burly men.

Thank you @yourhairiswinterfire . You put it far better than I could through the spluttering anger I've been feeling for most of today.

For clarity, again: the Southport incident has made me so angry, but my OP was about ALL the deliberate attacks on girls & women because they are girls and women.

And how much we've normalised this.

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YellowAsteroid · 30/07/2024 17:20

It seems people are desperate to not acknowledge that it's men who are the problem, because women from most communities are for the most part, unlikely to sexually assault and murder people.

Men and their entitlement to just kill women and children isn't standard terrorism that we've all grown up with, like a suspect package left on a crowded train, it's new wave terrorism that involves acid attacks and stabbings or bombs on predominantly women and girls.

Yes. 👏 👏 👏 👏

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Jumblebum · 30/07/2024 17:20

OnePeachCrow · 30/07/2024 14:12

Terrorism is "the use of violence against non-combatants to achieve political or ideological aims."

So unless he had some political or ideological aim it wouldn't be designated a terrorist attack.

Doesn't make it any less horrific.

The political or ideological aim is to remove women's access to public life. To frighten us back in to the home where we can be controlled and subjugated by our fathers, husbands or sons.

StickItInTheFamilyAlbum · 30/07/2024 17:22

my OP was about ALL the deliberate attacks on girls & women because they are girls and women.

OP, I understood that this is a general thread on the topic given that today has updates on

  • Carol, Hannah and Louise Hunt
  • Emma and Lettie Pattison
  • Anita Rose
OuterSpaceCadet · 30/07/2024 17:24

MaidOfAle · 30/07/2024 14:54

When a man commits violence against women and girls, all women and girls are harmed and all men and boys benefit. It's absolutely appropriate to call this terrorism when it occurs.

Reposting from another thread:

Every man who has a woman say "yes" when she wanted to say "no" because she feared that he would murder her has benefited from the lesson to all women that men like Kyle Clifford [who murdered Carol, Hannah, and Louise Hunt with a crossbow] teach.

Every man who gets a job because a woman was too scared to even apply because she feared that she would not survive the walk home has benefited from the lesson to all women that men like Josef Puska and Wayne Couzins teach.

Every man who gets a job in construction or tech because a woman left the industry because of sexual harassment benefits from the actions of the harassers, even if he does not himself harass.

Men as a class benefit from male violence against women. Even the "good men".

What a good way of putting it. Gave me chills. It is so ingrained I barely even notice all the times I make myself smaller or don't take part because of fear.

YellowAsteroid · 30/07/2024 17:27

Snowypeaks · 30/07/2024 16:40

So you do think the death penalty should work as a deterrent, then? It doesn't. It's barbaric.

I think it's much better to have someone in prison, grinding through every day, having to accept what they have done and the reason why they are there. That is justice. Not vengeance.

The problem is that male prisoners are always being let out early, no matter what they have done.

I agree @Snowypeaks

Capital punishment is #notinmyname

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dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 30/07/2024 17:33

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OuterSpaceCadet · 30/07/2024 17:38

Lwrenn · 30/07/2024 15:46

My extremely basic view I summed up earlier to my partner.

A Christian, Jewish and Muslim woman all walk into a room.

And they all manage to not kill anyone.

It seems pretty simple to me, some men, regardless of their religion or culture or skin colour want to kill women.

It seems people are desperate to not acknowledge that it's men who are the problem, because women from most communities are for the most part, unlikely to sexually assault and murder people.

Men and their entitlement to just kill women and children isn't standard terrorism that we've all grown up with, like a suspect package left on a crowded train, it's new wave terrorism that involves acid attacks and stabbings or bombs on predominantly women and girls.

There are plenty of summer camps ran by ex soldiers for kids, the assault courses and what not. It's no coincidence they're not targeted.

Women probably aren't important enough to be terrorism victims, we're just collateral damage of dangerous "lone wolves".

It's fucking breaking my heart thinking about those little girls. I hope the murderer is never free, regardless of whatever struggles he had with being mentally unwell, he went for the most vulnerable. It was premeditated. Whole life order.

This

And half the point of us saying the problem is MEN murdering women and girls is to step aside from the whataboutery and distraction of what religion, which race, mental health blah blah. The problem of men using violence to suppress, opress and incite fear into women is global and cross cultural.

IwantToRetire · 30/07/2024 17:43

Please note I think it is much too early to comment on the horrifying events in Southport.

Absolutely NO WAY should we allow male violence against women to be caught up in the inter conflict of political and religious ideology.

MALE violence is universal.

It should not be downplayed into men trying to impose their politics or religion on other groups.

It absolutely should be made clear that if a man or boy targets women or girls it is femicide.

The problem in this country is women aren't even afforded the legal status of having violence against women considered a hate crime.

So whilst i agree with OP's sense of anger etc., I for one am NOT going to let men decide is it this, is it that.

If, after FACTS ARE KNOWN, is it clear that the class was targetted because they were all girls then that is a different matter.

(Just one comment about what happened in Southport, the media are going out of their way NOT to say girls but to say children, whereas local people all talk about girls.)

Despite public hand ringing, and isn't it awful, the country as a whole, whether polticians and members of the public do not want to talk about how normal most people seem to think it is that men are violent against women.

And much as I think the femicide report has been a good public campaign, what we really need is a public list of the male perpetrators.

Otherwise it is all just hand wringing, and how sad, she was such a lovely woman / girl.

We need to expose and make the public accept that unless and until men start respecting women and not thinking there will be no consequences for violence against women, it will never stop.

So please, dont lets get dragged into men's concepts about what is or is not the worst sort of crime.

We need to be absolutely clear, in what ever circumstance, that male violence against women is a world wide epidemic, and in too many cultures accepted as being acceptable.

So men should not be able to hide behind contested concepts of terrorism, and the government and police should not be able to conceal this society wide issue, which is male violence against women.

Based on the very basic concept that the male sex is superior and has more rights than women.

GoldMedallist · 30/07/2024 17:44

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It’s not a justification, it’s how criminal law works in England and Wales and elsewhere. The guilty act, actus reus, and the guilty mind, mens rea.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 30/07/2024 17:51

Well the law is by men and for men, largely, with some amazing women within it trying to change it to make it fairer to women and children though it's slow going.

However, I think in this case the law will agree. You can't order a taxi and then claim you're somehow deranged, it would be an obvious lie.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 30/07/2024 17:52

So my comment was deleted for saying the man who's killed primary aged girls is an evil bastard? What the actual fuck?

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 30/07/2024 17:59

I didn't say who it was or speculated, just said anyone who had the mental wherewithal to plan and commit this crime is an evil bastard and should not be excused on any account.

If we can't say that as mothers, where the hell are we?

RedToothBrush · 30/07/2024 18:06

dougalfromthemagicroundabout

This is a legal case in progress. Thus no one is guilty until a court finds this. Saying someone is evil might prejudice a trial. You can say whatever you like after a trial with a guilty verdict.

There may or may not be other issues at play. There may be failures of responsibility. Etc etc. We don't know.

The suspect is also not a man. He's a minor. Hence why he can't be legally named.

Until then we have to be restrained otherwise it risks a fair trial and that could potentially lead to someone walking free who shouldnt on technicalities. Do you want that?

MN right to delete .

Longtalljosie · 30/07/2024 18:09

GailBlancheViola · 30/07/2024 14:59

There is no hate crime for killing women or girls. Misogyny does not come under hate crime legislation.

You’re quite right. I was balancing too many thoughts at once, sorry

timenowplease · 30/07/2024 18:10

I'd just like to point out that there have been other stabbing incidents on children and schools in the past year.

One at an inner city school in Dublin on 23 November 2023. The perpetrator was an Algerian immigrant called Riad Bouchaker.

The second one was on 8 June 2023 in a playground in Annecy, France. The attacker was Abdalmasih H., a 31-year-old Syrian national.

Yes, it is terrorism. Of course it is. The authorities won't name it as such because of the repercussions. As a result more children will die.

dougalfromthemagicroundabout · 30/07/2024 18:13

RedToothBrush · 30/07/2024 18:06

dougalfromthemagicroundabout

This is a legal case in progress. Thus no one is guilty until a court finds this. Saying someone is evil might prejudice a trial. You can say whatever you like after a trial with a guilty verdict.

There may or may not be other issues at play. There may be failures of responsibility. Etc etc. We don't know.

The suspect is also not a man. He's a minor. Hence why he can't be legally named.

Until then we have to be restrained otherwise it risks a fair trial and that could potentially lead to someone walking free who shouldnt on technicalities. Do you want that?

MN right to delete .

On the general chat thread there are many people saying exactly the same as I said, and none deleted. Where's the justice there?

There is also a right to free speech and I would think the ability to say whoever it may be who has killed in cold blood 3 primary aged girls is evil should fall very clearly under the legal human right of freedom of speech.

It doesn't prejudice the investigation to say it's an evil act, how ridiculous.

The only thing deleting such a comment does, is excuse, minimise and cover up the worst possible crimes.

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