In other words you are allowing male ideology to minimise what you want to do.
In giving up in this way you are colluding with the problem with society which is what men say, goes.
To allow the definition of woman to include men who claim to be women is agreeing that what men say, goes. Because you would be agreeing that men can be women if they say so and also that they should be included in a law to protect women and girls.
I'm opposing it because including MCW as women is a way to further embed in law the idea that a man can be a woman. Not least because it would include self-ID "women" and not just males with a GRC. I thought that you, like me, abhorred the concept of legal sex, so why would you want to extend its scope?
And whilst TW claiming they have experienced misogyny and not doubt gets lots of headlines, I can live with that because compared to the many, many more instances of murder of women and girls by men as femicide, fueled by misogyny being reported, is of far greated signifigance.
It's not about headlines. Going by what has happened in other jurisdictions where such laws are in force, MCW will benefit at the expense of, and to the detriment of, women. Women will not benefit at all, because the misogynistic soup we swim in will still be there - women at risk will still be fobbed off, while the police will jump to investigate ribbons and stickering. A law which included MCW as women would make it easy for the police to say they were taking misogyny seriously, while still pandering to men and ignoring the dangers and risks to women.
Thirdly, in the current climate, it's highly likely that hurty words would be included in the definition of violence and we all know where that leads. Calling a man a man would be a crime. Calling an actual woman a man is not misogyny, but for some reason it is when the "woman" actually is a man. It's a weapon to force women to accept men as women. There is no interest in protecting women - that's not what such a laws are really for.
If a sensible law was passed, MCW would be protected in the same way as all men would be - ie if they were targeted because the attacker thought they were female. Not because they themselves thought they were female.
A misogyny law passed by this government in this climate would be a disaster for women and would have far-reaching effects. Much better to put pressure on the government to take women's lives more seriously. That part of your post I do agree with, although I profoundly disagree that passing a law to make misogyny a hate crime would have the right effect.