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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do women in the U.K. know or care about the threat to women’s and girls rights now they’ve voted labour?

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Heylo · 05/07/2024 07:14

i know the tories record on public services are abysmal and bar some genuine believers like Kemi Badenoch the tories would likely go the trans route if they thought it would buy them votes. But, currently it’s the tories who offered to protect women and girls from the trans madness. My question is - which women voted in trans loving, women - hating Labour?

we can look forward to -

  1. continued gender ideology being pumped out in schools
  2. conversion ban - you better hope your child doesn’t start questioning their gender out loud because TRA ridden schools will be referring them to gender clinics and socially transitioning them now they have a mandate
  3. same sex attracted lesbians (myself included) it’s completely game over. Keep your head down and your mouth shut. Trans identified males and their female allies have already closed down every women only night. Same sex attracted women are now labelled bigots. We are no longer welcome in London’s LGBT soup community
  4. prisons - what happens to vulnerable women? They are already disbelieved and dismissed. Now they have to endure the staring and various forms of sexual harrassment that goes with being incarcerated with men

i can only hope our political landscape mirrors America and in the same way Trump will be voted back in this year, we will have The Tories being led by Kemi back in in 4 years time.

omg I can’t believe we have to kiss goodbye to women’s rights - for the next four years

back to my original question. Apart from TRA idealouges, why have women voted these clowns in? Is it that they prioritise the Tories terrible record on public services over this? Do some women not see it as a huge issue? would love to hear from some posters who voted Labour.

Thanks & stay safe out there, as women we have woken up to a a dark chapter in history today

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MuddlingMackem · 05/07/2024 09:23

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 08:46

No one knows more trans people than GC people. Considering they're only 0.5% of the population, every GC mumsnetter knows multiple of them and their children's schools are swarmed with them. How odd.

Maybe that 's one of the reasons they're GC, because they've seen the effects of Gender Ideology and you're the lucky ones to be living still in blissful ignorance.

HowIrresponsible · 05/07/2024 09:23

I was at a conference about LGBT a couple of weeks ago. I can't say too much as it's outing. But just know this: there many men strutting around in dresses thinking they're women talking loudly about what should happens in schools. There was a specific part of lectures devoted to the incoming labour government and how much more support and rights they're going to get accordingly.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/07/2024 09:24

I'm delighted the Tories are gone. I hope their trans shitshow goes with them.Grin

Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 09:24

LunaandLily · 05/07/2024 08:54

But “cis” men do this sort of thing all the time?? There are no safe spaces, there are no single sex spaces. Men can and do invade spaces which are not for them. Men don’t need to transition to
prey on women.

Oh, I guess that's o.k then.

zibzibara · 05/07/2024 09:24

DodoTired · 05/07/2024 09:15

Oh my god, please not again.

women’s rights and protections were decimated under TORIES

This is most of the reason why I too voted Labour, but am I not allowed to be worried about them destroying women's rights through the trans ideological route?

Projectme · 05/07/2024 09:25

CatusFlatus · 05/07/2024 09:01

They were around before the last election. There's an equivalent for most parties.

They have been banned from having a stand at the Labour Party conference.

That's what we're dealing with.

Really unbelievable to think that a bunch of Labour supporters (that just so happen to be women) are banned from having a stall at Labour conferences?! We haven't come very far from the turn of the 1900's have we really. That's incredibly depressing.

Angrymum22 · 05/07/2024 09:25

CandiedPrincess · 05/07/2024 09:05

Actually many schools use teaching resources from activist organisations and do teach gender ideology as a fact...rather than as a contested theory. Also, many schools have activist teachers running LGBTQ+ lunchtime clubs.

Five kids. Five different schools. Haven't come across any of this. Not "many" schools, I think you mean "some" and even then it's probably a tiny majority. Stop scaremongering.

Have you asked your children if they have been taught/discussed gender at school. My DS19 is constantly correcting me regarding gender issues. I asked him why he was so knowledgeable and he told me that it was comprehensively covered at school. He has never volunteered this information.
I have spent most of his gap year carefully explaining why some of us “transphobes” are gender critical. And just for good measure how different women’s rights were when I was his age. The discrimination I faced and how I was treated as a novelty in my early career. He is a wonderful critical thinker and has not been brainwashed but I would not have known about the diversity and equality education he received at school.
They tell you very little, only yesterday I was giving him a lift, as we passed a primary school he commented that he’d done community service in the school for 6 weeks during sixth form.

Signalbox · 05/07/2024 09:25

Fargo79 · 05/07/2024 09:09

Honestly, people can fuck off with the accusations that "women have let each other down", or the insinuation that women who voted for Labour are too stupid to understand the issues (which is drenched in misogyny, btw).

It's not been an easy vote to cast. I am deeply, deeply worried about the threat to women's rights. But right now, in the present moment, my family is in desperate need of better healthcare provision, better SEND provision and a better educational system. We can't wait any longer. It may be the difference between one of my children being able to live an independent life or needing care forever. It could be the difference between one of my children's parents having their mobility or not within the next few years. I don't know if Labour can make the difference, but I am absolutely certain that things would only have declined further under the Tories. I don't think for a second that KS actually believes TWAW. I am hopeful that some common sense will prevail and that there is continued pressure on the incoming government.

I will not be made to feel guilty for casting my vote in the interests of my family and thousands upon thousands of others in similar circumstances. This was an awful hand to be dealt and we've done what we think is the "least worst".

I agree with this. For weeks now these same accusations have been levelled at women who have dared to say they would be voting Tory for the first time in their lives. I don’t know why people feel the need to call people stupid for voting differently to them. It really does nothing to convince anyone of anything. We all have different priorities and it’s clear that (almost) everyone on here does passionately care about women’s rights.

Shortshriftandlethal · 05/07/2024 09:26

CandiedPrincess · 05/07/2024 08:38

I agree with @JT69 about not falling for the Daily Mail style hysteria. I have five children of various ages and they've not been "subjected" to any "ideologies" at all. There's a lot of propaganda.

Furthermore my local Labour MP is a trans activist who has the Mermaids logo at the top of her twitter account. One of the new NHS gender clinics is to be set up at the local children's hospita -l to deal with the big demand from distressed young children and young people who have been swept up into the madness.

You can deny and dismiss all you like, it does not make any of this less the case.

Whatever1964 · 05/07/2024 09:27

WomensRightsRenegade · 05/07/2024 09:19

How privileged not to know any women in prison, on a hospital ward, needing same sex intimate care, or in a rape/ domestic violence shelter. I can promise you this issue matters to them. The very most vulnerable in our society

And yet so many propose voting for parties that would do nothing else for those vulnerable people. As if we're supposed to believe middle class mumsnet TERFs actually give a crap about prisoners' rights when they can't use them as a political pawn. Just how so many were proposing voting Tory - the party that has patients sleeping on hospital floors- because they promised same sex wards 🙄

Peonies12 · 05/07/2024 09:28

I'm far more concerned about the state of the NHS and the state of the maternity ward when I give birth this year. It was only going to get worse with Tories. And I want my child to be given education around sexuality, consent, sexual safety and gender identity.

12BottlesOfVintageChampagne · 05/07/2024 09:28

Flossflower · 05/07/2024 08:40

As a female, I am very worried about some of Labour trans ideology. However, I was very worried about, schools, health and poverty under a Conservative government. Just not sure what the next 5 years will bring, but surely it can’t be much worse.

This is broadly where I am on this topic and I cast my vote based on the "greater good".

However, it's naive to think this is a standalone issue and that is does not cut right across women's rights in all sorts of important areas - healthcare, social care, education etc...

For me the difficulty is what the political class seem to be willing to believe/espouse.

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I was terrified before, too - homophobia has become not just socially acceptable but actively encouraged in recent years (especially towards lesbians) and it's been shit for ages.

Also, opposition voices are one thing, but I think the tone and narrative is likely to shift slightly in some quarters now that Labour is in power and isn't the opposition any more.

It's all very well for an opposition party to shout "that's not good enough", but now they're in power and have to navigate this stuff head on, I suspect Starmer's narrative will shift to emphasise what a complex issue this is, especially as the conversion therapy bill he's committed himself to will highlight all sorts of issues he hasn't had to actually address head-on before.

It's kind of like the doctors' strikes thing where Starmer said in one of the early debates that it wouldn't happen on his watch as he will just "sit down and talk to them" to stop the strikes. Everything changes now that Labour are the ones being scrutinised and Starmer has to actually come up with workable solutions.

zaxxon · 05/07/2024 09:30

I have a daughter and I'm very worried about the impact on her of sea levels rising, destructive flooding and storms, the jet stream and gulf stream changing course or stopping altogether (which would change the UK's climate drastically), air pollution, water pollution, microplastic pollution... all of these worry me more than the prospect of her having to be in close proximity to trans people

Mitsky · 05/07/2024 09:30

Petitee · 05/07/2024 07:31

I have a baby daughter and I am terrified of her growing up with this Labour government with its current ideologies. I don't want her learning about sexual stuff from aged 5 and about graphic sex at school and being taught that if girls are tomboys then they should take testosterone. I am terrified of her going to the leisure centre and being forced to share a changing room with a naked man who identifies as a woman.

I am pregnant (not finding out) and I woke up this morning overjoyed that this child will be born into a Labour government.

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 05/07/2024 09:31

It was a tough choice. I didn't vote Labour though, I voted for my local independent - I had a leaflet pushed through the door AFTER I'd voted from two candidates yesterday - the guy I voted for's top thing was protecting women's spaces. So that's nice.

HowIrresponsible · 05/07/2024 09:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/07/2024 09:24

I'm delighted the Tories are gone. I hope their trans shitshow goes with them.Grin

It's only just beginning with your precious labour

Helloworld56 · 05/07/2024 09:32

Petitee · 05/07/2024 07:31

I have a baby daughter and I am terrified of her growing up with this Labour government with its current ideologies. I don't want her learning about sexual stuff from aged 5 and about graphic sex at school and being taught that if girls are tomboys then they should take testosterone. I am terrified of her going to the leisure centre and being forced to share a changing room with a naked man who identifies as a woman.

I can't imagine any of that happening. Five year olds are not being taught about graphic sex, and children are not being encouraged to take testosterone.
You are talking about possibilities that are highly unlikely.

Pipsquiggle · 05/07/2024 09:33

Of course I care about women's rights

The trans woman at work is less of a threat to me than some old lecherous male bosses / colleagues I have had in the past.

I didn't know that amongst the trans community there is such a high suicide / attempted suicide rate. I didn't know how much violence they experience.
These are people just trying to lead their lives.

My rights have never been impinged by the trans community as far as I know, however, I have been on the receiving end of sexism and unwanted advances.

I am not saying that the above doesn't matter and isn't worthy of discussion / debate but I am saying that the most dangerous group to women are cis men and that inequality, poverty, NHS, education, violence against women & girls usurp this issue.

Sloejelly · 05/07/2024 09:33

CeibaTree · 05/07/2024 09:18

I do get your point, but the conservatives have been in power for the past 14 years, and have done very little to stop the rampant gender ideology being unleashed on children and young people. I am not a fan of either party, but the conservatives have not exactly been a voice of reason in this topic.

I disagree. They certainly could and should have done more but they stopped self ID, including in Scotland. The stopped the conversion therapy bill. They replaced a TRA at EHRC with someone who balanced the rights of all. They issued new schools guidance rolling back on ideology. They belatedly banned puberty blockers. They commissioned Cass. All against a relentless worldwide push and antagonistic civil service.

The comparison is not with what went before but what would have happened if, like Canada, we had had a left wing party in power at that time.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 05/07/2024 09:33

Oh stop with the hysterics, ffs.
It's getting boring 😴

Stowickthevast · 05/07/2024 09:34

zaxxon · 05/07/2024 09:30

I have a daughter and I'm very worried about the impact on her of sea levels rising, destructive flooding and storms, the jet stream and gulf stream changing course or stopping altogether (which would change the UK's climate drastically), air pollution, water pollution, microplastic pollution... all of these worry me more than the prospect of her having to be in close proximity to trans people

This. 2 teen/tween Dds here who show no signs of being brainwashed by gender ideology.

Missmarple87 · 05/07/2024 09:34

I don't understand the 'priorities' argument. If you can't define yourself, everything else is pointless. It's fundamental - not a single, niche issue.

Seems that the critical thinking skills of the electorate are on par with those of the new cabinet. I.e. Stuck in the sixth form common room.

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