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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Venice Expelled from KLPA (Ladies Pond(

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MidnightPondSwimmer · 28/05/2024 17:15

Venice has been expelled from the Ladies Pond. It means nothing really as they are just a stakeholder group, but it makes them look terrible like little authoritarian ignoramuses.

Here's Venice's tweet with their silly email. x.com/roseveniceallan/status/1795437142757532118?s=46

She'll still be able to swim, she just won't be allowed to attend the utterly pointless but entertaining AGM.

It's interesting because they sent an email round a few weeks ago asking members to agree to the constitution and if anyone failed to agree then they would be expected to leave the KLPA.

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YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 19:14

Calling a whole group of people names would be seen by most people as transphobic.

AlisonDonut · 29/05/2024 19:20

YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 19:14

Calling a whole group of people names would be seen by most people as transphobic.

But calling women who object to men in the ladies pond 'bigots' is totally fine?

Karensalright · 29/05/2024 19:31

What “group” ?

Tallisker · 29/05/2024 19:58

But it's in the dictionary! Isn't that what we're told when we object to 'cis'? It's just a dictionary word so it must be ok to use it to describe someone.

MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 20:16

I think we've been misusing the word Troon. It's quite a useful word actually.

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Troons&page=2

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Christinapple · 29/05/2024 20:17

Tallisker · 29/05/2024 19:58

But it's in the dictionary! Isn't that what we're told when we object to 'cis'? It's just a dictionary word so it must be ok to use it to describe someone.

Cisgender and its prefix cis are indeed listed in dictionaries with given definitions, and are not described as derogatory.

From the dictionaries I've just checked (dictionary.com, Collins and Merriam-Web) there are no definitions for "troon" in this context. So it's not "in the dictionary".

It is listed on urban-dictionary if that counts and Wiktionary as:
"noun: (Internet slang, derogatory, offensive) A transgender person."

Summary:
Cisgender: A valid word found in all major dictionaries, none of them describe it as offensive.

Troon: A slang offensive derogatory term. Not found in major dictionaries, just informal internet slang websites.

YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:23

AlisonDonut · 29/05/2024 19:20

But calling women who object to men in the ladies pond 'bigots' is totally fine?

No it is not.
But people wrongly calling you a bigot, is not a reason to be transphobic.

WickedSerious · 29/05/2024 20:24

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YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:25

Calling a whole group of people names is always discrimination.

MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 20:27

I find the word cisgender extremely offensive. I've never heard it used in a normal conversation so I don't think normal people use it.

I'm guessing you're a bloke @Christinappl, sorry if you're not. Trans rights activists have been extraordinarily successful at getting policies, language etc etc changes behind the scenes, so the default position has become that we let men in women's spaces and that there's such a word as 'cisgender', but no more Dearie. The work has turned and we're not bloody having it. Absolutely not to 'cis', ever, and absolutely not to pretending men are women, ever.

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MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 20:27

**the WORM has turned

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YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:32

@MidnightPondSwimmer are you saying people who think they are a different sex do not exist?

DrSpartacular · 29/05/2024 20:33

YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:25

Calling a whole group of people names is always discrimination.

No, it isn't.

It could be offensive (though might not be) but that's not the same as being discriminatory.

MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 20:39

@YourPinkDog Is that what a trans person is; a person who thinks they are a different sex? If that's the definition, then I acknowledge that trans people exist. However your definition sounds like you think it's a delusion, a mental health condition.....

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GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 29/05/2024 20:52

I'm guessing you're a bloke @Christinappl, sorry if you're not

Oh here we go
Same old same old record
Now we've changed to the old favourite " if you don't agree with me you must be a man"
As well as "women who don't agree with me are corrupt and weak" 🙄
You really can't stand the thought there might be opinionated women who disagree with you, can you.
Better to dismiss them as men or corrupt weaklings
Feminism my arse.

YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:54

They always say you must be a man or a transactivist. Its always insults.
I too am an opinionated woman.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 29/05/2024 20:58

YourPinkDog · 29/05/2024 20:54

They always say you must be a man or a transactivist. Its always insults.
I too am an opinionated woman.

Yep,
Hear hear to opinionated women!
From a woman who can compute that women are all different with minds of our own.
Not like some that are like
Let Women Speak!
No not you

Waitwhat23 · 29/05/2024 21:08

I always find it informative which threads you choose to speak on. Any comments on the current Scottish Green threads? Cass Report analysis? Tickle v Giggle? Lloyd Russell - Moyles thread? Anything which might be slightly taxing to your world view?

By all means keep speaking.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 29/05/2024 21:13

By all means keep speaking

Will do 👍

Karensalright · 29/05/2024 21:38

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight

I remember you, from the Roz Adams hearing thread. Thought your comments there were quite un called for. We can pretend to be anybody here, some pull it off better than others IMO.

MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 21:40

It's not really that I assumed a strong opinionated person must be a man, it's more that I always assume that misogynists are men. Sorry. I know this isn't true and I apologise.

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GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 29/05/2024 22:29

Karensalright · 29/05/2024 21:38

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight

I remember you, from the Roz Adams hearing thread. Thought your comments there were quite un called for. We can pretend to be anybody here, some pull it off better than others IMO.

I don't think that was me as I don't remember being on a thread about that?
Think you're getting me mixed up with someone else, just searched back through all threads I've been on

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 29/05/2024 22:33

MidnightPondSwimmer · 29/05/2024 21:40

It's not really that I assumed a strong opinionated person must be a man, it's more that I always assume that misogynists are men. Sorry. I know this isn't true and I apologise.

father ted GIF

Lol, well there's a back handed non apology if ever there was one 😁
Case of "I'm sorry you misogynist
Father Jack apology if ever there was one 😁

Karensalright · 29/05/2024 22:34

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight that was the point

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