I think what you are seeing is mostly frustration at the way the most extreme ideas of what it means to be “trans” have been successfully pushed into people’s consciousness, into organisations, into the interpretation of law. This results in real harms, particularly to women, and particularly to women in certain situations. Harms also occur to the people very close to “trans identified” people when demands are made on them to deny reality, and these demands are often coercive because acknowledging reality is often framed as transphobic and there is real and often justified fear of estrangement from children or siblings, for example.
It is not prejudiced to stand up for the truth that it is impossible to change sex, or to argue that there is a better way to deal with “gender dysphoria” than affirmation and the highly euphemistic “gender affirming care”. That better way is to permit or even encourage “gender nonconformity” while not pretending in any way that anyone has changed from being a man to being a woman or vice versa. But so many people have bought into the notion that it is dreadfully impolite or worse to “misgender” someone who sees themself as the opposite sex, or would prefer to be seen as the opposite sex, or would like to be seen as neither male nor female (though this sometimes apparently requires surgery!).
I’m the sort of person who hates upsetting someone else, but I cannot cope with the cognitive dissonance and distress of lying about my son to appease trans allies who think being truthful is bigotry. I, like many others including many women concerned about the eroding rights of women, am very frustrated indeed by the incoherent nonsense that has infected society, and led people like my son onto a dangerous path. That path is dangerous for him, and could be dangerous for women if he gets sucked into the nastier corners of queer ideology.
So there could be times when I come across as prejudiced. I do not believe that to be the case. We need to try to understand each other at a deeper level than what we react to on the surface. I know a trans ally who sees me as transphobic though I love my son and have transgender friends, and appears to make no attempt to understand what I actually think. I don’t do as I’m told, so I am a bigot. That is prejudice on their part.
Have you considered the prejudice gender critical people face? Some have lost their jobs for stating biological reality. Some have lost family members for failing to be delighted enough that those family members are on a path to mutilating their bodies in a futile attempt to become something they are not.