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RebelliousCow · 25/02/2024 14:16

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:12

Lol. I used to talk like this 20 years ago. I generally don't any more, being in my 40s and all that.

But something about the pearl clutching Victorian prudishness and constant obsession with rules and boundaries on here brings it back out in me. Y'all need to chill!

Nature has boundaries and demarcations - which is why, at your age, you are having to undergo attempts at IVF. All healthy organisms have boundaries. Any organism without boundaries is not only defenceless but also exists in a state of chaos.Ther can be no equality or individuality without boundaries.

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 25/02/2024 14:16

So which is it do you always live life exactly as you want to or play the game awaiting the revolution?

Should I shoot MiL now or wait for the pesky revolution to show up?

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:16

RebelliousCow · 25/02/2024 14:12

You are speaking like a student when you talk about " after the revolution". It is just ridiculous nonsense. That the revolution has yet to happen suggests that your Grandad was also hopelessly unrealistic in his belief that 'the revolution' would just happen by itself without people actively changing their own behaviours and choices.

Oh for god sake. Anyone who's been active on the left throws in the odd, usually self satirising, 'after the revolution.' Doesn't mean we think it's imminent. Grandad never gave up hope. But he was very realistic. That's how and why he made enough money for me to afford private healthcare.

JanesLittleGirl · 25/02/2024 14:16

PP82 only needs to filibuster for another 170 posts to get this important thread talked out.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:18

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 25/02/2024 14:16

So which is it do you always live life exactly as you want to or play the game awaiting the revolution?

Should I shoot MiL now or wait for the pesky revolution to show up?

You shoot mine, I shoot yours? Like Strangers on a Train?

Edited to add, as no one here can detect irony, this was a joke!

RebelliousCow · 25/02/2024 14:18

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:16

Oh for god sake. Anyone who's been active on the left throws in the odd, usually self satirising, 'after the revolution.' Doesn't mean we think it's imminent. Grandad never gave up hope. But he was very realistic. That's how and why he made enough money for me to afford private healthcare.

I've been very active in Left circles myself, but then I grew up.

DialSquare · 25/02/2024 14:19

JanesLittleGirl · 25/02/2024 14:16

PP82 only needs to filibuster for another 170 posts to get this important thread talked out.

And not for the first time.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:19

RebelliousCow · 25/02/2024 14:18

I've been very active in Left circles myself, but then I grew up.

Well done. Your lurch to the right shows enormous maturity.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:20

JanesLittleGirl · 25/02/2024 14:16

PP82 only needs to filibuster for another 170 posts to get this important thread talked out.

Not sure talking about sex segregation on a thread about (checks) sex segregation is filibustering.

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 25/02/2024 14:23

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:18

You shoot mine, I shoot yours? Like Strangers on a Train?

Edited to add, as no one here can detect irony, this was a joke!

Edited

But you always do exactly what you want to do so why not off your own MiL? You aren't obsessed with rules and boundaries so what stopping you?

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:25

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 25/02/2024 14:23

But you always do exactly what you want to do so why not off your own MiL? You aren't obsessed with rules and boundaries so what stopping you?

I never said I didn't draw the line at murder. It's quite different to using the loo of your choice.

PriOn1 · 25/02/2024 14:28

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:04

I've never told anyone else not to use it, while we all still live under capitalism. Like my grandad used to say, you've got to play the game until the revolution.

Yeah. There won’t be a revolution if all you are doing is agreeing with the status quo and sitting in the sun enjoying your monied lifestyle.

Anarchist, my arse. Citizen Smith is still your role model.

SinnerBoy · 25/02/2024 14:30

PP82 · Today 10:45

+ + For someone so confident, you seem to be remarkably uninformed on the subject on which you claim to be an expert. + +

Umm. I'm not an expert. I've said time and time again that I'm not, and never been a TRA, whatever you think that is. Don't have to be to know right from wrong and counter your vile slurs.

I'm sorry, have you confused me with somebody else? I haven't called you a TRA and don't see what could be construed as a slur, never mind a vile one.

I simply observed that you are very confident in your viewpoint, but dismiss articles, studies and statistics from the Prison Service etc. Other posters have provided links to statistical studies etc and you're not interested in trying to counter them logically, nor provide your own counter evidence.

Datun · 25/02/2024 14:35

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:12

Lol. I used to talk like this 20 years ago. I generally don't any more, being in my 40s and all that.

But something about the pearl clutching Victorian prudishness and constant obsession with rules and boundaries on here brings it back out in me. Y'all need to chill!

So you know you're immature, you're fine with the hypocrisy of capitalising on a system you'd abolish for others, you can't explain any of your thoughts, and are just having a go at women, whilst admitting you don't really understand what the issues are - and you fondly imagine it all makes you look, what, cool? Not really a description of childish, incoherent, uninformed hypocrisy, is it?

Might I suggest you take your issues out on a different ideology? The damage transactivism is doing to a generation of children is incalculable and no-one will be left defending it before long. Many countries, including this one, are back peddling over the entire issue.

Pick a different cause to defend.

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 25/02/2024 14:38

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:25

I never said I didn't draw the line at murder. It's quite different to using the loo of your choice.

So roolz r4 foolz unless PP thinks they are important big rules like murder.
Society should never group or split people by sex except when PP decides she to know the woman donating eggs to her actually produces eggs because the ladies with a penis aren't much help on the egg donation front

So remember ladies do exactly want you want to do at all times, living just how you want unless PP decides something is important, then the rules count.

Sureaseggs44 · 25/02/2024 14:38

PP82 · 25/02/2024 13:34

Yes, but we are talking about parents not being allowed to control their children.

But what if a child wants to be homeschooled ? Or go to a single sex school. You are full of contradictions . And if anyone is free to do what they want then why can they not chose to have a female only swimming area ?

Baldieheid · 25/02/2024 14:38

It seems extremely sexist to allow males to access a "female only" swimming pond , thus removing all options for some females. Not when there are two other choices for the males. I realise that females can use the mixed pond, so im wondering why the cool chicks don't do that? Why instead do they invite the males they deem "special" into the female pool? When they know that means females who are not cool chicks have no other option, they're left with nowhere to go?

Seems selfish and cruel to me.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:47

SinnerBoy · 25/02/2024 14:30

PP82 · Today 10:45

+ + For someone so confident, you seem to be remarkably uninformed on the subject on which you claim to be an expert. + +

Umm. I'm not an expert. I've said time and time again that I'm not, and never been a TRA, whatever you think that is. Don't have to be to know right from wrong and counter your vile slurs.

I'm sorry, have you confused me with somebody else? I haven't called you a TRA and don't see what could be construed as a slur, never mind a vile one.

I simply observed that you are very confident in your viewpoint, but dismiss articles, studies and statistics from the Prison Service etc. Other posters have provided links to statistical studies etc and you're not interested in trying to counter them logically, nor provide your own counter evidence.

The vile slurs are not against me. The vile slurs are that trans women are sexual predators and that being trans is just a sexual fetish.

Sureaseggs44 · 25/02/2024 14:48

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:06

You'll end up with self id eventually, though you guys have been very effective at delaying, I'll give you that.

So can I self ID as 66 and get my pension earlier ? If not why not ?

SinnerBoy · 25/02/2024 14:51

Well, according to the statistics presented on this thread, a sizeable proportion of transw ARE predators. At least half of the trans prisoners in the UK are in for offences of sex and / or violence against women and children. In the general prison population, it's about one fifth.

Nobody is suggesting that all transw are predators.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:51

Datun · 25/02/2024 14:35

So you know you're immature, you're fine with the hypocrisy of capitalising on a system you'd abolish for others, you can't explain any of your thoughts, and are just having a go at women, whilst admitting you don't really understand what the issues are - and you fondly imagine it all makes you look, what, cool? Not really a description of childish, incoherent, uninformed hypocrisy, is it?

Might I suggest you take your issues out on a different ideology? The damage transactivism is doing to a generation of children is incalculable and no-one will be left defending it before long. Many countries, including this one, are back peddling over the entire issue.

Pick a different cause to defend.

Most of the time I have nothing to do with this cause. Literally only when I'm on mumsnet. I accept that the populist right has been successful at rowing back trans rights in many countries. I doubt it will last, particularly in the UK once the tories are out, however shit the current Labour Party is. But we'll see.

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:53

Baldieheid · 25/02/2024 14:38

It seems extremely sexist to allow males to access a "female only" swimming pond , thus removing all options for some females. Not when there are two other choices for the males. I realise that females can use the mixed pond, so im wondering why the cool chicks don't do that? Why instead do they invite the males they deem "special" into the female pool? When they know that means females who are not cool chicks have no other option, they're left with nowhere to go?

Seems selfish and cruel to me.

You are erasing trans men from this equation.

Sureaseggs44 · 25/02/2024 14:53

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:47

The vile slurs are not against me. The vile slurs are that trans women are sexual predators and that being trans is just a sexual fetish.

Nope that is not what people are saying . But the facts about who is responsible for sexual assaults and rape are facts . Hence why there are segregated spaces . Just a calculated risk in specific circumstances . And protection for young girls who have their periods and want privacy and older people who are embarrassed going to the toilet next to a man . Etc etc . I personally don’t care if third spaces are provided . But I do care about womens language and womens spaces .

Sureaseggs44 · 25/02/2024 14:54

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:53

You are erasing trans men from this equation.

They are free to use the mixed pool ? What is the problem ?

Sureaseggs44 · 25/02/2024 14:57

PP82 · 25/02/2024 14:51

Most of the time I have nothing to do with this cause. Literally only when I'm on mumsnet. I accept that the populist right has been successful at rowing back trans rights in many countries. I doubt it will last, particularly in the UK once the tories are out, however shit the current Labour Party is. But we'll see.

It’s nothing to do with left or right ? That’s just a cop out . People are free to have opinions on womens rights and language whatever political ideology they relate to .

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